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Colonel Kurtz edition.
Previous thread: >>13210775.
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>>13277802
Start of day two of no caffeine. Felt restless last night, woke up about five times throughout it. Really tired this morning, which sucks because I have class with a professor who has a very monotone and quiet voice that seems perfect for lulling burnt out students to sleep.
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>>13277964
Keep it up anon. Its going to take a bit for your body to adjust, but it will be worth.
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>>13277997
Thanks. I'm not intending to be completely caffeine free by the end of this, but I want to see how far I can make it. Hopefully this doesn't interfere with my classwork.
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Page 8 bump with a question.

What did you do for your labor day weekend?

I pretty much just relaxed. Sort of regret it because now I'm slightly behind on classwork, but I'll manage. My parents came up to meet me which was nice.
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>>13277802
Doing no-fap September. Wish me luck lads.
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>>13280985
Don't get prostate cancer anon, good luck.
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Just started talking to an older guy on grindr.
Never had sex of any kind before.
Any advice no how to not get HIV/murdered?
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>>13281033
I would advise against using Grindr. All I hear are bad things about it; full of old weird men it seems. But if you wanna go ahead use a condom I guess.
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>>13281046
What would be an alternative?
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>>13281070
Talking to people irl
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>>13280985
Good luck!

>>13281070
Finding people in-person or use a dating site with paid membership. Whatever you do, just be safe.
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>>13281070
Tinder is pretty okay as long as you really narrow down that age range so you don't run into the creeps that are eithermuch older or younger
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>>13281256
Not who you're replying to, but I've used tinder and got no luck. I kept getting the same bots over and over again. I think tinder only works in really big cities where there's lots of people online.
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>>13281274
Bumble is alright for finding relationships, but its the same problem as tinder. If you're not in a big city, you'll exhaust possible partners in minutes.
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>>13281033
>Never had sex of any kind before.
>Any advice no how to not get HIV/murdered?
by not using grindr. im one to talk but i regret using hookup apps so there is that.
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Who thought that 3 hour long classes were a good thing!? They're such a massive chore to sit through.
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>>13281888
Soon you’ll have a ten hour class every day where you learn nothing.
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>>13281888
Damn, yea 3hrs is a bit too long. Haven't had one of those since freshman year aerospace1. Godspeed anon.
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>>13281958
What kind of freak college do you go to?
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>>13281981
It's the first class I've taken that requires 2 breaks during class. Fortunately I'm graduating this semester so I'll be free from this soon.
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>>13281888
i had a 6-10pm class once per week one time. The professor didnt have enough stamina to go over 3 though ever
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>>13281994
Congrats anon!
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>>13281998
Thanks! Its been a long journey.
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>>13281983
Job university
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>>13282015
if you're working 10 hr days after getting a degree, you chose the wrong degree. Unless you love work.
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>>13282066
I love work and make borderline fuck you money, it’s fine really.
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>>13281888
>have to commute to college since i live innawoods
>have one class that's 8 am to 10
>the next one starts at 3 pm
fuck this
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End of second day of no caffeine. I'm pretty sure I fell asleep during class which sucks. But at least the dull pain-like pressure at the back of my head is gone. I've taken a liking to sparkling water, "assorted berries" in particular. Hopefully I'll sleep better tonight. Goodnight /big/.
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>>13283238
Keep it up anon! We believe in you, good dreams!
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>>13282113
Doing?


T. I want to make fuck you money and have no idea what to go back to uni to study. I am thinking of doing a post grad in commerce, but I don’t know if that is too basic and I won’t actually get a job with it.
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>>13277802
Been about a week or so cutting sugar from my coffee. Been using stevia instead and it's working pretty well. Need to lose weight and sugar's my biggest downfall.
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>>13283377
Data engineering in fintech.
Everyone is angry all of the time and probably a third of my coworkers have undiagnosed autism.
I genuinely love it.
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>>13277802
give me motivation to go nofap so i can finally have sex pls /b/iothers
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>>13284272
no fap is a meme
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>be me, bi male
>love sucking dick, with semen and saliva running over my face and body
>grow a hobo beard
>suddenly can't picture myself sucking dick like I used too
>really like how I look but have lost one of my passions in life
Wew
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>>13277802
>/big/
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what do when i go from "you can do it, you're handsome" to "you cant even walk right how are you supposed to fuck someone" in ten seconds?
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>>13285540
Wait ten seconds more and go back to "you can do it, you're handsome".
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>>13285620
for ten seconds anon
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>>13285630
Live in the moment.
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>>13284272
You already have your motivation: to have sex. Stop pathetically watching others live their lives and go live your own.
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>tfw aging bisexual virgin
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>>13285884
Literally just get Grindr
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has anyone else just stopped openly identifying as bi? literally everyone, gay and straight, hates us and still believes we all “pick a side” when we enter a long-term monogamous relationship. i’ve started feeling like it’s pointless and borderline narcissistic to keep doing this navel-gazing internal identification bullshit. i’m just me, i happen to be attracted to both sexes, it’s not a major component of my identity.

or maybe i’m just feeling emo because “bisexuality” has so much stigma attached to it. idk.
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>>13286760
>has anyone else just stopped openly identifying as bi?
Well I've only came out to one person, so not really? The fact that I'm bi doesn't really come up often.

>literally everyone, gay and straight, hates us and still believes we all “pick a side” when we enter a long-term monogamous relationship. i’ve started feeling like it’s pointless and borderline narcissistic to keep doing this navel-gazing internal identification bullshit.
If you're talking about worrying how strangers feel about you because they fell for bi stereotypes, then you shouldn't worry because random idiots are going to hate on you for any reason even if you weren't bi. If you're talking about family and dates, then hopefully you have a good enough relationship with your family to work things out. As for your date, if they leave because you're bi right away, then consider that a good thing because that means that you didn't have to be with them for a while and build up trust and love with them before they shatter it.

>i’m just me, i happen to be attracted to both sexes, it’s not a major component of my identity.
That's probably the best way to deal with being bi desu.

>or maybe i’m just feeling emo because “bisexuality” has so much stigma attached to it. idk.
Maybe you should focus on other things, like new hobbies, until you feel better.

Things will get better, and remember that you're not alone.
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>used to be attracted to just anime traps/furry twinks
>now attracted to big dicks and muscle men
How do I make it stop?
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>>13287159
How do I continue on? I'm at that awkward middle stage where I like "not fem/twink" guys but prefer if they had soft features.
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>>13286760
Forget those people. Toxic people, whether gay it straight, arent worth your time, attention, or feels. Especially since your sexuality shouldn't define who you are.
If you're bi, you're bi. That's all there is to it. You don't need to answer to anyone who thinks they can tell you otherwise. And if people give you shit for it, tell them to fuck off and mind their own shit.
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>>13287159
>>13287248
Both of you should just love who you love, no need to stop or force it forward. Just let them pure feels roll over you and find someone to love.
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>>13287405
Thanks anon.
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>>13286760
I just don't make it my center anon. Unless it comes up most people probably assume I'm straight (Dating a woman) and I make no indication that I like men. if it comes up I mention it, but I don't fly the colors or wear bisexual related clothing or make bisexual related posts.

I also don't identify with the LGBTWTFBBQ movement because I find the majority of it disgraceful and simply fucking annoying to say nothing of how bisexuals are treated in the larger community.
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>>13288468
Yea, desu the "LGBTABC123 movement" isn't helping anyone nowadays. It's just people that want to be oppressed or to swing around giant purple dildos in public. And all it does is de-normalize homosexuality/transgenders/etc.
And also, people (especially gay people) who say that bisexuals don't exist are some of the biggest dicks. And not the cute kind of dicks either, but the STD ridden, ugly ones.
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>>13288468
>>13288779
good
now fuck off, B can do without selfish retards who can memorize an acronym
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>>13288863
Sorry anon, but if you're that offended at us making a joke about the LGBTATMLOL acronym, you may have some problems with relying too much on a ideology rather than on who you as a person.
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>>13288779
Agreed. That's why I don't associate with them, because I like to think I'm at least semi-normal and that shit just ain't normal.
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>>13288779
>>13288975
This, I went with a friend to see my university center. They told us that they don't consider bisexuality as valid, "because it excludes those who are non binary and we should say that we are pansexual". Yet a week later they wanted everyone to go rally and "fight for our rights as one" to oppose some straight parade.
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>>13289102
It's not even that the LGBT crowd is against B that makes me upset with them, nor is it that they are being very hypocritical about Bi people not existing when their own existence was questioned just a few years back. It's that the entire movement is full of attention seeking whores instead of trying to make people see that "hey, we're normal too".
Like, I get that the "straight pride movement" was started to oppose LGBT, but why not get into it? Start supporting the straight movement and the LGBT movement at the same time to prove that, "we are all the same". That will do more to change the hearts and minds of people on both sides that are full of anger to maybe acceptance of each other. Because after all, we need more love in the world, rather than all this hate for the 'others'.
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>>13288885
>ideology
>lol i was only pretending to be lgbtphobic
preteens shouldn't be allowed to post here
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>>13289102
ONE moron make you throw the whole community in the trashbin? and you don't oppose the "straight" parade?
lol
>>13289163
>both sides
the str8 parade was literally created by neonazis/altright/whatever-new-fancy-name-they-use-nowadays attention seeking whores: just check their leaders, and the photos of the events (and their supporters)
and no, we're not "normal", we're fundamentally different from the majority, and it isn't wrong at all to be proud of & defend this identity

guys, it's sad to spend so much time writing such easy baits
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>watching anime with girlfriend
>hot anime guy is on screen
>she playfully gushes about him to try to get me jealous
>agree with her that he's hot, and then talk about how I would bang him to establish dominance over her
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>>13285884
Be my bf/gf and we can be aging virgins together anon
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>>13289632
>neonazis/altright
No. It was just a bunch of neocons and libertarians who have nothing to entertain themselves with. Most right-wingers thought it was lame as hell.
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>needing an acronym to have a sense of identity and community
Sad!
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>>13289858
Yeah! This! Fuck NASCAR!
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>>13289591
>lgbtphobic
>is literally bi
Hmmmmm...
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Are traps bisexual rather than gay?
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>>13290603
If they are the kind of people who get fucked in the ass by men but enjoy looking like women then ya they are bi
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>>13286760
>has anyone else just stopped openly identifying as bi?
Don't do it, please. That's what all biphobes want.

>>13290603
Traps can be straight, gay or bisexual.
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>>13286760
I like being openly bisexual because it's provocative. It's fun to see people's reactions and egg them on further when they look unhappy.
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>>13290243
>they don't know about internalized lgtphobia
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>>13290603
THIS
this is how this meme should be framed
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help pls i’m not attracted to women but i occasionally have fantasies where a girl dominates me gently and calls me a good boy. i thought i was gay. im not attracted to girls at all, i wouldn’t have sex with one or date one. maybe fool around but only for shits and giggles or whatever. this is still really weird though. can i still be gay?? does this make me bi now? thoughts pls help
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>>13293766
honestly, fuck it, man, just call yourself whatever you're comfortable with. still sounds mostly gay to me.

also, /big/, what's up with all the drop the _ shit out here? how do y'all feel about the rest of the letters, and our place with em?
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>>13293766
Classic humiliation/domination fatnasy: the fact that a woman would dom you is just the cherry on the cake (since you probably consider females lesser than males unconsciously).
don't worry honey, you're still 100% gay.
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>>13293778
>drop the _
meh
it's the usual /pol/-fueled /lgbt/ banter, it's cyclical: only newfags cares about it
(and more Letters are better to fight against het meanies)
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>>13290603
Hot take I just came up with: The whole discussion about whether traps are gay or not is actually bi erasure.
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>>13293778
>what's up with all the drop the _ shit out here?
I'm pretty sure its mostly trolls. And the people who honestly want that stuff aren't worth listening to.

>how do y'all feel about the rest of the letters, and our place with em?
I'm alright with them. Kinda wished L and G took B more seriously rather than seeing B as "diet gay". I'm neutral with T although they seem to be pretty chill to chat with.
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Start of day four of no caffeine. Feel less tired in the mornings now, been sleeping better. Not sure how much longer I should continue this experiment though. Trying to be careful not to get addicted to something else in the meantime.
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>>13290603
At least the one in your image. Canonically bi.
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>>13293833
>(and more Letters are better to fight against het meanies)
i have found more internalized biphobia in the LGBT community tho
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>>13293778
>also, /big/, what's up with all the drop the _ shit out here? how do y'all feel about the rest of the letters, and our place with em?
i kinda get it. we really only need one letter Queer to describe everyone. personally, id rather not anything to do with T because Im a body purist to some degree.
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>>13295451
I find its less that they want "less letters to describe people" and more "we dont want that type of people to be part of the movement". Of course, its mostly a meme, but still...
And as for Ts, yes, many of them (especially here) are the worst kind. But the few I've met IRL or talked with more personally online are good folk and the idea of them "being dropped" just doesn't sit well with me.
>But anon, they are annoying and pushy.
Yes, a few are like that, especially here. But a few vocally bad apples shouldn't speak for the majority of people.
>But anon, its not really a sexuality.
I agree, but there is a lot of overlap there. And many of the arguments made against being Bi are the same made against being Trans. So, in my opinion, they fall under the same shade of "sexual deviance" and both are worth having a supporting group for IMHO.
>But anon, doesn't pedophilia fall under that same group?
Yes, but pedos are fucking disgusting and hurt others while following their disgusting fetish. You may find trans people gross, but they are only affecting themselves while doing it.
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all i want is a man stuck inside a girl's body for a gf
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The only guys I've been able to meet in my small southern college town that are also into guys have been insufferable manthots, and most of the girls are regularthots. How do you go about meeting someone to have a committed relationship with? I don't want to have to wait till I'm 30 to find love, I just want someone to cuddle with and do things together.
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>>13294713
I’m proud of you anon. Keep it up bro!
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>>13280985
I'm fapping. But no longer to porn
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>>13296933
dunno, just be yourself and wait
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>>13297031
How do you stop watching porn? I haven't fapped but I can't stop looking at it.
>>13296933
Finding the right person takes time, anon.
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Page 8 bump.
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Page 8 bump #2.
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>Try out online dating for the first time.
>Internally say: Eww, who are these old hags/hogs.
>Calm down, they're like one year older than you.
>OMG, I've gotten old without realizing it.
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>>13280683
For labor day weekend I went to a tabletop gaming convention in Washington DC. Managed to get back before the storms/hurricane though my airport was closing. Was pretty fun. Longest distance I traveled just to play in a tournment.

>>13280985
Good luck.

>>>>13283238
>I've taken a liking to sparkling water,
Stop drinking that and protect your teeth.

>>13286760
I've never identified as bi, except to SO's when it should already be immediately obvious (because if it's homosexual duh, if it's not I'm weird enough and make sufficient comments where it should be apparent), and a couple old friend from high school. Immediate family members that I regular see either outright disapprove of LGBT, or seem to wrap their heads around pure gayness and think bisexuality is even worse. So ... not going to deal with that. Once brought a S.O. home as "just friends."

>>13294713
If you think quitting caffeine is hard, try quitting sugar and HFCS. When I did that for 40 days there were some points where I was left starving. I mean, come on I get processed foods like bread and pasta sauces, but Sushi too? Basically averaged 1200 calories a day, even on days I thought I was gorging myself.

>>13297031
Which reminds me.
By the way, have you guys/gals ever masturbated to yourself in a mirror.
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>>13303195
>Stop drinking that and protect your teeth.
Thanks.

Just as an update, I decided to break my quitting period and had a soda today. It tasted pretty good. What I was surprised by was how easy it was to quit it desu. I might go for longer after this weekend.
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help im exclusively attracted to transmen and idk how to cope or indulge or even feel about this beyond petty "tfw lonely" tier bs
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>>13305541
I mean, you can find one to date (just don't mention the preference to be safe) I guess. Care to explain why you have this preference?
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>>13305565
got muddled relationship experiences in the past, best relationship to date was with a transman, and ngl he kinda turned me onto the whole thing, hadnt the slight interest before it and now, despite beign two years since us dating, and having seen other people since, i am p much exclusively attracted to trans men and have some strange ass deeply set desire to be with one for the rest of my life and to love one and also sex ig
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>>13305598
At least that doesn't sound like some weird fetish. I don't know where to meet transmen or even spot them, but I wish you good luck.
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>>13277802
Any Bio Bitches in Dublin ?
(women, genetic women) who are DTF/no strings.
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>>13305691
>Bio Bitches
That's the first time I've heard that term outside of robot waifu discussion.
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>>13303195
>Which reminds me.
>By the way, have you guys/gals ever masturbated to yourself in a mirror
not yet, thx for the suggestion
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>>13303195
>By the way, have you guys/gals ever masturbated to yourself in a mirror.
Once, but that was back when I hated my body so it wasn't really that good. Thanks for the idea though.
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have you ever felt bad about pretending to be straight while in the closet? i still do
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>>13306009
I'm out to everyone but my family and old HS friends I don't interact with much anymore (I live at uni, far from them, its easier). It's hard, I don't like lying to them, but I also don't feel comfortable enough to come out yet.
So to answer your question, yes. Every time I talk with them and I have to lie about my homosexual tendencies, yes.
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>>13306009
Not really, unless I get strong homosexual feelings. And I just deal with that by talking about them here or to my girlfriend (with some care). Although having to hide it does kinda suck.
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>bisexuals on the bisexual thread
What kind of upside down mirror world is this?
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>>13306181
I thought this has always been the place for bis. What are you even talking about?
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>>13306181
wizardry
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>>13306181
Truly the rarest of occurrences
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>>13306197>>13306187
>>13306183
Alot of bis go to gaygen. I wanted to know if they go back and forth from threads or just gaygen. Looks like i got my ansewer
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>>13306183
He means that the thread got a spike on activity. Most of the time, bisexuals post in /clg/ or /gaygen/.
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>>13306213
I only go to gaygen when it's clear that no one is chatting in bigen. But more bis should try to stick around to chat even if its not about being bi.
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>>13306213
gaygen is too degenerate for me, from a guy that finds furries normal is saying something
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>girlfriend comes back from vacation on Friday
>we're both too swamped with work to meet this weekend
n-next weekend hopefully
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Anyone know any good anime with bi characters?
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>>13306345
Damn that sucks.
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>>13306577
Lupin the Third: The Woman Called Fujiko Mine has a bisexual Fujiko Mine.
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>>13306690
Thanks!
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>>13306586
Yeah, we're both pretty sad over it. We're gonna try to clear up some time for tomorrow, but it's not a guarantee. We missed each other alot.
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Imma be real, i dont get bisexuality. Like whats the point evolution wise?
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>>13306953
Assuming you're not joking, I don't know. Whatever theory explains the evolutionary angle of homosexuality can probably be applied to bisexuality too.
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>>13306970
Thank you
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>>13306978
No problem.
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>>13307137
This. This is it.
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>>13307168
Surprisingly, there are other memes with this theme.
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>>13307177
I'll just dump the rest I have I guess. If you regularly visit this general, then you have probably seen them before.
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>>13307186
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=dMseH5GIVTA
What would count as bi music?
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>>13307638
Wasn't Freddie Mercury bi? That counts I guess? Not really sure that would qualify as "bi music" other than the artist being bi or mentioning bi stuff in songs.
Maybe songs that mesh two seemingly contradictory genres?
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>>13307672
Well, i was more asking about the sound. Like the gays have edm, id figure we would get alt rock or something. Maybe pop punk.
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To bis who have dated other bis, what's it like compared to straight or homosexual dating?
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>>13307754
That's a thing? What's the reasoning for gay = edm?
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>>13307790
Idk, im bi.
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>>13307754
well i like industrial and metal of the 80s variety
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>>13307793
Maybe this gen should put it up for vote?
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>>13307803
Sire lets do that.
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>>13307811
>Sire
Thank you for the respect.

I guess I'll set up the Straw Poll. Should we vote on general genres and then narrow it down? Or should we just post suggestions here and then pick the most common ones for the poll?
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>>13307841
Lets do suggestions then the poll. I said 90s alt.
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>>13307860
We can start a reply train here. Someone said industrial 80s metal. I'll suggest glam metal.
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imma post the bi flag here because I think it's neat.
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>>13307963
It’s the best flag and the only one that doesn’t look way too girly aside from the labrys lesbian one.
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>>13306953
having any partner, be it female or male increases the odds of having another one
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>>13307137
there's an error
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>>13307995
I like the colors in general, but maybe they should have more contrast between them. The purple stripe merges with the pink and blue a little too much imo. Other than that, I like the flag. It's different and unique, but it doesn't try hard to be different so it's still nice to look at.
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>>13308080
Which is?
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>>13307877
musics with a very happy tune and a depressing or bittersweet lyrics
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>>13308108
in the hand, girlfriend is written wrong
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>>13308121
I swear I've reread that meme 3 times and I didn't notice anything until you mentioned it. Good thing I didn't make the meme, only stole it, or else that would be a dumb mistake to make.
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>>13308135
as a non-native, I very easily identify errors in English
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>>13295432
The ‘lgbt’ community is basically bi’s/trans. So that’s ironic you say that.

Gays just say gay/refer to things as gay. It’s a meme that the queer/lgbt community is biphobic as you lot are the ones pushing ‘lgbt’ to be a thing in the first place. Don’t mistake gays not caring about you for active biphobia. Disinterest/distaste does not equal hate. I don’t care for bisexuals, I’m only bothered but them in stuff like this. We aren’t ‘one’. As you have said in this thread, you aren’t ‘diet gay’. You are different and seperate to being gay. Fine. But don’t get bitter when gays actually put that into motion and ignore you.

T gay, not lgbt
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>>13308169
my straight friends didn't give a fuck if i was straight or bi
my gay friends said i'm just a straight guy looking for an easier hole to fuck
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>>13308167
Fair enough. I'm a native English speaker and I pretty much gave up trying to keep up with it's schizophrenic spelling. I actually remember the exact moment when I gave up, 5th grade when I had a spelling test and couldn't spell "gnaw". That stupid silent g frustrated me so much.
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>>13306009
It definitely feels weird sometimes. I've only told one person, not sure how the familia would react. I had a catholic upbringing, so I figured it's best not to bring it up.

>Inb4 priest joke
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>>13308386
>familia
where u from?
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>>13308386
>I've only told one person, not sure how the familia would react
Same, but unfortunately they're still financially supporting me so I'm just going to stay "in the closet" until my wallet is independent from them juuuuust in case they don't like that I'm bi.
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>>13308416
California
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>>13308468
ooF
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>>13308590
pls no bulli
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>>13308665
no need, you live in cali(f)ornia
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>>13308447
Better to play it safe for now. I hope things work out for you.
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>>13308738
Thanks. While my parents are conservative, I'm sure they'll accept me even a little bit. But there's always that fear. Plus I'm the "only behaved child" after some complicated inter family issues that I don't want to get into right now, so they might interpret randomly dropping that I'm bi in conversation as me deviating from what they consider as "behaved".
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>>13308800
I have big family and I could only guess how they would react. My brother would probably just shrug it off and have some funny/smartass comment, we jokingly call each other fag and such. My cousins around my age, I imagine, might be understanding. I'm not sure how my grandfather would react though, he's very stone faced. I think my dad would be disappointed, he's not fond of gays, my mom might sympathize, but I feel that deep down, she wouldn't approve.
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>>13309101
>I think my dad would be disappointed, he's not fond of gays
but you are not gay though, and you'll probably end up bringing people of the opposite sex home´to begin with with lol
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How do bisexuals with extreme feelings for the same sex deal with it in an opposite sex relationship? I score 4 on the Kinsey test and out in public I get constant sexual feelings for the same sex. They are too pervasive. I'm religious too. I keep eating my own sexual fluids all the time because I'm horny too.
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Have any of you experienced a relationship with a much younger guy? Like a 5-6 years gap. What's your experience with it? I feel like it can't work.
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>>13308800
Are... are you me?
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Lol 69
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>>13309325
>How do bisexuals with extreme feelings for the same sex deal with it in an opposite sex relationship?
I just watch some gay porn until my curiosity is satisfied. Sometimes I bring it up with my girlfriend to talk about it with her but that's tricky to do. Then again I'm only a 3 on the scale.

>>13310748
Nice.
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>>13310743
Maybe you're my long lost twin. lol
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>>13307782
less gay
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>>13307790
>What's the reasoning for gay = edm?
drugs
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>>13311300
Exquisite detail, anon.
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>>13311304
Drugs?
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>>13306577
Neon Genesis Evangelion
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Bi Music Poll
strawpoll.me/18610399
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>>13311615
the correct answer is Japanese hardcore
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>>13311615
When will the poll close?
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>>13298770
How do you watch porn that is so captivating you cannot stop looking, and not fap?
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>>13311718
I dont know. How about when the general dies?
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>>13311732
That's going to be one long wait then...
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>>13311752
Yeah, but thats good. More people will be able to vote, therefore it will be more accurate. We just gotta remember to repost the link every so often.
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Vaporwave seems like a solid bet for bi music. I love stuff like Coil but I must admit it's much more gay than bi.
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>>13311796
I prefer sped up vaporwave myself.
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>>13311804
Isnt that just normal shit,?
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>>13311817
You tell me
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m6qmruyzc4o
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>>13311832
Sounds like gba music.
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>>13311837
>gba music
Game Boy Advance Music?
Gay Bi Ace Music?
Gary Barry Airy Music?
Great Britain Agricultural Music?
GoGo's Bizarre Adventure Music?
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>>13311949
Gba
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>>13311954
What's a Gba?
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>>13311970
Its a gba.
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1) Does anyone else here hate specifically bisexual porn?
It's literally always really bland and boring mmf. Usually with ugly guys too.

2) What's your favourite type of porn?
I really like gloryhole stuff. Also, feet vids. Particularly if it's a threesome feet vid and one of the girls gives a footjob while the other sucks the guy's cock. I like to imagine that's me. In fact, whenever I watch porn I always imagine myself as the girl. (Totally not AGP though, I swear.)
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strawpoll.me/18610399
strawpoll.me/18610399
strawpoll.me/18610399
Make sure you vote.
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>>13311980
You're not explaining anything!
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>>13312029
It sounds like a song on a gba.
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>>13311970
Gay Beaver's Attitude.

>>13311988
Stop watching porn, anon.
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>>13312052
>stop watching porn
Based
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>>13311988
>Does anyone else here hate specifically bisexual porn?
It's hard for me to find good mmf bi porn. Most of the time it's either cuckolding or forced fem. Both of which I'm not really into.

>What's your favourite type of porn?
For both genders I really like either sweet and simple love making or some form of light (male/fem)dom.

Although, I'm reducing the amount of porn I watch. I think I've been watching too much of it.
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>>13312052
>Stop watching porn, anon.
Make me, Varg.

>>13312081
I like both of those things but the guys they use for them are almost always really gross looking. I'm quite picky when it comes to guys.

>For both genders I really like either sweet and simple love making or some form of light (male/fem)dom.
Same. I love gentle femdom stuff. There are some great couples on Pornhub who make it.
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>>13312154
I can't make you, only you can do that. But let's not cut your nose to spite your face.
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>>13311988
>1) Does anyone else here hate specifically bisexual porn?
Never really seen it. Don't have much interest.

>2) What's your favourite type of porn?
I only like furry porn; anything live-action is just sad and gross to me for some reason. Big fan of butt stuff in general, public use, flatulence, ageplay/diapers, watersports...
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Don’t forget to vote
strawpoll.me/18610399
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>>13311988
>1) Does anyone else here hate specifically bisexual porn?
yes, i don't know why tho
>2) What's your favourite type of porn?
my imagination believe it or not
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>>13312327
>Pop Punk
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>>13312507
I made sure to clearify that its just the 90s stuff. Right before they get annoying.
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Any guys that use/have used Tinder for a while: are your matches a total sausagefest? Or is it a more even distribution in terms of men and women?

I've heard that lots of women aren't into bi dudes, so I'm curious if that's something you've experienced through that app, and whether it's common or not.
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>>13308386
Honestly dont. My mom (a ignorant catholic) threatened to abandon me on the side of the road after picking me up from an airport. Only thing that stopped her was I threatened to slit her tires if she did.
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>>13312519
Eh, still. A lot of people use it for nostalgia trips but the actual sound isn't all that appealing to me. But, I guess that might have more to do with how I grew up.
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>>13312553
I've only tried tindr with only women set as my search option and the matches I got were pitiful.

>I've heard that lots of women aren't into bi dudes
Has there been any actual studies on this?
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>>13312601
>Has there been any actual studies on this?

No idea to be honest, just heard a lot of anecdotes that say the same thing: straight women don't like bi men unless they have some sort of bisexuality fetish. Generally speaking obviously.
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>>13312601
There's the Glamour survey that says:
>31% of women have had a sexual experience with another woman
>63% of women, however, say they wouldn't date a man who has had sex with another man
https://www.glamour.com/story/glamour-sexuality-survey
And that study:
>Results indicated that heterosexual women rated bisexual men as less sexually and romantically attractive, less desirable to date and have sex with, and less masculine compared to straight men.
https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2019-03539-001
Glamour's doesn't make difference between sexualities.
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>>13312694
Tbh I wouldn’t date a bi guy.
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>>13312703
Id date a bi guy, yall are just too insecure.
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i wish i didn't have to fucking shave my face

just cut up my neck with a safety razor because my shaving soap is ass
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>>13312703
alright, i guess?
so what?
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>>13312694
>less masculine compared to straight men
I was going to complain that this isn't the case, but then I realized that I don't look super masculine anyways.
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>>13312694
>63% of women, however, say they wouldn't date a man who has had sex with another man
women have terrible taste anyways
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>>13312809
Same, and I don't want to be.
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>>13312800
I just wanted to put that out there
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>>13312752
Dont use a safety razor then my man. I use one of those single bladed razors and some cheap shaving cream.
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Just curious, what's a good gay dating app? I've heard bad things about grindr, and want to try it out. I'd rather just find girls on other sites and find guys on an app like that.
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https://www.strawpoll.me/18610399/r
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Would bi guys be okay with dating a woman with fetish for yaoi or guy on guy porn? You'd have to suck cock in front of her, be called a cocksucker and other names, and be told how much you like taking it up the ass? Good deal or nah?
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>>13313818
No, I’m not a faggot like that,
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>>13313818
>and be told how much you like taking it up the ass
Remove that (because I'm not into that) and I would think about it.
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>>13313832
But I thought you'd like the chance to get man on man action in front of an audience.
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>>13313868
Kek’d
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>>13313882
Nevermind. Now I know how bi girls feel about "yurifags."
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>>13313818
No, because I'm not a fucking degenerate.
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>>13313818
Depends if she's just a woman of culture or if she's really obnoxious about it
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>>13313892
>>13313987
But aren't a lot of guys bi because they are horny insatiable sex fiends that feel extreme desires for sex with men and women? They take what they can and want to fuck 24/7. They look at people on the street and think mmmm I want that.
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>>13312575
Reading about things like this is why I don't bother to mention it, better to avoid conflict. Sorry you had go through that.
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>>13314126
this is only true for women when it comes to me
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>>13314111
Based.

>>13314126
I'm sure there are lots of cases like that.
I'm not 24/7 horny.
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>>13314126
that's a stereotype anon. associated with bi guys not because it's true, but because it sounds like it could be true.
you're better than this.
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>>13314126
No, we aren’t perverts.
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strawpoll.me/18610399
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>>13313818
No. Girl like that probably has some issues and I'm a top so a lot of that is a no go. Also a firm believer that Two's A Party, Three's A Crowd.

>>13314126
Makes it clear you don't know any bisexuals irl. And to me personally, sex usually doesn't come to mind unless I'm already in a relationship and I probably masturbate at a rate of once a month or less. So, not exactly sex crazed. Flirty, sure, but not some kind of fiend that needs a warm hole to get my fix.
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>>13314237
What kind of issues would a girl like that have?
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>>13313818
>Would bi guys be okay with dating a woman with fetish for yaoi or guy on guy porn?
I'm dating one, so yes.

>You'd have to suck cock in front of her
No. I wouldn't feel comfortable with that.

>be called a cocksucker and other names
Absolutely not.

>and be told how much you like taking it up the ass
I'm fine with that. Kinda like it.
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>>13314328
Likely Malignant Narcissism or other types of NPD. Sociopathy could be another, using two guys as tools to reenact scenes from her favorite porno despite the fact it would be futile since most of them are artificially manufactured via studio lighting, multiple takes of certain scenes, the use of fake ejaculate, etc with no regard for the guys involved. Just to name a few possibilities.
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>>13314126
>But aren't a lot of guys bi because they are horny insatiable sex fiends that feel extreme desires for sex with men and women?
No? I'm not that.
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Test post
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>>13311726
I always remember that masturbation can lead to erectile dysfunction and low sex drive so I don't. And to test my self-control.
>>13312327
I don't like any of these genres.
>>13313818
No. Worst type of woman.
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>>13314610
What kind of bi guys want a relationship like that? The kind who gets excited to suck cock or take it up the ass in front of his wife? The kind who likes to be called cocksucker and things like that. They wanna be forced to eat cum and like things like pegging too. You see them on fetish sites. What psychology type do they have?
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Another test post
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>>13289719
i lold
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>>13314798
>>13314798
>>13314798
Here you go Incase he comes here.
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>>13314889
I was wondering why in other threads it seemed like you were dissing on bis even though you visit then gen.

Anyways, welcome back, Cliff.
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>>13314696
If I had to guess? Low self esteem/self worth, lacks any real ambition, would rather be told what to do than to dare think for himself. Comfortable in a subservient role, especially in relation to a woman. Subconsciously believing women to be the lesser of the two sexes so being bossed around by one adds to the humiliation factor. Wanting to be humiliated feeds an emotional high much like being scared but is often much safer, coupled with their low self-esteem they likely feel they deserve to be humiliated and uses it to justify their situation despite what others may say. Further, being dominated by another male partner compounded by the female dominate figure only calls more attention to his place on the socio-sexual pecking order, at the absolute bottom. Very much in the same vein of cuckolds.
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>>13314916
I’ll admit that was me. I was just joking. The new guys an asshole. Almost everything post that uses the name Chuck is daddy is me until around 7:00 pm. I was a real asshole desu. But I actually was trying to be nicer near the end. But then this guy who’s 10x worse than I ever was comes around. At least you guys will know who’s who.
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>>13314889
Of coarse it gets deleted.
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>>13314963
Alright, but at least your posts will not longer seem schizophrenic. lol

>>13314987
It was probably deemed "Off-Topic".
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>>13315008
Well, at least I didn’t get banned for real again.
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Test
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>>13315008
Ok I guess I can trip code as Chuck is Daddy now? Cool.
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I’m sorry this is probably really confusing for everyone.
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>>13315190
Great work, daddy.
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>>13314126
IDK, but I'm definitely not that. I save sex for when I'm in a relationship. Casual sex is not my kind of thing.
I just happen to not care if the person I love is a dude or a chick.
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>>13307782
Better. The biggies are probably:

- More open (communication-wise re. past relationships)
- More relaxed as the traditional het-gender roles feel much less expected (obviously this is only applicable if they're not the same sex)
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>>13277802
Oh hey my favorite movie.
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>>13313818
No, those women disgust me. There's nothing demeaning about two guys having sex, why do these psycho roasties try to use gay sex to express misandry?
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>>13314153
Umm.. where did the 300 votes for 90s Pop Punk come from?
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>>13315965
Idk I just guess we are all pop punks now
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>have no real interest in dudes the majority of the time
>fuck buddy (female) introduces pic related to me
>find myself on my knees in public restrooms gobbling cock and cum walking the rest of the day
How is this shit not illegal?
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>>13315996
What is that? Is that even legal to have?
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>>13316009
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Poppers
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>>13315996
Whoah, what the fuck is that stuff.
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>>13316011
Thanks. Since I'm not going to have it as it is illegal where I'm at. What does it feel like taking those? Just out of curiosity.
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>>13316062
Makes you light headed and horny. It's used as heart medication, sometimes, so it does weird shit to your blood vessels.
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>>13315996
>cum walking
wut
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>>13315973
Idk, that seems suspicious. On the other hand I'm flattered that someone cared enough about /bigen/ to spoof a poll in it.
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>>13315973
pop punk tough guys with neck tattoos
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>>13316011
>If you trace the bottle of amyl (a type of alkyl nitrite) through late 20th century history, you trace the legacies of gay culture on popular culture in the 20th century
Interesting.
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>>13277802
>been a neet for months
>fed up with my situation as of late
>hopefully getting employment by the end of the week
I'll take anything full-time at this point, just to get away from my fucking parent's house, I'm glad and thankful I have a place to stay but god do I miss being out on my own. I just want ti live with my BF and do cute stuff together, but neither of us are able to afford living on our own right now, this week I want to change that.
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>>13318248
good luck anon, wish i was in your shoes (at least in that regard)
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>>13318263
Thanks, anon, appreciate it.
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>>13289632
>and no, we're not "normal", we're fundamentally different from the majority, and it isn't wrong at all to be proud of & defend this identity
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>>13318248
Are you me?
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>>13318547
Yea, we pretty normal. Only difference is who you wanna stick ya dick in. If you want to self segregate, you do you i guess
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My long term partner is going to transition to female and I have realized I would strongly prefer to be with a biological male or female. Being with someone with an extremely shrunken penis and a more doughy body, but without the nicer things of a woman like prominent curves or a fuller bosom or wide hips or a vagina, it sounds unappealing.
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>>13320285
I... Think you have the wrong ideas about transition, fren. There are ways your GF can retain a fully functioning, even massive penis and a strong af female physique. Trans women develop curves.
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>>13320285
As long as your GF tries, she should be able to keep the dick and develop a decent figure. If she doesn't try then you'll end up with a hon. Good luck anon
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>>13320285
Hopefully the non-physical reasons why you're with your long term partner doesn't change. Hang in there anon.
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>>13318248
I wish I lived somewhere that I could afford rent by working fulltime :c
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What was an unexpected perk of being bi that you have discovered?
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How do I hook up with a guy without resorting to dating apps like Grindr which are filled with weird people?
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>>13320285
>my friend transitioned
>he looked much better as a man but I have to pretend the contrary so he doesn't commit suicide
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>>13321595
Joking around with straight friends. If we're out somewhere more urban I'll just randomly start flirting with guys in front of them. Get a kick out of their reactions.

>>13322123
Depends on where you live. Try venues or establishments it's known G's or B's frequent. Stay away from Dive Bars and junk like that.
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>>13298770
Just don't go on to porn sites. Or if I see a gif that I find appealing I don't masturbate to it. Been a week now, and Ive only jerked off to my own imagination. Don't feel as bad
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>>13322177
How do I even find those establishments?
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>>13322190
Could always look it up on the internet. If you specify a location it'll usually give you a general list of places. Or ask anonymously where you can find some in your location (not too specific, like your address or something). For instance, I live in bumble fuck nowhere and have to drive about two hours to get somewhere like that. Could be a situation like that.
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>>13322177
>I'll just randomly start flirting with guys in front of them
That's awfully brave of you. I really don't act flirty to anyone unless I know for sure that they're into me and that they'll like it.
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>>13277802

WhErE aRe My BiSeXuAl LaDiEs At?
inb4 hurrr durrrrr bi girls are slags etc etc etc.
Yes I AM a slag for a nice tight pussy.
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If I break up with my girlfriend so I can explore gay sex will I regret it?

If I marry my girlfriend and die at old age having never done what I'd always wanted to try will I regret it?

>things that make you go "hmmm"
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>>13323476
does your gf know you are bi? and that you want to try having sex with men?
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>>13320329
>>13320546
>>13321121
Thanks anons. I think I was just freaking out this morning, I certainly still love her but its a lot to process. But I was being dramatic, and there are things like pretty eyes that never change!
>>13322163
RIP, maybe in a few months she'll pull a Contra or something and become decent looking.
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>>13323493

No and no, pretty sure that would trigger a breakup.
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>>13323502
I wouldn’t date somebody who hates my sexuality. That’s just me though.
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>>13321595
Women stopped calling me a straight white male with venom in their voices.
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>>13323353
I'm usually pretty good at making a quick read on the fly, and it helps that I look like a kodiak/axe murderer, makes people think twice about getting violent or mouthy.
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>>13323502
well that sounds like an issue? maybe she would be open to something
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>generic bi dude that likes women and fem men
>start to worry that I'm just prison gay
>give up porn for a week to see
>suddenly can't stop fantasizing about huge cocks gaping my boipussy, rarely even think about women
anyone else go through this?
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>>13324851
Damn, literally went through the same thing a month ago.
Guess I am really bi then
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>>13324851
Nah. Masc, Fem, Guy, Girl, Cis, or Trans. Like em all.
>watching porn
Man, that's a big no. Messes with your brain.
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>>13324993
Yep... i remember a few years ago when I could jack off on my own to thoughts. Now I can't visualize anything sexual when I'm trying to jerk off. Fuckinf porn man. Only good thing it did was confirm I was bi.
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>>13324851
I would never give up porn for a week
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>>13324851
>like women and traps
>recently only really interested in fucking traps
>still find the idea of touching someone else's dick disgusting
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>>13324918
>Guess I am really bi then
lol yeah I had the same thought.
>>13324993
>>13325201
I really hate studio porn. Its so over the top and gross, when i do watch porn its almost always just amateur shit. I'd like to give it up completely but jerking off is such an easy way to relieve stress. I can jerk off without porn but it takes a lot longer and I got shit i want to do.
>>13325209
other than the moments of intense cockhungry horniness it wasn't that bad. near the end i did feel a lot of pent up stress though.
>>13325543
just hookup with some femboy off twitter and have them wear pic related. odds are they probably already have one.
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