How can I learn to be turned on by normal sex? Right now I literally cannot be turned on unless there is some sort of bondage, humiliation, domination, hair pulling or choking involved. Too much porn probably, I know, but I've quit that shit and it's still the same thing. I just can't have respectable love making, just not turned on by it at all. Is there anything I can do?
>>23645430if u can afford it, sex workers
>>23645430chicks dig domination, hair pulling, choking, and some degree of humiliation if you are hot, buff, and assertive.
>>23645443Most of them don't on my experience. Some definitely do, but like 80% of them start crying 15 seconds after you pull their hair or choke them. This girl I just had over yesterday was claiming how she "likes it rough" and started hyperventilating when I handcuffed her and bound her eyes with her leggings that I had just stripped off her so we had to stop. Later she said she didn't really like it and started feeling anxious
>>23645430This is going to sound really faggy, but faggy things that work, still work.Separate sex (intimacy with a person you love), and fucking (getting your rocks off).If you want to cum, do what you gotta do. If you want to have "normal sex" be in the moment with that person.If that doesnt work, find someone whos into your kinks, and hope that it doesnt get worse.
>>23645430>Too much porn probablyYeas, basically. Quit porn for good.
>>23645430Have you ever had the opportunity for ordinary vanilla sex? It may not be what you most enjoy fantasizing about, but give it a try. With a real live naked woman right in front of you, you might respond more than you think.
>>23645430Age.With age, your preferences change.Just indulge in your degenerate acts right now.