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/big/ bisexual general-burg edition
Old thread : >>12602963
What are you wonderful people doing this month?
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>>12634918
Going on a date to a fantasy-fair with a cute boy, potential boyfriend material. He's going as an elf ranger, i'm going as a dwarf bard ( I'm still taller than him though)
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>>12634918
getting no dick like the other 11
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>>12634918
Doing stuff for university primarly, writing essays and making presentations.
I also want to partake in my cities LGBT community so i'm starting to attend events and groups regarding that, theres gonna be a programm where sport and community work is combined which seems lot of fun!
And ofcourse, coming out to friends mostly. Family has to wait, i have no interest in my stepfather getting violent and cause more grief to my mother.
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i bought some manga imma start reading
>berserk volume 1-3
>erased volume 1
>our dreams at dusk volume 1
also picked up some real deal fancy pants literature (nobokov) because i wanna get back into books. but i rarely feel up to it
so until i feel motivated comics will suffice
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>>12635227
what you study?
>>12634918
dying in bed because I'm too tired to go to uni
send cuddles
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>>12634918
>What are you wonderful people doing this month?
Getting used to a new job and hating the that I'm spending less time with my girlfriend because of it.
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>>12635525
Have some cuddles.
I study History, 4th semester. I'm mostly interesed in Late Antiquity and Medieval Europe.
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>>12635229
>Nabokov
Oh hell yeah. What are you reading? Pale Fire and Ada, or Ardor are top notch.
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>>12634918
Bi top here. I'm more attracted to women, transwomen and feminine men. But the rest can be fun too.
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>>12635120
Cute. Have fun.

I have two job offers and I have to pick one by tomorrow.
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>>12636218
it's ok to be upset, friend
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wage slaving as usual. starting to understand office politics, doing favours for higher ups and all that. honestly it doesnt seem all that bad as some people make it out to be, switching shifts with your supervisor isnt like sucking a fat blokes willy or anything.. ive switched shifts twice now when my supervisor needed it and now i can just take days off whenever and they dont tell me off for it anymore. what kind of favours can i do to get a pay rise
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>>12637079
Enjoying my summer break off college. Grinding Granblue and waiting for POE season to start.
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>>12637079
>honestly it doesnt seem all that bad as some people make it out to be
Same here. Just started a new job and I havent really done anything for days because my work computer was messed up. But my boss came by and told me that I have already exceeded his expectations. He was very nice.
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do any other bishits find androgyny really hot?
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Does anyone else seem to only end up dating other bi people?

It's not intentional either, I guess it's cause I only date fellow weebs and being bi is more common among weebs.
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>>12637875
i find myself drawn to them, match better as people
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>>12637875
Is there such a thing as bidar?
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>>12636067
i bought the meme book, lolita. i just heard the prose was really gorgeous and it was a nice story. plus i hear it's a good starting point for his work.
still not sure i have the reading energy. but i'll try ten pages today and see what i think
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is it bad that in some relationships i dont mention im bi?
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>>12637825
Extremely, extremely hot.
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>>12638814
I think it's not inherently bad depending on how long those relationships last. In something long term it should come up eventually but if it's only gonna last a month or a few booty calls then there's no real necessity to bring it up as much as there's a necessity to bring anything else up.
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>>12638814
In long-term relationships you should be honest and upfront about it. If its a short-term fling than who cares.
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Is wanting to look androgynous trans?
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>>12638948
Was David Bowie actually Davina Bowie?
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>>12638948
Being androgynous is its own thing. Maybe you could say non-binary ? Not knowledgeable on the matter.
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>>12637825
When I see androgynous people, I just assume they're gay, so no

>>12637875
I do, intentionally
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>>12639007
I want to look androgynous but I wouldn't want to be a woman. Shitposts on here make me worried I might be a repressed tranny or something
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>>12637825
I like it for either gender (then again that's kinda the point I guess).
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>>12634918
>What are you wonderful people doing this month?
Hopefully finishing up my commercial pilot's license. I have a few flights left to get in then I'll be off to a flying job. Hoping to take my boyfriend up soon.
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>>12639019
>worried I might be a repressed tranny or something
Thats how they get people to join their selfdestructive club
>You like to wear tight jeans?
>REPRESSED EGG!!111
fuck em
ignore them they are fucked in the head
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>>12639058
I'm too neurotic not to worry. I see a girl with pretty eyes and think "damn she has nice eyes I wish mine were more like that" then I'm like "oh shit is this AGP? am I trans? oh shit"
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>>12639071
Its really really bad that you think that. I don't dislike your presence, but it sounds like 4chan is having an extremely negative effect on your perception of people in the real world.
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>>12639071
just do what you want and worry about what box this puts you in later.
if you wanna do tranny shit go for it. if you just wanna be a sexy androgynous motherfucker i certainly won't stop you. you don't have to fit a label.
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>>12639071
Yeah no that’s just trannies poisoning your mind with their misogynistic concepts. You can want pretty eyes and still be a man.
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>>12639096
>>12639108
>>12639110
Lol I've just got OCD tendencies, trans OCD being my current theme
Probably ought to spend less time on /tttt/
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>>12639125
I try to only check /big/ like once a day, the rest of the board is just the most depressing parts of /r9k/
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>>12639141
The majority of this board is /r9k/: safe for work tranny edition
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This is kinda unrelated to /big/, but I need help on this.

How do I get my girlfriend to stand up for herself more, especially against her family. Her family has been pretty must pushing their chores on her (cleaning the house, laundry, etc), the worst of it is that one of her brothers and his wife had made her babysit their kid. She's pretty much around the kid most of the day, and it's gotten to the point that the kid is more clingy to my girlfriend more than his own mother. It's gotten to the point where my girlfriend has to work really late at night because her days are filled with cleaning and caring for kids that aren't hers.

Just today that same brother and wife just tried to talk my girlfriend into giving away her newly adopted kitten (a kitten that she recused, and now adores) because the wife is afraid of cats apparently. Mind you, they have their own house to live in, they just hang around my girlfriend's house because their son pretty much lives there.

She's been getting more and more stressed with little to no time for herself. I've tried to tell her that she should take lead and tell her family to stop using her so much, and she agrees. But she's just so meek that she easily get's talked into doing stuff she doesn't like. I really don't know what to do to convince her to stand up for herself.

Do you guys have any suggestions? It's getting really sad to see her get stressed and frustrated because of it. Before this happened she had tons of neat hobbies and interests that we could talk about for hours, but now we hardly ever talk about it because she barely has any free time now.
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this is good
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>>12639799
Have you asked her brother and his wife if they thought about the consequences of being so absent from their kid's life? They sound really worthless from what you're describing, the kid is the one who's going to suffer the most because of their blatant lack of sympathy or attention or responsibility. You should remind your girlfriend of that, she'll be more likely to take action for the sake of the child if she refuses to take action for herself.
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>>12639799
You guys need to move away. If they ask why, tell the truth.
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>>12639950
>Have you asked her brother and his wife if they thought about the consequences of being so absent from their kid's life?
No, and I doubt my girlfriend as asked that too. I'd tell her that the kid needs his parents and not his aunt, but she would just brush it off like it's nothing. Meanwhile she just cried herself to sleep because she may lose the kitten, something that's only about her that she could dedicate herself towards. However, I haven't brought that up in a while so maybe she'll listen. She's just so humble and selfless, but it's obvious that she's getting tired of it and wants the chance to be selfish every so often.

>>12640027
Neither of us have the money to do so.
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Hey /big/anons. Not sure if this is the right place to ask this or not as I never use this board.

Bi-virgin here, recently moved to DC for my dream job. I'm 28 so I've been really sexually repressed and finally acting on my opportunity to do stuff.

I made an account on grindr as I want to try out guys a bit before I settle down and try to start a family with a wife, but my word I am having zero luck on this app - I had heard it was the app to use if you want to get laid. I've had a few conversations where each individual ghosted afterward (one of them I thought was going to happen but then I asked him to do a simple picture test to prove he was the guy in the pics he sent me, so I'm guessing he was just fishing for pics to nut to). Almost every person I try to talk to completely ignores me, which is pretty depressing.

I even stated in my profile that I'm pretty much just looking to get fucked with no strings attached, I'd have thought people would be all over that, but nope! I have pictures of my face on my profile, no body pictures though, is that part of the problem? Like, what the heck do I do to improve my game?
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>>12640214
are you like ridiculously autistic or ugly
i mean judging by your post maybe the former
post your face
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>>12640218

I'm pretty shy actually, and not remotely used to doing stuff like this, but for the most part I'm just saying hey to the people I message and hoping for a response. Occasionally I'll say more like asking if they're interested in a nsa hookup if their profile suggests they might respond to that sort of question.

Looks-wise, I don't think I'm great looking, but hopefully not ridiculously ugly. This is the main pic I'm using though.
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>>12640250
Id do ya.
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>>12640250
it's okay but your using grindr for sex
man holding lizard at presumably his work is wholesome not sexy
try just a regular selfie, exploit angles to look as good as you can

learn to be cold on grindr etc, don't take it personally if you get ghosted, and don't feel above ghosting people yourself
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>>12640173
If you don't have the money to move, then you don't have the money to raise someone else's kid for free. Its fucking ridiculous that she would subject you to this kind of family bullshit just because she's too afraid of confrontation. You're losing precious time with someone you choose to be in a relationship with because of this.

It sounds like you love her, but she needs to understand that her self-destructive behavior is turning her into a shitty girlfriend. You should let it be known that you're with her under the condition that her actions and lifestyle are in the best interest of your life together. If she'd rather bend over backwards for her family and throw a kitty out of the house over her lack of a spine, that's unacceptable behavior.

It may sound harsh, but her family is exploiting her good will, and she's a full grown adult. Its unbecoming of a life partner, I would personally find that kind of behavior totally repulsive and a definite dealbreaker unless something was done about it.
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Honest question, and I want actual answers for it, not dissuading proselytism: is it possible to eliminate one's sex drive for the same sex? Through any means possible. I don't like having feelings for guys, because I'm just setting myself up for rejection and failure, failure which I wouldn't have if I was completely hetshit.
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>>12640317
> is it possible to eliminate one's sex drive for the same sex?
No. Trying to do so will just make it forbidden fruit.
>don't like having feelings for guys, because I'm just setting myself up for rejection and failure.
Tough shit. Welcome to being bisexual. Just don't go for guys. If you still have manlust, then again, tough shit, welcome to being bi.
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>>12640317
You can try focusing you're attraction to just the opposite sex by for example only watching straight porn, but your sexual orientation is hardwired and you can't change it
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>>12640317
Your dislike of having feelings for the same sex is a symptom of your low self-esteem, not the other way around. Stop being stupid.
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>>12640316
I'm worried less about what it does to our relationship and more about what it does to her life.
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do we have any faces of /big/
tbqh i'm the only person who was ever close to being a character but still
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>>12640338
It's not low self-esteem anon. There are a lot of things I have that I can take pride in, and I'm generally satisfied with my life. Appearance is not one of the things I can take pride in. I know that women tend to be much more lenient when it comes to appearance than men are and that someone of my appearance would have better luck with the opposite sex than with the same sex. My preferences don't line up with what I know to be true though, and I'd very much like to rectify that.
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>>12640347
If you don't consider her life to be integral to your relationship, then your relationship must not be very serious. You can't possibly rely on someone to be there for you as a partner if they're living in a constant state of self-sabotage. Unless you exploit her demeanor just as much as her family does, that is.
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>>12640365
This is just incel mindset. I have no advice for you, you're probably never going to be happy.
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>>12640390
How? I've acknowledged my shortcomings, and I wish to make good on them. Incels deny their shortcomings and blame petty bullshit on them, or acknowledge them and wallow in self-pity. I'd be perfectly content if I didn't have same-sex attraction, but the fact that I do causes me a small deal of distress.
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>>12640377
>If you don't consider her life to be integral to your relationship, then your relationship must not be very serious.
It is serious. It's just that there's a chance that we might not be together due to it being a long distance relationship, so I'm more focused on making sure that she's okay even without me.

>Unless you exploit her demeanor just as much as her family does, that is.
No, I don't.
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>>12640415
Okay, I thought you were living with this person, nevermind. You can't fix someone else's life from a distance unless they're obedient, I'm afraid there's nothing you can do. It sounds like she'd rather listen to her family than you.
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>>12640410
The attraction is not the cause of your distress, your perception of what you're capable of is. This isn't some self-help bullshit I'm trying to sell you, its a fact that you have infinitely more control over your perception than your desires.
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>>12640447
Okay, and what if my perception is in-turn backed by the perception of others? I know that I'm not attractive to members of the same-sex because members of the same-sex have said so. Members of the opposite sex, based on what I have seen and experienced in my life, consider appearance to be less of a playing factor. Easily outdone by a combination of other qualities.
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>>12640485
If you've never seen an ugly gay guy with a boyfriend then I don't know what to say
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>>12640433
Thanks. I just wished that she listen to herself for once. She told me that the kitten was the first time in a while for her to focus on something that wasn't an obligation to someone else. She seemed really torn up when her brother told her to give the kitten away because it keeps running off.

And how the kitten ran off is stupid too. The kitten is forced to live outside where there are stray cats around because the brother's kid is living in the house and the kid is (apparently) super allergic towards. Again, the brother has his own house. Just so stupid, both the brother and his wife have a job so they can afford a babysitter.
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>>12640491
Me neither. Is it a common thing in larger cities?
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>>12640545
If she's aware of all of this and thinks the best decision is to get rid of the kitten, then you have to reconcile with the fact that you're in a long term relationship with someone who does that kind of thing. I couldn't be in a relationship with someone who would do that, but you do you.

>>12640560
I mean, they clearly take better care of themselves than straight guys despite their genetic disadvantages, but yes. To be fair, I'm not the best judge of which masculine men are ugly and which are desirable. It feels entirely arbitrary to me when someone points at two manlets with thick beards and gay accents and says one of them is handsome.
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>>12640584
I don't know either. I just know that guys don't find me attractive, but women would.
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>>12640584
>If she's aware of all of this and thinks the best decision is to get rid of the kitten, then you have to reconcile with the fact that you're in a long term relationship with someone who does that kind of thing. I couldn't be in a relationship with someone who would do that, but you do you.
Thank you. Hopefully she'll stand up for herself tomorrow. I've been trying to get her to be more confident about herself and I thought that she was making good progress.
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Post musics.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h4hpd4lcwpo
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Is using tinder bad. Should I feel ashamed
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>>12641162
No, using tinder isn't bad. Unless you're using it to get dates to pay dinners for you, then you should feel shame.
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>>12641174
I can pay both dinners, I just want someone I like without any effort
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>>12640783
Bad news. The kitten is dead. I have no idea why but my girlfriend is blaming herself really hard. She's really devastated and she thinks she has killed it by postponing taking it to the vet and feeding it dry food too soon (which I doubt). I tried to comfort her but she just snapped at me and told me that she wanted to be alone. I don't know how she's going to handle this other than badly.

Its late for me so I'm going to bed. Any help is appreciated and thank you all for your earlier help.
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>mfw i'm aching for someone to finger fuck my asshole i don't care if it's a dude or a chick doing it
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>>12634918
Working on health, going on a cruise at the end of the month, overall good time:)
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>>12634918
>liking men more and more
oh no
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>>12634918
Wishing I could go to Pride festivities but I’m only out to myself. My wife would divorce me if she knew I was Bi.
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>>12640250
Not ugly. I’d hook up with you but you have to lose the reptile first.
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>>12642330
Why did you marry some roastie whore? Are you living off her?
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>>12642366
She’s not a toastier whore. I happen to love my wife but she wouldn’t accept that I’ve been repressing my feelings since long before I met her.

>Are you living off her?

Not sure what you’re implying but I’m a grown man capable of supporting myself.
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>>12642410
just casually drop that you have had sex with guys
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i have severe autism
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>>12642172
really? Guys get this kinda craving...?

I never understood how come guys can feel like they "wanna get fucked." Can you explain?
I always feel like "we're not even designed for bottoming, what's natural is to fuck"
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>>12642911
Kinda? It just feels like a need to feel full back there kinda like the need to feel something around my dick. I'm not sure what else to explain.

What I don't get is guys getting a craving so strong that they want to cheat on their girlfriends. Maybe it's because I've never been with a guy, but toys are more than enough for me.
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>>12643422
>Guys getting a craving so strong that they want to cheat on their girlfriends
You mean guys getting a craving for dick so strong they cheat on their girlfriends?
Cuz that's hot.
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>>12642911
it's called being a bottom
its a natural drive for me
i want to be fucked sometimes
whether by a man or a woman with a strap on
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>>12643845
>it's called being a bottom
>it's a natural drive for me
>i want to be fucked sometimes
god bless you son.
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>>12643845
Same. My gf keeps saying she will peg me but she only fingers me sometimes. I need it so bad...
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>>12643921
>>12643845
The thought of a bisexual wanting to bottom is 100x hotter than a homo who wants to bottom.
Like he's been plowing girls all his life and playing with titties, but deep down he's always wanted to be mounted from behind by a strong man and filled with hard thick cock.
The contrast gets me really horny.

Question: do you bisessuals think of getting plowed, while you're fucking a girl?
>>12643921
>my gf fingers me sometimes
does that give you a psychological fantasy, or do you imagine a guy's hard cock in you as she does that?
or is it purely the physical sensation of your prostate getting stimulated that you enjoy?
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>>12642911
>Can you explain?

For me- my ass is a legitimate erogenous zone. It simply feels good to play with it, fuck it etc...and that pleasure literally feels like it travels thru my perineum right to the tip of my cock...and sometimes my ass craves being penetrated...when I am on all fours with my ass exposed its begging to be fucked it twitches with anticipation...sometimes I just need to scratch that itch

and that just the physical side...then there is the psychological side of needing to feel feminine and how rewarding it is to have a real live hard cock in me
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>>12643836
>You mean guys getting a craving for dick so strong they cheat on their girlfriends?
That and guys who openly consider doing that.

>Cuz that's hot.
I disagree.
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>>12644026
I do enjoy the physical sensation quite a bit, but honestly yeah I do fantasize about getting plowed by a bigger stronger man. Once my girlfriend finally pegs me I'll get most of the physical sensation but not everything.
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>>12644026
>do you bisessuals think of getting plowed, while you're fucking a girl?

nope. When I am with a girl my natural masculinity takes over and I can think of nothing but filling her holes. I like to fuck her the way I would want to be fucked tho...
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>>12645604
agp confirmed
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>>12644026
>but deep down he's always wanted to be mounted from behind by a strong man and filled with hard thick cock.
The contrast gets me really horny.
yeah tbqh the idea of a man fucking me until i turn gay is p hot
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How many of you bi bottoms are also cucks? If you had a GF would you want a man to make you gay and also take your GF?
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>>12645897
>also cucks
oh I don't think so sweetie, the only person doing any cucking is me
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>I want to fuck women but hate being in relationships with them
>I rarely want to fuck men but want to be in a cuddly relationship with a guy

what do
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>become single after years of being in a relationship
>did some gay guy stuff to see if I would be into it / what I would be into
>came to terms with being bi
>meet with old friend from high school, opposite gender
>she tells me she’s bi but never been with a girl
>we end up dating despite me telling her I just wanted to fuck around
>she doesn’t care and says she’s down to have another girl in bed with us
>fast forward
>dating for years and are now married
>she’s been with a few girls with me
>start thinking about guys on occasion
>wife thinks gay guy stuff is gross
>doesn’t even want a 3some with a 2nd guy because she thinks it’d be weird

Why are fem bis like this? I feel like majority of them are that aren’t incels.
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>>12645897
>tfw no submissive couple to dominate
Life is suffering
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>>12645921
Find a bro that you room with that you both go out and bang sloots together?
Probably the best non-discussed relationship I’ve had.
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>>12645897
>If you had a GF would you want a man to make you gay and also take your GF?

Nope. I would mind having having my GF help a dude fuck me but wouldnt want to see her get fucked.

I have participated in MMFs where I was bi and that was really hot- 69ing a girl while she gets fucked from behind and cleaning his cock on occasion and tasting his cock, geting fucked while eating her, sharing his cum with her etc...but she was just a fuckbuddy not a GF.
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>>12645946
I found some local college boy who wants to be a sissy, he's only ever been with his girlfriend. I'm trying to figure out how to fuck them both.
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>>12646018
> local college boy who wants to be a sissy
closet AGP trans
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>>12645748
>>12646059
Shoo shoo mentally ill tranny
Not everyone on this board wants to cut off their junk to appease some mental disorder they have
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>>12646059
Yeah definitely, talks about feeling like a girl, keeps sending me ass pics in lingerie. I figured if I go over and provide some good dicking, I can ask for pics of the girlfriend and suggest that she needs a real man and we can take it from there.
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>>12634918
I bought The Babadook with the special rainbow cover. I like the movie well enough, but I think I just wanted some way to show that I belong to the community and to help out some youth in need.
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>>12646160
I bought a bunch of gay novels on amazon by gay authors this month for similar reason. I'll probably read them eventually though.
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>>12646084
Are you a bi top?
Guys like you always sound hot
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>>12645936
Internalized homophobia.
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>>12646293
I'm a bit more flexible than just bi top but yeah. In this case I won't even touch this crossdresser's cock (or let them touch it), it will just flop around as I fuck that ass as I train them to be a sissy.
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>>12645897
Absolutely not. Not my thing.
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>>12645897
DESU yes, I have a lot of fantasies about my gf and I getting fucked or gangbanged together.
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>>12646391
Hot. Please top me.
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Happy Friday bis! How was your week? I hope it was well. Mine was hectic, but I'm glad that it's over and that I get to sleep in tomorrow.
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>>12646814
Your girlfriend wouldn’t think you less of a man or anything like that? Or are you into that concept?
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>>12646903
Friday’s are my Mondays. :(
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>>12647534
Aww why? What's wrong?
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>>12647531
I honestly don't know what she'd think, I've kept anything close to this idea pretty guarded. She seems to think the idea of guy-on-guy is hot and has mentioned her own attraction to girls before, but I'm gonna take my time before I reveal my bi-sub power level, and I may leave that particular one a fantasy. But it depends how the relationship evolves over time.
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>>12647564
Well I hope it works out for you anon. Being a bi top I feel I might have an easier time opening up to my wife but I fear her inner homophobia will make her think I’m just gay or not into her really or something stupid.
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>>12647538
I work weekends so my days off are usually Wednesday/Thursday.
I miss out on a lot of things I want to do but I’ve never made more money than I do now so.. just kinda live with it.
>tfw wishing I could work nights again and train BJJ every morning
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>>12647962
That kinda sucks, at least the pay is good. Have you tried taking vacations during weekend events you want to attend? Surely your boss will be understanding. Hang in there buddy, we're here for you.
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>>12648047
We’ve been in the process of opening a new store so any time off has been more me switching my days off and it needs to be for good reason if it’s on a weekend. Been like that all year. It’ll change once it opens in July or August. I have a competition next weekend I’m switching my days off for which doing BJJ in general keeps me calm and happy.
Thanks anon I appreciate the positive reinforcement. Have another OC cat picture.
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>>12646814
I have fantasies of my bf getting fucked while fucking me sometimes.
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>>12647949
Yeah I only ever intend to share this with one girlfriend max so I need to make sure she is right and would be into it.

>>12648073
This I'd be slightly more comfortable sharing with my girl.
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>>12648085
Yeah I'm not sure how common or popular it is especially since I don't like to be in control much in bed, so pegging itself doesn't really appeal to me, but the idea of being fucked together is really hot for some reason.
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>>12648067
Good luck with the store then! I hope it opens up smoothly. Goodnight cat OC anon.
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>>12648120
Hopefully we both get to try it!
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ill never be happy. what is this life, endless fucking? what do i have
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>>12648698
Is everything okay, anon?
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When is the greatest bi of all time and why is it Alexander the Great?
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>>12650628
Was he bi? I didn't know that.
>tfw your parents named you after him
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>>12650628
Probably Nero Claudius, it was said that he wed men and women
Also join up if you like /sS63fwX
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>>12650857
He slept with many, many women and then had a few male partners and even a male lover on the side.
Truly alpha.

>>12651095
Oh I’m not sure what that’s for and I’m autistic n like to bump this general.
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>>12651466
>He slept with many, many women and then had a few male partners and even a male lover on the side.
I knew that the ancient Greeks where somewhat different about sexuality and that Alexander was Greek but I never thought of putting the two together. Thank you for showing me this.
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why is gaygen so much cooler than this thread
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>>12652651
Define "cooler". Sure, gaygen seems more lively and has more of a personality than bigen, but that's due to gaygen being much more active. The bisexual community isn't very big sadly.
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opposite of that ^
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>>12652759
Pure gays frequent the Chan way more than any other group, except maybe trannies.
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>>12652770
Funny.

>>12652784
Was there any attempt to figure out the demographics of /lgbt/?
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>>12652651
because all the best bis (me) just go on gaygen
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>>12652824
I post there every so often too, but I feel out of place there for some reason.
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Anyone here has dated straights, gays/lesbians, and bis? How were they all different? Do bixbi relationships work better than others (with one person being bi)?
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Hey guys, I think you might have the answer. I have a weird and strangest mania of touching my friend's dicks and butts. My question is if there is anything suspicious at all about my acts. We all laugh at each other when I do this btw, like a bro thing btw. Thanks
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>>12653770
Care to explain a typical time you do that? And yeah, that seems abit suspicious or odd at least. Then again some straight guys act super homoerotic. Are you worried about how your friends would feel if they learned about it? Are they homophobic?
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>>12653788
>Care to explain a typical time you do that?
I usually do that everytime we meet, even when we go at nightclubs and such.
>Are you worried about how your friends would feel if they learned about it? Are they homophobic?
They are not homophobic as far as I know, but I'm not gay, no way. I'm just curious you know about those things I do. You know right?
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>>12653807
>I usually do that everytime we meet, even when we go at nightclubs and such.
Kinda hard to tell if your friends would see that as normal without knowing your dynamic with them, but I can see how they might not think of it as much as you do if it were friendly pats on the butt or something like that. Perhaps a way to tell if they're aware of what you're doing is to see if they either like it a little too much (like encouraging you to do it or doing it back with excitement) or are disgusted (wincing when you get close or they try to say outside of your reach).

>I'm just curious you know about those things I do. You know right?
No? Maybe it's because I'm abit tired, but can you reword that? I have no idea what you meant, sorry. Are you curious about the private bits of other guys? I mean, that's perfectly normal. If you're single, then maybe you can find a fwb to explore that?
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I have a crush
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>>12653841
Well, don't be prude. Tell us about your crush. Is he/she cute?
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>>12653837
>Kinda hard to tell if your friends would see that as normal without knowing your dynamic with them, but I can see how they might not think of it as much as you do if it were friendly pats on the butt or something like that. Perhaps a way to tell if they're aware of what you're doing is to see if they either like it a little too much (like encouraging you to do it or doing it back with excitement) or are disgusted (wincing when you get close or they try to say outside of your reach).
I'm pretty sure they love when I do those things with them and they probably even encourage, because they keep touching my chest as well. So I see this as a sign of good will.
>No? Maybe it's because I'm abit tired, but can you reword that? I have no idea what you meant, sorry. Are you curious about the private bits of other guys? I mean, that's perfectly normal. If you're single, then maybe you can find a fwb to explore that?
I'm just curious about my actions. About what could they mean? I don't know if that also helps, but I have never had a relationship before.
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>>12653883
>I'm pretty sure they love when I do those things with them and they probably even encourage, because they keep touching my chest as well. So I see this as a sign of good will.
If you like it, and they seem to like it, then I don't see a problem with continuing.

>I'm just curious about my actions. About what could they mean?
If you're recently started to realize your attraction (or potential attraction) to mean, then it could be that your mind is beginning to open up to the sensations of finding men sexually attractive and wants to indulge on it to experience it as much as possible. I went through a phase like that, although I handled it differently.
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>>12653853
I was attracted from the minute we met but I thought she was straight until around the time she started smoshing my cheeks and telling me I'm cute. She's pretty and smart and built like an Amazon and I have a big big weakness for a combination of dark hair and pale skin, or just dark hair in general.
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>>12653914
That's sweet, and fit girls are pretty hot too. How did you two meet? How long have you two known each other? Have you considered asking her out?
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>>12653907
>If you're recently started to realize your attraction (or potential attraction) to mean, then it could be that your mind is beginning to open up to the sensations of finding men sexually attractive and wants to indulge on it to experience it as much as possible. I went through a phase like that, although I handled it differently.
So... does is mean I might actually be 'gay'? I have never been with a girl before for more than a week and honestly, I haven't been interested in any girls lately. But I do like to have fun with them and such. This is all weird to me lol. I don't think I'm gay, but I'm in no place to make that assumption desu.
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>>12653930
I don't really know the mental process of realizing that one is gay, but it could mean that you're gay. It could also be that you're bi and just happen to be leaning strongly towards being gay (I mean, that seems like how most bis figure out that they're bi). Just take your time reflecting on it. Don't rush yourself into a label simply because you want to or were pressured.

Just ask yourself these questions. Would you have sex with a man? Would you have sex with a woman? Would you have a long term romantic relationship with a man? The same for a woman? And really think about how you feel about those questions. Good luck and remember that /big/ is here for you!
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>>12653924
We met for the first time at a bar almost ten years ago, but I was dealing with a lot and I was a closet case anyway. We recently reconnected through friends of friends and have been talking/flirting for a few weeks. She invited me to come to her place and get out of the city for a little while.
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>>12653968
Many thanks lad. You were a big help and made a lot of things more clear to me. I hope you have a good night/day wherever you are.

Spoiler: I would answer yes to all those questions.
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I don't want to have sex with men, but i'd like to watch men masturbating and cumming. Is it possible to find such men without being offered gay sex, or porn is the only solution?
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>>12653989
Sounds like she's an incredibly nice person. Maybe you should try asking her out? Or at least confessing that you like her more than a friend? No rush of course, take your time if you feel like it.

>She invited me to come to her place and get out of the city for a little while.
Asking her out or not, I'd take that if I were you. Going out with friends (even if none are crushes) is always nice.

>>12653991
No problem, I'm happy to help. My day was good since I had nothing important to do and could be as lazy as I wanted. Good luck on figuring yourself out, and don't worry if it takes a while. It took me about 4 years before I finally came to terms with my sexuality.
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>>12653997
I'm pretty sure that there are guys out there who like being watched, but I think it'll be hard for you to find a serious boyfriend who's into that and wouldn't want to do something more intimate with you. Why don't you like doing things with men that's more than watching?
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>not fantasizing about your best friend with an ambiguous sexuality's cock
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>>12654057
>ambiguous sexuality's cock
What do you mean by that? I do fantasize about some of my friends sometimes.
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>>12654084
he may or may not be straight
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>>12654088
That makes more since than what I was thinking. I was wondering how can a penis have a sexuality. And I couldn't figure out if my friend is or isn't straight because he was in a relationship with someone else.
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>bro can you imagine that there are guys who like sucking dick? That's weird
Why did my friend tell me this out of no where?
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>>12641462
mate your girl is a real cuck, getting cucked by her scum of a family, and now that they killed the kitten, she's taking it out on you
you need to put your foot down and not put up with this shit
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>>12654747
Str8s are weird. Or he was suggesting u to suck his dick
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>>12654747
>haha yeah wouldn’t it be funny if I sucked your dick
or if he knows u a fag, that’s def an invitation

go for a brojob brojob choo choo scene if you like him enough
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>>12654984
>and now that they killed the kitten
I highly doubt that her family killed the kitten. They're lazy and inconsiderate, but not diabolical.

>she's taking it out on you
No she isn't? She had one moment of snapping at me on that day, but she seems oddly fine the next days. This worries me because she has a nasty habit of bottling up her emotions. I want to see if she still blames herself and maybe figure out how the kitten died, but at the same time I don't want to remind her that it happened.
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>>12653989
Any cute updates on you and your crush?
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>>12654747
He probably saw a post somewhere on the internet about gay guys and was weirded out to the point where he had to share with a friend. I had a friend do that to me about guys receiving anal, "Man, like, why would guys like to have something shoved up their butt?"
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>>12638718 Lolita's quite good, but the first half is much better. He becomes less likable once he starts to get cocky, and then even less when he starts to deteriorate and become a hot whiny neurotic mess.
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>>12662576
Doom Eternal. Even just watching the videos of it feels cathartic.
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>>12634918
>bottom but not a sub
help
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I got invited to Pride by a coworker. Pretty sure she's straight and just goes because for some reason liberal women are obsessed with LGBT people.

Not sure if I should go or not. My experience with "the LGBT community" has historically been that I'm not LGBT "enough" because I'm bi, even though B is the third letter.

Plus the only thing I know about "gay culture" is that drag is a thing, and from what I've seen of it I find it pretty boring.
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>>12666023
just lean harder on the gay side than the straight side
that's what I did, and I got some good d that weekend

you don't even need to be flaming, you just need to fem it up a lil (or, go over the top masc if you're muscular)
it was fun pretending to be a limp wristed fag and being catty

it was a good break from my endless >tfw no gf/bf phase
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>>12666023
Go. Its really fun. And you really don't need to worry about being gay enough, there are plenty of straights there anyway.
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>>12665083
You can bottom and still be a dom. I mean, it works in femdom.

>>12666023
I assume that you're out. If you want to go, then I suggest that you just treat it like a generic gathering instead of one that's about LGBT. At least you have a friend to come with, I'm considering attending a Pride event, but I have no one to go with sadly.

Good luck and have fun though!
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>>12666044
I'm 6 feet tall, slightly chubby and have a beard but I wish I was basically Bex Taylor-Klaus.

Will probably go. Thanks, to you and the anon below you. (Would quote you both but I'm phone posting and it would be a pain.)
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Someone please help, I don't know who to turn to. My dad went in my room and found my sextoy cache. I was keeping it on a shelf as a symbolic gesture to try accepting myself but that backfired. He won't directly refer to anything, he's just hinting at how much he thinks gays are perverts and shouldn't be around children and now he says he's going to start checking if my room is "clean". I'm just out of college and can't move out just yet, I'm considering saying that it's an ex-gf's stuff that I was too weirded out to throw away but I don't want to make it any worse
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Going to my first Pride celebration on Saturday. Kinda nervous because I will more than likely be going by myself, so I'm scared I'm just gonna kinda be there, not interacting. I dont know. I'm excited for sure, just honestly dont know what to expect.
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>>12666573
Just don't say anything anon. If hes gonna be a dick about it, make him say it to your face.
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>>12666573
>he's just hinting at how much he thinks gays are perverts and shouldn't be around children
With that much bigotry, I'd recommend that you try not to remind him about what happened until you move out. Is he financially supporting you through college?

What happened must've felt awful though. I hope nothing worse happens. Good luck.
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>>12666573
Dear Anon. I can see you're troubled and I want to give you some advice, embrace the feeling. Embrace who you are, that this will inevitably be the attitude most people have towards it and accept it. But most importantly, don't let your dad think he's won. Tell him that you'll always be his son and the little boy he raised no matter what choices you make. Don't let this become who you are, as that will only make it worse. Say enough, say that they're yours and that this lifestyle hasn't changed you or how you behave just because he discovered it. Best of luck to you Anon.
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>>12666583
Congratulations! And be careful, you never know what kind of people could be lurking in these events. But most importantly have fun. This is a social event, so be social. <3
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>>12666597
That's what I was considering but he's a coward about anything sexual and him beating around the bush doesn't stop him from turning the house into a police state
>>12666667
I'm through college, he's helping with some stuff financially but I can get by without excepting housing. Thanks, I'm hoping for the best
>>12666686
I have been trying to embrace it more in recent times but it's been a slow process. I just don't think any of this is going to change him, he isn't really the understanding type and really just prefers to not have to think about headier things.
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>>12666711
Well that's ominous. Care to be more specific?
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been fugging my best friend for the past week and he sent me this text this morning
>not tryna be soppy or anything but this has been one of the best weeks I’ve ever had like I genuinely have intense feelings for you and it’s such a relief to finally be able to express them with no limit. Even just being in your company is a fucking pleasure I couldn’t ask for a better friend nevermind a better lover
>And as much as I fucking adore the sex we have even just talking and cuddling with you makes me immensely happy and content so idk what to say other than thank you for being you
w-what did he mean by this?
ive always loved him like a brother but now those feelings are even more intense. we aren’t falling in love with each other are we? i don’t want that. I don’t want to ruin our friendship. should we stop fucking?
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>>12666895
NO keep fucking
but also do other stuff
you might finally get a bf
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>>12666895
Why are you worried about ruining your friendship? Are you worried that you two might break up and become awkward?
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>>12666907
>you might finally get a bf
but he’s been my bro for like 10 years, it doesn’t feel right having him as my bf.

>>12666915
I just really value our friendship. I’ve loved him since we were kids and not even in a romantic way.
we’ve always had a bromance, but it’s next level now. I don’t want to start getting jealous when he sleeps with other people or enters a relationship, you know?
I just want to be very close friends who just so happen to be attracted to each other and have sex. Is that even possible though?
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>>12666895
I was in that situation a year ago and sent texts exactly like that cause I was so happy and wanted to get into a relationship.
Ended up getting my heart broken though so I hope you two can be happy together but honestly you're kind of fucked, it's probably going to be too painful for him to be just friends with you if you reject him. Maybe you can still fuck if he's desperate for you but he'll be miserable, don't be surprised if he suddenly ghosts you.
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>>12666961
sorry to hear that, anon
do you really think he feels that way about me? I mean shit he told me he loved me after we had sex last night, but we’ve been saying that to each other for years so I didn’t feel like it meant anything extraordinary.
i definitely wouldn’t reject him. I’m just concerned about taking things too far and ultimately losing him as a result.
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>>12666953
>I just really value our friendship. I’ve loved him since we were kids and not even in a romantic way.
>we’ve always had a bromance, but it’s next level now. I don’t want to start getting jealous when he sleeps with other people or enters a relationship, you know?
That'll be hard. If you don't want to be in a relationship with him yet be so close that you two have sex, then you're going to have to let him go somewhat.

Look, usually I'm your love-struck friend in situations like this, but I recommend that you seriously think about how you feel about him and what kind of a relationship that you want, and then tell him. It's best that you do this sooner rather than later to not lead him on into thinking that he's your boyfriend (assuming that you still don't want a relationship with him). It'll hurt him, alot, but it's best to get it out of the way early. These situations suck, there's really no way to get out of it completely unscathed. I'm sorry if my advice feel vauge, it's tough to handle these things.

Best of luck.
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>>12667030
Yeah. I don't know him but boys don't send that kind of text if they only feel friendship anon. He loves you and you can't change that. All you can do is react.

>I mean shit he told me he loved me after we had sex last night, but we’ve been saying that to each other for years so I didn’t feel like it meant anything extraordinary.

Boys are so dumb.
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>>12667081
>>12667119
thanks for the advice
ive already texted him back saying i have intense feelings for him too. im going to hang out with him today, have a drink and talk it out. i can definitely reciprocate if that's really what he wants. i'd like that too. i just really really care about him and i never want to lose him.
that text he sent me made me so happy. im really fucking lucky to have him desu.
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>>12667336
>thanks for the advice
>ive already texted him back saying i have intense feelings for him too. im going to hang out with him today, have a drink and talk it out. i can definitely reciprocate if that's really what he wants. i'd like that too. i just really really care about him and i never want to lose him.
>that text he sent me made me so happy. im really fucking lucky to have him desu.
No problem, and good luck! If you need any more help, then /big/ is here for you.
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>>12634918
Trying to find a job and lose some weight.
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How do I know if I'm actually bisexual or just a "prison gay"? I'm not sure how to feel. Sort of been developing this attraction towards slim/twink-ish guys. I just want a male friend who I can be affectionate towards. At least, more than what is normal. Would be nice to just hang out with this hypothetical friend, be comfortable with each other, not have to need to talk every second for the relationship to be considered "good," lie next to each in bed, play vidya, you know that good stuff. I know that this desire isn't just exclusive towards men and is applicable to women, but I just feel that I'll relate more to a guy than a girl. Something like this >>12666895 sounds really nice. I dunno how to feel anymore.
And then there's "coming out." I honestly wouldn't feel comfortable telling people like my folks that "oh hey, I'm bisexual."
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>>12668108
I hope you get it anon
>>12668458
Are you attracted by women too? If yes, you are bi
You are still bi even if your attraction by women is low or is not at the same level of your attraction by men
You should come out only if you think that that will make you feel more comfortable with the people around you, you can be yourself
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>>12634918
Finally accepted by Bisexuality bros, it feels so good. Its like a stone fell from my heart.
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>>12637825
Yes ofcourse
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>>12637825
that pretty much seems to be the core attraction for a lot of us including me in my experience, best of both worlds etc
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>>12634918
lost my virginity to a chick I met on tinder thursday
dating a cute guy five years older than me on saturday
feels good man
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>>12668458
I think a good test for this is to ask yourself this, "Can I imagine the rest of my live with a man? Can I imagine the rest of my life with a woman?". If your answer is generally yes for both, then you're bi.

>I honestly wouldn't feel comfortable telling people like my folks that "oh hey, I'm bisexual."
Maybe you can just come out to people who you are very close to (like friends or family) and just don't mention it to other people unless it comes up in conversion?

Good luck on figuring yourself out! Remember to take your time and don't force yourself to be straight, gay, or even bi due to expectations or peer-pressure. Just go where you naturally feel towards.

>>12668690
Congratulations!
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Help me out here, I think I'm bi but unsure and keep doubting if I really am.

I definitely know I like girls but traps and twinks turn me on a lot, often more than chicks. I've used a dildo and wanna fuck a guy but could never see myself actually dating one.

So am I actually bi or what???
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>>12669136
It could be that you're bi and you're slowly beginning to accept it (I also had a phase where I liked traps and twinks but not men, but that slowly changed), but I recommend that you take a break from porn and masturbation and see if your attraction to both sexes are still there. Ask yourself about what you find attractive about women and men. Ask yourself why you can't see yourself dating a man? Is it because a typical guy is repulsive to you, or because you're scared of homophobia?

Just whatever you do, don't rush it. It may take years to figure out, but don't feel ashamed. It's normal. Good luck! And if you have anymore questions, then feel free to dump them here.
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>>12666812
In my experience, one can be expected to be hit on nicely or aggressively, and you might get groped in a crowd. I’ve never done any of the stuff at night, but the Pride parade is usually pretty nice.
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>>12669136
>wanna fuck a guy
this is completely normal for straight guys so dw
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I've got a date with a guy tomorrow, which I've never done before. I've fooled around with guys but I lean more towards women and I've pretty much always had a gf so I've never really been in this position before but I got asked out and he seemed nice. It looked like I made him kind of nervous which was really cute. Any advice for a bi who's fairly inexperienced with guys?
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>>12670898
figure out who's going to pee in who's butt beforehand to avoid confusion
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>>12670907
What if I fantasize about both giving and receiving? It seems to be more based on my mood than anything else.
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>>12670898
Sounds sweet! Good luck! Sorry I don't have any advice to share, my dating experience with men is non-existent, not even fwb. Tell us how it goes down though. If you're comfortable sharing it, of course.
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>tfw cis bi chick
>may have finally found a good candidate to be my qt bi bottom bf


How do I not fuck this up, /big/? I've never really dated anyone before and my lack of experience terrifies me.
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>How do I not fuck this up, /big/? I've never really dated anyone before and my lack of experience terrifies me.
First, relax. Second, while my dating experience is small one trick for success that I've noticed is to be a great friend first. Don't try to be a great girlfriend first because you'll come off as fake or forced. Instead, try to be the greatest friend first, be there for him when he's sad, share some cool stuff that you like, listen intently to his interests and share actual feed back, and other things, etc. I've never dated guys, but as a guy the hardest thing you probably would have to deal with is him taking a while to realize that you like him (my current girlfriend was sending me nudes with "I love you" messages before I finally caught on). Depending on how close you are to him, then you can drop that on him early on (one thing that I did to get a date was just leave a note "I'm interested in you, here's my number" to someone I liked and knew. It could work if you're not feeling up to asking him out in-person).

There is a chance that he won't like you back, but don't let that hold you back. It's better to give it your best at the risk of failure than to "play things safe" and pretty much guarantee a failure. Good luck! And if you have any more questions, then feel free to share them here!
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>>12673624
>but as a guy the hardest thing you probably would have to deal with is him taking a while to realize that you like him

We're actually well past this point, we met on a dating site. We've already hung out a few times and we seem to be mostly compatible. I'm just nervous that the proverbial hammer is going to drop sooner or later and he's going to want someone better than me.
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Have you ever tried masturbating to yourself in the mirror?
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Anyone else sexually attracted to both women and men but can only imagine themselves being in a relationship with a guy?
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>>12674833
oh that's me honestly. i've dated a few women and they were great and nice to me. and i was totally attracted to them. but i find that i connect better so they're easier to date.

also this month i started dating a super cool guy that i like. not really doing much but just spending time together for hours
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>>12666573
Tell him that you agree about the gays, which is why you're bisexual masterrace
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>>12669244
Well lucky for me I'm unattractive as fuck
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>>12674986
>bisexual masterrace
how? not even other female bisexuals wanna fuck you.
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Does anybody else here love to feel gay/have gay thoughts besides me?
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>>12674790
>We're actually well past this point, we met on a dating site. We've already hung out a few times and we seem to be mostly compatible.
At least that hurdle is out of the way.

>I'm just nervous that the proverbial hammer is going to drop sooner or later and he's going to want someone better than me.
Try not to focus on that, and instead focus on being comfortable around him and making him comfortable around him. Another tip is to go for the first date as soon as you can, idk why but transparently most people on dating sites can get impatient on that. Obviously don't rush into his home, but do try to talk about and set up the date sooner rather than later.

Good luck and be sure to share what happens!
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>>12674830
Yeah, but I tried at a time when I hated seeing myself so it didn't go well.

>>12675880
I kinda like having those thoughts. They remind me that I'm bi, but when they're gone I start questioning myself if I'm bi or just went through a "phase".
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>>12641059
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jC24B5_8gmw
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remember to continue infiltrating gaygen and lesgen
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>>12678743
I already post on gaygen mostly because of how fucking slow /big/ is
seriously
stop making me post in gaygen
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>>12679329
you love it
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Came out as bi to my dad last night and it felt pretty bad afterward, but not for the obvious reason. I (male) have been with my boyfriend for many years and my parents came to terms with it ages ago. But having spilled the bi-beans I can't help but feel as though I no longer have an excuse for my homo behavior, for being childless and the last male of my line, the last of my name. Had I not fallen hopelessly in love with a man, I could maybe have been almost normal in their and the world's eyes.
For whatever reason, imagining my parents describing me to people in their lives and saying "my son is bisexual" makes me far more ashamed for myself and for them than if they were to say "my son is gay." I hate this.
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>>12678743
Well considering that the closest I've ever been with a guy is a friendly hug, I don't have much to share. Plus their shitposting about bis dont make it feel friendly to me.

>>12679393
If you're worried about continuing your bloodline, then you and your boyfriend can use a donated egg and a surrogate. I don't know how much they cost though.
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gaygen loves bis, it's lesgen that cant help their autistic screeching
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>>12679393
>For whatever reason, imagining my parents describing me to people in their lives and saying "my son is bisexual" makes me far more ashamed for myself and for them than if they were to say "my son is gay." I hate this.

I know what you feel bro. "Gay" seems OK and pretty normal in 2019 but "bisexual" just seems like you are indecisive and promiscuous, right? We have to fight against our own stereotypes. We are not gay. We are not straight. We are bisexual.
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>>12679623
they only like one of them
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>>12679623
>it's lesgen that cant help their autistic screeching
I wouldn't know that, I've never been to /lesgen/, but thanks for the info.
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>>12679787
they troll themselves with their own autism, truly male brained.
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>>12674830
Yes I was visiting my girlfriend's family and I noticed the mirror in the bedroom was aligned with the mirror in the bathroom so I bent over and jerked off to myself fucking myself in the ass every day I was there.
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>>12680067
pmsl
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>>12679360
n-no I don’t like being surrounded by gay men
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>>12680072
It was pretty hot ngl, I would have dumped her for myself.
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So I quit my antidepressants recently. Got my libido back and now I'm horny as hell. I'm normally straight but I had to deal with this warehouse worker today and he really turned me on. His cologne, facial hair, muscles. I got an erection and could feel my whole lower body being affected. What the hell? Does this mean I'm Bi now?
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>>12680171
Perhaps you were always bi but suppressed it.
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>>12680176
I've purposively tried to be gay before and it was nothing like this
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>>12680171
same. think in my case is just coping with inceldom though :(
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>>12680182
Maybe you only like dominant burly warehouse men.
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>>12680206
have you considered that maybe your innate faggotry caused the inceldom?
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>>12680206
Sometimes I feel the same. I wasn't an incel, but I had some bad luck with dating women and decided to try flirting with guys. I ended up kinda liking it, although I wonder if I like it because guys were flirting with me back or if I like it because I'm not putting in nearly 100% of the flirting.
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>>12680182
Maybe you just found the right man or maybe human sexuality is fluid.
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how many of you are bi, but so picky with one gender that you're effectively gay or straight?
i'm a gynephile, but there are no crossdressers or fem guys in my area and all the trans girls are prostitutes as far as i can find.
the universe is keeping me from getting any boybutt
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>>12682423
Eh I have phases were i prefer one or the other. But i know what you mean i'm kinda picky too regarding guys, thank God there are lot of twinks in my city.
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>>12682423
Sort of. I do get picky with guys, especially when I'm not in the mood for the same sex. However, all that pickiness goes away when I really connect with a guy, either a friend or an internet personality.
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>>12682423
Sort of? If you were talking about looking at pictures or people on the street, yes. But attraction, at least for me, is based a lot on sexual and personality compatibility so it doesn't really matter how many boxes a person does or does not check in a tinder photo.
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>>12686476
whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy????
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>>12686480
>>12686476
biphobia is real
biscum rise up
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>(0,0) on the political graph
>Generally tries to go for the middle ground in debates
>Described as easy going by friends and family
>Doesn't like conflicts

Sometimes I wonder if I'm really bi, or I'm just so laid back that the gender of my partner doesn't bother me.
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>>12687225
>t.
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i thought that i was mostly gay. i'm subby, and prefer to bottom.
today i had a very cute waitress with glasses. she had a slim waist and thicc hips. i would definitely fuck a girl with a pretty face and nice ass..
but then, I'd rather have a thick, long cock inside of me, if I had to choose.
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So if you're bi you belong in this thread? I've been kicked out of everywhere else
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>>12689884
Welcome fellow outcast
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>>12689896
This was a mistake I think I should leave. I'm not a good person
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No matter what which team you pitch for, eating pussy is something all men can universally hate.
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>>12690095
eating boypussy is pretty gud tho
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>>12690097
Seconded
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>>12689310
>thick, long cock inside of me, if I had to choose.
how long
>>12689884
yes welcome to this dead thread
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>>12690095
I've never tried it, but I like the idea of going down on a girl. Idk why you hate it.

>>12689884
Welcome friend!
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what are ya a finook
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>>12689277
>What makes a good man go bisexual? Lust for gold? Power? Or were you just born with a heart full of bisexuality?
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>>12690525
8.5 is ideal length for me but I'm tall so my rectum is deeper
Manlets are probably satisfied with 6"
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>>12692120
6 is my absolute max. And even then it still hurts.
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anal fissures
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>>12692273
Oof
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>>12690095
No.
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Heavily editing my own pictures & thirstposting them (Chinese photo apps are something else & I do not actually look like this)

Broke up with my boyfriend

Really regretting it and trying to figure out together if we have a future and this is a good/important break, or maybe we can’t work it out? Who knows

Maybe going to Pride this year for like the second time ever
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>>12695288
I sympathize with you, break ups are awful. Hopefully you and him ended it on good terms. May I ask why it ended?

>Really regretting it and trying to figure out together if we have a future and this is a good/important break, or maybe we can’t work it out?
That's a really tough question to answer, but I guess a good litmus test would be to ask yourself if he (intentionally or not) brings out the best in you. If so, then maybe you two can work it out?

Either way, I wish you good luck. Remember, that you can still be an awesome person even when single. Have fun at Pride if you go!
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Thanks! Yeah, we fell into some really negative patterns in our relationship that we just didn’t seem to be able to get out of. I think we’ll get back together—though, who can predict the future?—but we both agree that a break is at least necessary. Hopefully with some time apart we’ll have a clearer view of all the things we love about each other.

It’s tough. Sometimes we bring out the best in each other, and sometimes having the other person around makes things worse. We’re both hoping that we only need to take some time apart.

I’m excited to go to Pride, though. I’m wingmanning for my very cute friend. She came out as trans a few years back and she’s been so much happier since! We haven’t been seeing each other much lately so I’m looking forward to having some girl time (a phrase I hate, but w/e).
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>>12695382
That's definitely sad. Hopefully you two will come to a solution that makes both of you happy. When it comes to those kinds of things try to stay calm and rational. Don't get emotional and end up doing stuff to ruin a relationship like I did. Take your time too, don't rush it.

A break sounds good, be sure to have some fun. Especially at pride with your friend, it'll be a nice distraction at least. Good luck!
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Thanks! I read Mating in Captivity last week and we were talking about some of the suggestions inside—last night we kind of pretended to be meeting each other for the first time and had kind of a date night. We did talk pretty seriously about ourselves, though—we both agree that we can’t be together but we both would also be upset by the other person falling in love with someone else. I have NO idea what we’re going to do, but we’re good at talking through things.

He also might move to a different metropolitan area for his job. There’s a lot of stuff up in the air.

But yes, I will have fun at Pride :)
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sup bigen im closeted but want dick but dont want to use grinder because im not a whore but don't want to date a guy because im closeted
what now
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>>12695844
deeldough
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>>12695844
Either work out your issues so you won't be closeted and date a guy, or make friends with a gay or bi guy who you can trust to be secret fwb with.
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why do gay people hate us? are they just jealous we get more ass than them?
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>>12695865
bro i been on the anal wave
just feels weird coming out as bi and dating men never having actually fucked a guy
>>12695886
yeah the former is my best bet, i honestly don't know why i havent come out yet, my family and friends would completely support me. but since i havent there must be something in mind blocking me
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>>12695899
>why do gay people hate us?
Not all gay guys hate bis, but the ones who do probably do so for many reasons.

>Perceived privilege of being bi
You know, the "you get to pretend you're straight" shpiel. Which is false because in most cultures, the moment a guy does anything close with another guy then hes 100% gay. No matter how many women he later dates and has sex with.

>Cheating stereotypes
Bis can be very unsure about their sexuality, and that can result in them abandoning their partners (gay or straight) to explore their sexuality. Unfortunately this paints all bis as wishy-washy cheaters, even though most are loyal to their partners.

>The bi stepping stone to gay
This used to be a thing, but I'm not sure if it still is. However, it was not uncommon for gay guys to claim that they're bi either because they were unsure about their attraction with guys and lack of attraction with women or that they felt that being bi wasn't as bad as being gay and thus wouldn't get hated on by their bigoted family as much. This ended up making bisexuality look more like a transitional sexuality rather than a sexual identity on its own.

There are others that I'm sure that I'm missing, but that should get the most of it. These negative stereotypes are hurtful to bis because it makes a fair amount of bis even more uncertain of their sexuality and thus contributing to the stereotypes even further. There should be more efforts from all sides to stop these and make everyone else happier overall.
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>see people here complain that there's no bi women irl
>can't go a single day without meeting them at work
what gives?
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>>12666953
>but he’s been my bro for like 10 years, it doesn’t feel right having him as my bf.
shouldn't have fucked him then retard, you're beyond fucked now and this is only gonna end in tears
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There are plenty of bi women IRL, we’re just all low-key because if we aren’t, we’re constantly approached by disgusting people who demand threesomes.


Just because I CAN be attracted to anyone (theoretically) doesn’t mean I am. I’m not your relationship seasoning salt, Becky.


It’s so bad I had to get off OKC and use Hinge—on Hinge, no one can see your sexual orientation
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>>12696197
that's really funny because i asked one of them about people asking for threesomes and she said her bf did it lmao
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The guy I’m seeing right now is the only straight dude I’ve ever dated who didn’t try to push for a threesome.

Funny story—my hearing is kind of bad, and he told me a story about an old lover on our first date. I mis-heard the pronouns and thought he was bisexual. I actually really respected how matter-of-fact he was about it (being an openly bisexual dude is TOUGH, especially when you’re trying to date women). It seemed like he was really telling me who he was and leaving it up to me whether or not I was gonna be cool with that, and that confidence was very hot.


But yeah, I just didn’t hear him right. He’s straight. It’s really nice though because he doesn’t have any bullshit opinions about any sexual minority. Surprising, but awesome. I lucked out.
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>>12696309
That's pretty funny, and sweet. Good thing he's such a nice catch. Good job!

>being an openly bisexual dude is TOUGH, especially when you’re trying to date women
Yeah, it does suck. I haven't doe it myself, but I've heard so much negative opinions about dating bi guys that I don't want to mention it. Seriously, why do people hate guy on guy stuff so much?

Also, as cool threesomes are in fantasy, I don't think I could do one unless I was very comfortable with the people involved. There's no way I can do with with my girlfriend or boyfriend though. It'd just feel so uncomfortable and cheatsy.
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>>12696309
>>12696393
Its not tough unless you'd rather be with someone shitty than be alone. Just mention you're bi and act accordingly if they have a problem with it.
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I just don’t tell people I’m bisexual because I don’t want to get harassed. I’ve had awful experiences.

Yeah, I can weed shitty dudes out quick that way, but they’ll also send me disgusting things and show up at my house. No thanks.


That being said, it’s better to be a bisexual woman than a bisexual man. I don’t blame bi dudes for being low-key about it, though—make bisexuality is something that straight women mostly aren’t familiar with. They can be okay with it but might need time.
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>>12696686
If you're more afraid of them than they are of you, you're doing something wrong.
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>>12696686
This, I just tell people I'm gay/straight depending on who I'm talking to because it's not only easier, it's just safer
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>tfw man but really into giving cunnilingus
>tfw i know i'll never compare to another woman
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>>12699749
fuck off tranny
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>>12699913
oh i love being a man, trust me
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>>12699749
I mean, if guys can give shitty blowjobs, then women can eat beaver poorly. So you'll have a chance.
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I’ve dated men in the past, but I’ve never done anything physical. I’ve wanted to, but there’s always a nervousness that sets in and I make excuses and stop the relationship.

But then I date a girl and there’s sex on the second date and no issues at all.

I totally want a dude to dick me hard and just cum as much as he can in me. I want it equally as much as I enjoy doing the same to women. I moved out of my parents house and suddenly I’m curious to try once again to get a dude with a fat dick in me. I already feel hesitant about it and probably won’t actually do It. If I want it so badly why do I refuse to do it?
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>>12703355
Why do you get nervous? Are you worried that it'll make you seem less of a person to do it? Does it feel gross? It could be internalized homophobia.
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>>12703381
I was raised very catholic, so you might not be wrong. I guess I’m also a bit afraid that I’ll be there post-orgasm with a man balls deep in me and my insides covered in cum and will feel ashamed of myself.
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>>12703419
Maybe you should take the sex slowly. That way your first orgasm with a guy isn't while he's inches deep in you.
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>>12703355
weird flex
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>>12667336
godspeed anon, i want to hear more about this lovely man of yours some day
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>be bi cis female
>in happy relationship with bf for year and a half
>he always compliments me and talks about how great it is to wake up with his face buried in boobs in the morning, how soft my skin is, etc
>mfw feel like i'll never get to experience that feeling again
I love being bi, but it does feel sad knowing I won't have a beautiful woman in my arms for as long as this relationship lasts
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>>12704500
ask for an open relationship
I'm bi and personally I feel like if I find a gf I wouldn't mind her doing lesbian stuff if I am also allowed gay shit
idk, maybe the meme about bis being sluts is true
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>>12704583
ew
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>>12704583
>I'm bi and personally I feel like if I find a gf I wouldn't mind her doing lesbian stuff if I am also allowed gay shit
I feel this so much
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>>12705943
How so? I'm bi and I don't really feel that (then again that might be because I got cheated on maybe)
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>>12706400
IDK when I only have one for awhile I want the other. I'd be happiest if I could mix it up once a month.
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New thread >>12707184
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>>12690095
Wtf r u talking about? I mean it's a bit exhausting, but eating pussy turns me the fuck on. Just like suckjng dick. As long as it's been cleaned recently, we're fine and dandy and feelin' randy



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