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>go onto OkCupid
>search for asexual women within 50 miles of me
>1 result
>search for asexual women within 100 miles of me
>3 results
>search for asexual women within 500 miles of me
>5 results
>everyone was last active 3 years ago
What do? Is it even possible to become biromantic?
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>>13344050
Try other apps, okcupid has notoriously low populations of everything
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>>13344856
What apps are better for example?
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>>13344050
ace-book.net

can't guarantee you'll find anyone near you but it's surprisingly active. i found people near me and i live in idaho of all places.
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>>13345523
cunnyhunters is ok, but it's better through tor
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Try tinder :))
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>>13345546
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>>13344050
I've unironically seen a fair few decently interesting-looking, active, aces on tinder. I left swipe on them because they're obviously not for me, but there you go, yo.
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>>13344050
>Relationships with a nonasexual people is practically impossible
>Practically have to go deep diving for asexual people

One day anon. One day.
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>>13348262
>be asexual
>dating pool fucking obliterated
>people who aren't ace assume your hormones are fucked, you're insecure, confused, etc
>mentioning being asexual weirds people out or makes them hostile towards you
>get a ton of shit from the group that's supposed to support you, even shitholes like tumblr are hostile
>ignored and forgotten constantly

I used to wonder why asexuals have such a high suicide attempt rate. Now I understand why.
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>>13349319
Things will be better in the future when we get more exposure and normalization. Until then, we'll have to stick to dating apps where 99% of your matches will be cis white women halfway across the country.

On the brighter side, at least being asexual is easy to hide and we don't have to worry about straights beating us in the street.
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>biromantic
>asexual

What is this some kind of science fiction deal
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aces in illinois here?
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>>13344050
Only thing worse than this is when you are searching for asexual men.
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>>13351748
Find a gay guy in the closet and be his beard. Then you don't have to have sex.
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>>13349934
Usually means like like companionship and cuddling, but don't wanna fuck.
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>>13351873
I should proofread before posting. The first "like" should be "they".
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>tfw no ace gf to lock my pp away so that i can't pester her anymore
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>>13351887
>lock my pp away
Are chastity belt fetish fags for asexuals the equivalent of trans chasers? Is that a thing?
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>>13351897
What about people who fantasize about having am ace gf/bf who will let them sleep around?
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>>13344050
There's a decent amount of aces around where I live, but I'm a college dropout living with my parents in our shitty decaying house working a shit job that couldn't afford rent. I want to die everyday.
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Have you tried having a real sexuality??
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>>13352879
yeah, it didn't work
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>>13349319
>Asexual
>Dating
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>>13352985
a person not desiring sex for whatever reason (repulsed, disinterest, physical limitations) doesn't preclude them from wanting a partner and companionship in life. it seems pretty straightforward to me and i'm not ace. just super low libido
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>>13351873
I think that this is just a byproduct of society's continued conditioning of sex being inherently evil, shameful, or bad.
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>>13352993
It isn't, i for one am completely into a load of quite kinky shit and 100% do not care what society thinks i should and should not be attracted to nowadays. (apart from like pedophilia or something obviously)

And despite this sex or nudity has never at any point done anything for me, it didn't bother me, i just wasn't interest in it. It's like everyone else has a kink that i am really not into.

I forced myself to watched so much porn in the attempt to fix my self of this growing up and it changed nothing and not once did it make me feel anything.
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>>13353033
wait so you're into kinky shit but don't want to have sex, can you explain how that works? like you just think it's cool but don't want to engage in it irl or something?
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>>13353056
Kinky shit minus the sex bits. I don't have any explicity sex based ones,im more for stuff where the focus is on the power dynamics in the situation rather then the sex.

I guess a good example would be bdsm, getting tied up and feeling utterly powerless == hot, actually fucking them? aggressively eh, not really a fan of the nudity either.
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>>13353147
i get it now, thanks anon
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Is it fucked up I'm non-ace ( and yes, non virgin) and have an ace gf? I just Jack off once a day, and she says it doesn't bother her. Been together 7 months
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>>13353335
Its totally fine if you both are happy. If I were in her position I'd worry about not being able to keep you happy, that you'd leave to find someone you can sex. What are your thoughts anon, do you enjoy the relationship as it is? No hangups?
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>>13353147
autism
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>>13353690
no u
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>>13352993
Considering most asexuals are for sex positivity (even though sexual positivity in general doesn't give a fuck about the sexual autonomy of asexuals) or are indifferent to it, I'd say otherwise. Prude asexuals who can't stand anything sexual and think sexuality should be hidden are a minority. Of course, this immediate reaction and assumption about asexuals is a byproduct of a society where the increasing support of sexual liberation that assumes everyone wants to have sex or desires it and that not having as much sex as possible is a crime against humanity that reinforces puritanical views on sex.

The first known essay on asexuality addresses this (for asexual women mostly, but it applies to asexual men too). We're moving away from a society that assumes sex should be hidden no matter what and discouraged outside of marriage to one where everyone is expected to upfront about the sexual life and engage in it whenever possible. Asexuality in both are seen as a "dysfunction" that should be fixed, with the former doing so from a reproductive standpoint (even though asexuals can want and do have children) and the latter from the view asexuality is 'incompatible' with what they're striving for (which is why you have gay and bi people that unironically think asexuals need conversion therapy).
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>>13352993
Lole, quite the contrary. Society is a sex crazed culture.
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>>13354376
Overpopulation ecological-collapse
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>>13354376
Some asexuals are sexually abused as kids and are turned off from sex because they subconsciously associate sex with abuse.
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>>13359187
I wouldn't call those people asexuals (assuming they weren't asexual before the abuse happened), just sexually repressed due to trauma. And in that case they should seek help because sexual abuse does a lot more to a person's psyche than just make them sexually repressed or hyper sexual.
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>>13359526
I also just realized the double standard in assuming asexuals are sexually abused meanwhile sleeping around constantly is just "They really like sex!" despite hypersexuality being just as probable in sexual abuse victims as repression.
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>create OKC account
>talk about me wearing diapers
>upload pics of me with diaper overflowing
>get up close shots of the gravy leg
>someone wants to meet me!
>set up date, location, and time
>mug them
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>>13352879
I have tried this, real hard. Many times. I wish it worked
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>>13359579
Are you a gay man, a lesbian, a bi person, a trans person, or an asexual?



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