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When did you realize you swing both ways, anon?
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>>11471577
When my fantasies of being turned into a girl turned out to be hotter when it was a guy force femming me.
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>>11471577
When they noticed people were hateful toward gender non conforming people and anyone who expressed or displayed same sex attraction so they decided to repress and claim to be bisexual to justify a loveless opposite sex marriage where they were unfaithful with the same sex they truly desire but wont allow themselves to be with openly.
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>>11471616
Men cannot turn into women. Have you tried being openly gay?
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>>11471636
>When my fantasies
>fantasies
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first I watched straight porn, then I noticed I usually paid attention to the dicks and switched to gay porn, then I realized I'm attracted to guys (making me gay), then I realized that the fact I still watched lesbian porn meant I was still attracted to girls (making me bi)
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>>11471577
Does wanting to be a cute bottom one day and wanting to smash a cute bottom the other count?
I'm still more attracted to females of course than my fantasies but still..
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>>11471758

I mean, wanting to fuck and be fucked is called being a switch. Somewhat different from being bi, since it says nothing about who you want to fuck and be fucked by. You can be both though.
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>>11471667

Happened to me, too.
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>>11471667
You're not bi unless you like to eat pussy AND suck dick
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I think I went from straight to str8 to hetero-romantic bi, to trubi, to homo-romantic bi, to gay.
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must've been around 12 when I got into some weird online relationship with a boy from america and realised I was bi
for the longest time I kept it to myself because I was afraid of how people would react (I'm from a small town)
eventually people found out and are totally supportive and I love my friends :)
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>>11473248
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I’m still very confused
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>>11473642
from left to right:
marry, kill, give oscar for his role in titatic, kill, forcefully feminize and make my transbian gf
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When i saw Speed of sound sonic ass from one punch man
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>>11471577
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I always knew I was attracted to people regardless of gender but I had no clue it wasn't standard until I hit middle school and everyone started coming out and I was extremely confused as to why, everything changed after that of course
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>>11473226
Oh
Oh god, am I bi?!
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>>11471577
I was joking about how much money would take for me to suck a dick, the next thing i remember it's me getting fucked by a friend of mine on his house
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>>11471577
>be me
>wandering around this snowy forest with a cute blonde guy looking for a tent
>freezing cold
>finally find tent
>start a fire and make some bacon in a pan
>get cold and slip into super thick comfy down sleeping bag
>guy slips in too
>lolwat.jpg
>wraps his legs and arms around me while maintaining eye contact
>immediately start making out with him
>ejaculate all over my pants and wake up

And that's how I found out kids.
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>>11471577

How would you describe your ideal boyfriend and girlfriend bigen?
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How long do we think /big/ will last this time?
I gib it a week
>also first for tfw no andro gf/bf
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>>11475527

Guess I'll start.

Boyfriend

>a little shorter than me so around 5'11
>dark hair
>brown eyes
>a bit broish
>enjoys the outdoors
>watches sports
>can go to the gym together
>fucked up sense of humor
>just overall pretty chill
>has own set of unique views that they're perfectly fine with voicing
>generally strong willed and not too clingy
>sexually submissive in bed
>not in the whole leather scene sort of way but will get turned on if I pin him down
>put him in his place
>maybe throw in a bit of dirty talk
>that sort of thing

Girlfriend

>very petite
>blonde or dark hair
>brown eyes
>sporty
>loves the outdoors
>intelligent and strong willed
>not clingy
>also sexually submissive
>slim figure
>bonus points if they sorta have that Slavic pouty look going
>chill to talk to and just a decent person I guess
>a nice pair of tits would be pretty good too
>you get the picture
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>>11471622
wew lad
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>>11475714
are you me?
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>>11471622
>bis are actually gays in denial
retard alert
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>>11471622
I would love to hear your reasoning behind your view that the brain is unable to be attracted to both sexes. The brain isn't simple.
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>>11475546
As long as someone bumps once in a while, then it should be fine. Also shilling for a small discord dedicated to these threads https://discord. .gg /sS63fwX
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>>11471667

Yup
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>>11471622
Weren't you banned?
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>>11475527
boi
>emo
>twink
>feminine behaviours but not in a faggy way
>needs support but also gives support
>financially stable from old family money
>plays vidya (I'd introduce him to DMC and he'd love it because he's a Resi player)
>abs to die for
>bigger cock than me, but not to an embarassing degree
>pure whimpering degenerate sub in bed
>likes his coffee with 3 spoons of coffee and 2 sugars, even though he is sweet enough already

gril
>doesn't drink alcohol, or drinks very little
>/fa/ or indy in dress sense
>Iggy Pop is her favourite musician, which fits with Bowie being mine
>supportive and motivating
>wakes up before I do, very motivated herself
>abs to die for
>takes dom or sub positions in bed depending on mood, I just go with it
>smokes when stressed, and thinks I don't know
>likes to rant about people she doesn't like, anbd it's super cute and funny because she's pretty sweet in general
>her father isn't in her life
>the better I get to know her, the more she reveals sad parts of her self and life
>prefers tea to coffee. Strong, 1 sugar.
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>>11471577

Bump
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>>11475527
Boyfriend:
>shorter than me
>curly hair
>cute and pale
>shy but chill with me
>likes to dance
>bottom
>likes film and reading

Girlfriend
>shorter than me
>tan, even black
>cute smile
>curly hair, or short hair
>big ass
>tits are irrelevant as long as I get the ASS
>likes film as much as I do
>likes to dance and take walks
>strong personality, in normal life and in bed
>likes some kinky stuff. Not too kinky
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>>11471577
Highschool got a crush on a football player
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>>11471577
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>>11471577
in highschool, I got a crush on a girl and a guy at the same time and was like, okay I'm definitely attracted to both. (note: I never managed to actually date either of them, the girl was straight, and the guy was gay (and I was a cis women))
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>my cutiebf wants me to have a threesome with his gf

shit just got a bit real, this can end really well with all us bein closer or really fuckin bad.
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>>11471577
When I was in high school I realized I hate women and so I came up with a genius plan to turn myself gay.
I used pornography and will to forcefully rewire my sexuality and now I'm bi. Or maybe I was always bi and I just discovered it this way. Who knows.
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I realized when I was post op. I'd definitely fuck a guy and play with a girl
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In high school I started having fantasies about male video game characters in addition to the female video game characters I already fantasized about
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>>11471616
this but i only get aroused (as a sub) by guys when i imagine myself being forcefemmed
as a dom, i get aroused by imagining traps/extremely feminine males
am i still bi?
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>>11485021
Your sexuality is your own, don't let people tell you you're not bi if you feel bi.
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>>11471577
dunno. I have always been girl crazy. Was very sexual from the start. was masturbating since 4 or 5. The somehow developed a panty fetish- wearing them turned me on, collecting them etc...then I realized that I had a nice cock- big with a fat head- and started to notice other nice cocks and one day at 15 found myself bobbing up and down on my friends big cock. then I discovered that putting things in my ass felt good. then I combined the titilation of wearing panties with the desire to suck cock and I was well on my way to the cocksucking little cumslut I am today...except I never stopped being girl crazy...so I have fucked a lot of girls and been fucked by a lot guys.

I guess it was when I was being spitroasted by 2 old men that it finally dawned on me that I was bi.
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I thought I was straight but became good friends with someone who was gay. Ended up realizing I was attracted to them :)
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Whenever I hook up with girls for awhile, I want guys. Whenever I hook up with guys for awhile, I want girls. I have a longterm girlfriend now and am craving guys again. What do
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>>11485064
anon i dont know what the fuck my sexuality is
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>>11485586
do you like holes
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>>11480897
Absolutely excellent taste
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>>11485687
im not sure anon
yeah?
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>>11485812
not the guy you're replying to but if you don't care what holes you put your peen into, or don't care about who puts their peen into your holes, you're pprobably bi
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>>11485835
>but if you don't care what holes you put your peen into
true but i wouldnt want to put it in a guys hole unless hes extremely feminine. (at least thats how i feel rn)
>or don't care about who puts their peen into your holes
for a while id only want people putting things in my hole if i was dressed like a girl but that fetish is dying away. so i guess i dont want anything in my hole now.
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>>11485871
look, serious talk now, as long as you're attracted to both men and women, you're bi. One can have preferred types for men and women, like for you, feminine men are your type, but they're still men, you're attracted to them, you're bi.
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https://www.strawpoll.me/17169724
>>11486019
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I realized when it was too late in life to explore that side of me.
never got to explore anything, in fact. I was all confused in my teen years, so I just repressed any sexuality permanently.
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>>11486360
>when it was too late in life to explore that side of me
what age was that? did you realise on your 60s or something?
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>>11486402
no, just 25 so I still have plenty of life to suffer through. but I'm over 10 years behind my peers in sexual and social experience and I don't have any way to acquire all those skills out of nowhere. i'm abnormal in more ways than sexual, so I've always been pretty isolated in all ways.
if I started at 13 like most other people, I could probably be in a good place by now.
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I want a bf who can hold me in his arms so fucking bad, sometimes I can literally think about nothing else and want to throw myself at every cute guy I see. What can I do about this?
I can't get a bf currently because my parents don't know that I'm trans or that I'm into guys
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I had a dream last night that I was fucking some donuts.
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I started with tranny/trap/sissy porn and slowly spiraled until I was watching full gay. So, that's when I knew.
Oh and when I sucked a meaty dick and loved it
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>>11486421
Imagine being this stupid
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>>11471577
>8 years old: *always stared at tiddies ans ass and thighs but also liked guys so I assumed all straight girls like looking at girls*
>12 years old: *fap to ecchi for first time* "N-no it's n-not gay if it's a boy fucking her! i'm not gay!!"
>14 years old: "oh I think i'm bisexual" *discover tumblr* "uhhh actually, anon, you're autochorispotatoxenosexual and pan-romantic"
>16 years old: realise that tumblr is fucking retarded, finally identidy as bisexual

t. femanon
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>>11487351
I don't have to imagine, it's my every day
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>>11486421
Cry me a fucking river. Came to terms with being bi about a year after I joined the army (joined in 99) then had to suppress that side of myself for years till I just decided fuck living half a life. So starting from scratch at 31 and it's not a big deal. 38 now. Play the had you're dealt and make the best of it. Just wasting more time feeling bad for yourself.
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>>11471577
When I was like 15 and realized I was drooling over a couple girls as well as guys.
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>>11489566
Didn't "realize" then but that's when it started. Realized about 2 years ago.
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>>11489147
imagine going through all this pain and still, somehow, refusing to admit you are gay
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For me I assumed teenagerhood was when you started to be 'interested in girls'.

And nothing swung in a different direction for me.

I still liked cool girls and cool guys. I realised when I felt close to boys I wanted to hug and be physically close to them, same as I did with girls.

I realised not liking sports guys or muscle maries didn't mean I wasn't attracted to men, same as not liking Pamela Anderson didn't mean I wasn't into women.

This took a long time. I must have been 14 or 15.
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>>11489147
you people all the same, you love to brag about your successes but you never say how you actually did it.
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I probably first realized it when I was about 12. It was a long time ago and porn consisted strictly of magazines. My friend got his hands on some magazines and we were looking at the pictures and I realized that i liked looking at cocks as much as tits and pussy. Just kept my mouth shut about it.

When I was 15 I had a crush on a neighborhood girl but then met one of my brother's friends and started crushing on him. It was a confusing time.

Got married young, lived the straight life for years until my wife decided she didn't want to have sex any more. Easily switched to guys.
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>>11489587
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>>11471577
>tfw trubi top
>want only to date men
>masc ones aren't my type and 99% fem either look too much like women/trannies, imitate women or act like women
>want only cute slim ones with apathetic attitude which are either bottom or switch
Can anyone relate?
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>>11490842
>can anyone relate?
literally everyone
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>>11490860
>everyone
Are you sure about that?
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>>11471577
>Always have a fondness of boobs/pretty women.
>At around ten, I watch the rape scene from Deliverance.
>Hot af for my 10 year-old mind.
>Jerk off to men and women ever since.
I love being bisexual. I've only dated a girl and want to see what being with a man is like.
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>>11471577
Pretty much as soon as I hit puberty I knew. I guess it clicked whenever I was 12 and I started getting bullied over it after dumbly telling a couple acquaintances that I liked men and women, thinking that it was the norm.
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>>11471577
it didn't clicked; I always thought that it would make more sense.
(also i used to fantasize about being fucked, that's how I learn how to masterbuate at ~13)
when I date girls, I have the dumb habit to crush on their ex-bf too lol
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>>11489818
>you people all the same, you love to brag about your successes but you never say how you actually did it.

What are you talking about? By successes do you mean dating? If so, then it's just like everything else in life. You have to put in the work. Go out and meet people, stay/get in shape, put yourself out there. Same basic things for anyone dating. You aren't owed anything in life and you've got to bust your ass for whatever you want. There isn't some magic secret. Odds are you'll get shot down at least a few times. Life isn't fair so do what you can to stack the deck in your favor. Learn whatever you can from your fails and better yourself for the next try.

This isn't some grand wisdom or such garbage, it's just basic life advice.
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https://discord.gg/6WvjM8a

A bisexual discord server (different from the reddit one)
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Are there any Australians here who I could experiment with?
I am Bi-Curious.
Honestly I just want friends too.
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>>11494402
>any Australians here
I have a didgeridoo. Does that count?
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>>11494487
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>>11471577
Like 2 months ago
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Any other bi guys feel kind of resentful toward bi girls? They get all the benefits of being bisexual with none of the downsides.
Female same-sex activities aren't stigmatized like male ones. The worst a guy will ever think if he finds out his gf used to date a woman is "that's hot." It's bad enough that some women even lie and say that they are bisexual for male attention.
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>>11494680
I don't feel resentful but its obviously harder for bi men
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>be me 60 minutes ago
>try to suck my dick furiously
>fail because dicklet
>realize that i want to suck someone else dick
>watch gay porn for the first time
>play with my ass and have one of the best orgasm i ever had
I'm still confused and don't know what to do i have always considered myself straight.
Also i cant tell anyone about this because i live in a third world country and people will hate me and probably beat me
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>>11471577
it was like 8th grade i think, i had attraction to men but i repressed it pretty hard before
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>>11494680
Another whining pussy ass bitch muh muh men r oppressed
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>>11471577
Idk when I found out but I'm glad I did.
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>>11496467

Nah it's true. Bi dykes have it a lot easier
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>>11495807
You can be bicurious. Or even aroused simply by the taboo, rather than gay porn itself.
Or you can be bisexual. That means that you could live a fufilling life with a man or a woman.
Or you could have the big gay. If you grew up somewhere where gay is stigmatized it makes sense that you might not have found out until now.
And one last thing: just because other people might disapprove or beat you, you ARE NOT a bad person. Still might be a good idea to keep it low-key, I don't know your situation. Good luck and godspeed Anon, be true to yourself.
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>>11473642
Second on the right. Clearly the alpha male.
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>>11471577
after I started taking progesterone I suddenly noticed that I was massively more interested in men.
looking back on it I'd gotten crushes on men before but internalized homophobia or whatever prevented me from realizing they were crushes.
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>>11496528
the one next to Leonardo DiCaprio?
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>>11496490
Because men like lesbians.
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>>11494680
this isn’t really true. most guys find it hot, yeah, but only in a very limited way & cis lesbians fucking despise you. i do think bi men have it worse though
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Boys:
>funny
>goofy and light hearted
>dominant and can punch me in the face
>smells manly like testosterone is his perfume
>maybe a bit of body hair
>a nice beard
>good hair
>vidjagames
>kinda socially retarded

Girls:
>girls who look like an exact clone of me but maybe a different race
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>>11471577
When I made out with a guy at a party, and had my first crush on a femmy looking Uni classmate.

>be straight guy
>always thought butt stuff is the *hottest* thing
>have given it to cisgirls before, so I've made the newfag (heh) mistakes

>be procrasturbating an hour ago
>dick not cooperating; am limp as a dishrag
>let's_do_this.png
>condom plus finger(s), condom plus sharpie
>actually got things moving unlike previous attempts
>can't find the G spot at all
>doesn't hurt, got pretty far in, and nothing
>it was kind of exciting at points, but no hand-less boner

>mfw I'm sitting here feeling like I gave my butthole a mild rug burn and not having experienced the best orgasm a guy can have.
This is literally the only reason I haven't made any moves on boys too: I want to be able to bottom.
godfuckingdammit
Can some guys just not cum from their butt? Because this has been a constant problem.
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>>11497777
I can't cum from my butt on my own, but some guys make me cum. I'm usually satisfied bottoming without cumming tho.
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>>11497777
What gets you off anon? For some people touching themselves isn't enough, and need some mental stimulation like imagining they're getting fucked violently or passionately.
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>>11496966
Yeah that dude. He's got arms around both boys and all the other boys have their bodies pointed in his direction.
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>>11497272
>can punch me in the face
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>>11497847
Christ that's sounds awful. Especially when your the one being violated.

>>11497865
*sigh*
I have exclusively been dominant till this point. Control and ownership gets me going. In a BDSM senario I am a Master who likes keeping my servants in line and bending them to my resplendent will.
Indeed, my experimenting has been in an attempt to awaken my sub side [spoiler]and to more easily convince cis girls into butt stuff.[/spoiler].
There hasn't been much visualization in my experimenting, I'll admit that.
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>>11498071
My ideal doesn't have me as a perma-Dom, tho. I want to FEEL in control, and thus need to be challenged by my sub; a Master that cannot crush a snotty bitch doesn't deserve to dom.
I've had submissive and masochistic episodes before, I know it's there.
I'm really not sure whether to be full power bottom or my vision of the perfect sub: constantly defiant till they are made to be obedient.
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>>11494680
I agree with >>11495491
Even though bi women get fetishised by straight guys, it's not hated the way being a male and dating/fucking males is.
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>>11498125
Most people aren't interested in babysitting a bratty kid
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>>11494680
I have always been resentful.
This is just one part of why the current patriarchal system isn't even good for men overall: you are still stuffed into a straight jacket called the "Alpha male." Having any gay tendencies at all makes you a "faggot."
>>11496467 (KYS, you hateful bitch) is an obvious example; ANY feminine tendency makes you a little bitch.
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>>11475527
boy:
>around my age (18)
>soft facial facial features
>dark hair
>smaller than me (194cm/6'4),preferabally shorter than 185
>strict bottom
>playful personality
>very low bmi and little muscle, but not malnourished. basically enough to have a cute butt
>into music from the '60s and' 70s
>wears cute stuff like oxford shirts, loafers, canvas sneakers, polo shirts, corduroy

girl
>around my age but preferabally a little older
>playful personality
>has opinions on stuff guys have opinions on (politics, music)
>preferabally a bit thicc
>tall-ish, atleast for someone who is 194
>wears cute stuff like pic rel
>willing to take the lead in the relationship

also anons, i want you to know i read all your stories even if not replying
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>>11498975
just realised while reading this that i want guys to be a little sub and girls a little dom in the relationship. weird
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>>11498975
this pic literally the Virgin stance / The Chad pose (but switched)
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anyone else bi who is only attracted to either men or women? trannies disgust me 2bh, theyre insane
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>>11499156
I'm not disgusted by them, I'm just not sexualy attracted to them
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just fapped to gayporn for the first time so welcome me to the club i suppose
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>>11500697
I did that last week. Shit's weird, isn't it?
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>>11500715
yeah. idk what to do right now. going to sleep i think
didnt really need this, especially since im not even that young to discover this (18),ive been fapping to women for 6 years
im also only attracted to a very specific type of guy while im attracted to most women. kinsley scale fuckery i suppose? or is gay attraction different than hetero attraction since it always seems gay guys have a type they like most.
anyway going to sleep now and hope i feel beter when i wake up, maybe ill dream of a cute bf
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>>11500740
Same here. I'm 20, everything's similar for me
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>>11500740
>>11500813
>im also only attracted to a very specific type of guy while im attracted to most women
are you attracted to every races? fatties? the ones with a shaved head? old +50yo ones? etc. probably not: you're attracted a very specific type of women, with a more broader range tho. Think about it, straight ppl aren't attracted to e-v-e-r-y person from the opposite gender.
(also, the more you'll be accustomed to the idea, the more your taste will grow for different types, but it may take more time)
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>meet bosses' son
>androgynous and kind of shy/self-conscious but seems lonely
>talk to him because holy shit he's adorable
>after we leave my boss makes disparaging comments about his looks/mannerisms and said he was glad we hit it off and hopes I might "rub off on him" (I'm "straight passing" and don't go around broadcasting I like dudes because of this exact shit)
>don't have the heart to tell my boss that I want to rub off on him in the sense that I want to bust a nut on his face

On a scale from 1 to invading Russia in winter, how bad of an idea is it to sleep with the son of your boss?
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>>11501083
For that particular boss? Sounds like you should bring a nice parka, anon. I hear Russia gets mighty cold.
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does being in a long distance relationship ever stop sucking? I wish we could make concrete plans about when we'll move in together
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>>11499000
for me it's entirely the opposite, i wanna dom girls, while being pinned down and fucked without mercy by boys
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I just want to get fucked all ready
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>>11501128
That sounds fair. But since I'm super great at making bad choices, I'll probably do it anyway.
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>>11501083
Japan attacking pearl harbor. That bad.
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big fan of both dicks and vaginas
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Does it really count as being bi if my taste is so specific?
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>>11503872
there are different levels of bisexuality, friend
what is your taste
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>>11503872
Just like gay or straight people, it's ok to have a specific type, as long as you have types for both genders, you're bi, it doesn't need to be 50/50
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>24 year old man
>been a total bottom pretty much since puberty
>dated several men, a couple long term relationships
>recently starting to get off on femdom porn
What the fuck /lgbt/? This has never happened before, am I gonna have to lose my gold star?
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Being bi, how would I make myself available for other guys without completely revealing the fact that I'm bi to other people? Is it possible or can I not have one or the other? I recently came to the conclusion that I'm bi so I'm pretty new to all of this.
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>>11505495
I mean you could just fap to it, but keep that separate from the rest of your life.
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>>11506149
tindr, grindr, (for hookups mainly) or gay bars
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>>11506221
Forgot to mention I'm still in HS, I don't want to make it a big deal and make it known to everyone that I'm bi, especially my family since they'll probably catch wind of it and I don't really want to talk to them about it.
>inb4 underage b&
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>>11506265
subtly look for gay/bi guys at your school, if you know any that are publically out, ask a friend of theirs for their number or something and meet up outside of the school
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>>11502608
Eh, I've always been a fan of certain doom. There's been this one girl I liked for a while (she's unavailable) and he totally blows her out of the water. I haven't so much as glanced at her in days.

Weird thing though is my boss keeps bringing his son up to me? Today he was like "Haha see if you can get him to cut his hair." which no. His hair is great. But he said if I was serious about "not minding" hanging out with him, then I should. So I told him "yeah, sure."

I might have doomed myself.

>>11503872
My tastes are kind of specific, too. But I'm definitely into both.

>>11506265
Goodspeed you brave soul. I was too confused/too much of a weeb to even think of making a move on a guy in high school.
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I'm almost at the point where I think I might just be a huge lesbian. I mean I find men attractive and sometimes I'm like "yeah I really could go for a dicking" but then the actual act of doing that is kind of meh and gross. I find I'm mostly attractive to femme and female partners. I find trans, NB beautiful but IDK it's always weird for me.
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>>11506759
>sometimes I'm like "yeah I really could go for a dicking" but then the actual act of doing that is kind of meh and gross
maybe you should try getting a good man to be your bf and make love to you instead of just getting some guy to dick you
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>>11506654
I told like 2 of my close friends (girls) about it and from what I could tell I think they thought it was cute, but they we're supportive more importantly. I'm more afraid of telling my close guy friends about it since it might change the way they perceive me.
Another issue is that the highschool I go to has barely any cute guys and the ones that are cute I'm just about sure they aren't into other guys.
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>>11506766
thing is I've tried dating guys and some really nice ones, but there is just something that I know deep down I could never live with a male. I find them beautiful sometimes but I can't see me settling down with one, I've had to break some really beautiful and wonder mens hearts because I knew it was me.
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>>11506759
that sounds like me except I'm a trans guy.
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>he isn't gay and doesn't like you
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>>11475546
Is that Kurt?

If it is, congratulations anon, you successfully made me sad.
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>>11471577
I know i am a shity because i am atracted for anything born male.
I can imagine myself being a girl for a dominant guy, or just a guy with other guy. I can even see me with a tgirl. I reject cis girl to a point that i started thinking about dating an operated mtf but i cant see myself with a cisgirl.
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>>11471577
when i liked both dudes and trans girls
who just left me after a great relationship
rip
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
will my mind be fixed if i hook up with a cis female?
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>>11471577
i was watching porn and saw a dick and i was like "thats pretty neat"

but i also like pussy because thats also neat.

>>11475527
Pretty much the same for both.
a lot shorter than me (i'm 6'6)
in good shape but not muscular
has a dominant attitude but likes to get dominated
is creative and likes fun
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>be me, 28 y/o
>identify as straight
>be an ass man for as long as i can remember
>reach the point where i can appreciate a quality ass, regardless of the junk attached to it
>reach the point where i realize "welp, i've jacked off to enough male asses at this point..."

granted, it's been mostly 2D, and i don't know if i could ever see myself in a relationship with anything but a female... but i dunno. I've also got a few fetishes (farting, especially) where i'm only turned on when it involves a male.

i guess i could say i'm "bi but lean towards females" but at the same time my bi-ness mostly just applies to a couple fetishes. i truly can't say i have any interest in the whole LGBT community/culture/cult/whatever the fuck you people consider yourselves to be.
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>>11501083
Do you think you two will be able to keep it hidden from the father?
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>>11510603
idk if you're a virgin but porn (and 2D porn even more) is TOTALLY different than real sex (and being a fetishist doesn't imply that you must not be hetero, so yeah you're right by identify as straight)
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>tfw no relationship with a cute boy and cute girl at the same time, travelling the mediterrean coast and fucking them both each night
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I found out when realized I liked a girl the same way I like boys. I had masturbated at pictures of women before but explained it to myself "if I was that hot all the guys would want me, I just like the thought of that"

>>11494680
Fuck you. I was bullied in school for being "lesbian" (while there was a gay guy and all the mean girls wanted to be his bff and would not let straight boys bully him) and my two ex bfs shamed me for it. But I am pretty masculine looking, and most men hate that anyway.
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yo /bigen/ need some help over here

is it ok to meet up some rando off grindr and do slutty stuff with him if it's my first time?

I keep waiting to meet a cute boy in real life and do it with him but it's not happening fast enough! i fear I might regret it though afterwards
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>>11511405

You might regret it. You may not. You're probably going to have a lot of meaningless sex throughout your life, as do most people. If you're just interested in sex then go for it. Discuss it with the guy. Meet in public first. Head back to your place or his or even a hotel. Use protection. Just don't expect a relationship to come from it. Most guys on Grindr are there for one thing
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>>11511603

Wrong thread anon. Try the femboy gen
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>>11511649
thanks
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>>11498975
im 20, 180cm, bottom, like all kinds of music my fav from 70s era is CCR. im working on losing weight and muscle and im on hrt.
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>>11511706
why are you taking hrt? do you have dyshporia or do you take it to look more feminine/twinkish?
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>>11511725
bit of both
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>>11511737
but do you actually want to become a mtf transsexual?
would be a waste imo
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>>11511741
im on the fence abot that as for now, ive stopped the testoserone from ruining me even more so ive got time to think about it. i just want to be more fem.
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>>11511753
honestly i think you'd regret going trans like almost everyone else. have you ever been the sub in a homosexual relationship? i think that would statisfy all the feelings of femininity you'd want to have since you get to be cute, you get to be 'unmanly' in the traditional sense etc.. of course there is nothing wrong with taking a bit of hrt to look more feminine
and the bonus is you'd get to be in a relationship with a guy who is secure in his sexuality instead of a 'straight' guy who does all kinds of mental gymnastics to date a tranny to pretend to not be atleast bi
if you aren't in a constant state of body dysmorphia i wouldnt do it if i were you
love you anon
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>>11511781
ive only got body disphoria so i think it would be enough to lose some weight and lose muscle mass, i havent been i a gay relationship yet but im not really comfortable getting in a relationship while im struggeling with my bodyimage.
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>>11511833
that is okay but make sure you don't actively block relationships because of your body issues. dont make yourself feel inadequate
if losing weight and muslce is what you want, definetly go and do that! it is important to try to achieve your ideal body
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>>11511858
im open for relationship, just not looking for it right now, i live in a small town in rural norway so everyone just assumes that everyone is straight and normal. but ill be starting school in a bigger town this summer so hopefully things get better there. but now that im getting healthier some girls i know are all over me all the sudden and im not sure wtf to do.
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>>11511889
are you sexually, or at the very least romantically attracted to females?
dont get in a heterosexual relationship just because you have to and society tells you. if you are an actual bisexual and confident in that fact dont hesitate if you like the girl. have you ever been in a relationship before?
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>>11511945
i was in a relationship with a girl when i was 17, we didnt have sex and just enjoyed eachothers company but i changed schools and she moved. i havent been in any serious relationships after that really.
i am both sexually and romantically attracted to both women and men, but i just dont see how being in a straight relationship would work as im really submessive and on hrt which makes my penis not work x2.
i like the girl thats interested in me, but in a friendly way, i have sort of "friendzoned" her out of fear of her outing me if she gets to know me to well.
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>>11512009
yeah im also afraid of coming out. i also dont know any boys i'd like to be in a relationship with, though, think it might be a different case if i knew any though
to be honest, i'm a top and not submissive but i also think it would be hard for at our age to get in a relationship with a woman if you are sub, because most women dont know what the fuck they want sexually yet and she probably doesnt know if she is even domme or sub.
if you look at her personality, would you guess she is dominant? maybe she is a dom if she is attracted to you and you look kind of twinkish and maybe act sub in real life
also, how do you masturbate if your dick doesnt work?
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>>11512043
her persionality is all over the place, but i would guess she tilts towards dom.
i can get hard, but i dont really produce any semen anymore and i havent masturbated in a while, like 20 days or more.
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>>11512112
how did you even get on hrt actually? when are you planning on getting off it?
as for the girl: if you like her romantically i'd suggest becoming clear withouth saying you are bi just to be sure:
say you have body issues or body dysmorphia and you have been on HRT for a while now to fix those issues and that you are very submissive.
well reading that she'd probably gouge you were bi anyway. maybe ask her to keep it secret?
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>>11512137
and ps, if you can't 100% trust her to keep your sexual preferences secret i'd not even start the relationship
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>>11512137
ive been on hrt diy for 3 weeks now, ordering off shesalady. im probably never going off it.
i do have some fem outburst sometimes when i get really excited or im in a really good mood, so people have asked me if im gay before but im not sure if people know for sure.
i wouldnt trust her to keep it secret and im not ready to come out yet.
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>>11512200
but you know the effects if you go on HRT permanently? it won't just make you feminine but actual female looking. if you go on it permanetly you have no choice but become a mtf transsexual.
correct me if i'm wrong
anyway stay safe anon, and i hope you'll be alright. big city is better for people like us, you'll be happier next year. i'm going to cook now, i'm hungry
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>>11512220
im planning on just staying on a low dose of hrt (cypro and estrofem) til i get female fat redistribution and then ill look more into how to move forward from there.
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>>11480897
Fucking phenomenal aesthetics anon
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>>11471577
I was straight by default growing up, but then it turns out boys are a lot of fun to hang out with, I'm also a sub and like the idea of a big strong man holding me. Which I now have, so that's nice. Women are still sexy though and I lust after them so it's not like I'm only gay either. I think I'm into relationships with men, and would be up for casual sex or cuddles with women. I doubt my personality is very compatible with women in a relationship though, unless they're les or dom or smth.

Also what do I do if both my boyfriend and I are bi, are considering marriage, but also don't want to live a life where we never have sex with women ever again? I don't like the idea of an open relationship where I could come home to my husband having sex with someone else (and I would also not want that situation reversed). Are there many women who are into group stuff where we can all have fun together?
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>>11512538
if you're both bi, I'd suggest you guys just be open with eachother. if every once in a blue moon you say that you'd like to do something with a woman too, your bf will probably understand
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>>11475527
bf

>5'10 or taller
>at least 6/10 can be cute or hot
>loves vidya or at least plays a little
>dick size doesn't matter but would prefer something 7 inches or more
>thicc based boi or /fit/ man (can be skinny if qt twink)
>has a good taste music (preferably thrash metal but 50s is ok)
>dark or offensive sense of humor and can take jokes, not a sensitive pussy

gf

>5'9 or shorter so i can give headpats
>qt with anime aesthetic
>loves vidya and anime
>music is optional but no zoomer shit
>same sense of humor as bf
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>>11471622
Epic meme
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>>11471577

Is anyone here more dominant with men? With women, I just feel as if it's too easy. The fact that I'm always going to be biologically stronger than her basically negates any thrill I'd get from being sexually dominant. With men, it's different. There often isn't necessarily someone who is more physically superior. It's a bit more egalitarian in this regard. I get off on the idea of actively placing a dude in the passive position, a position he's traditionally not supposed to be in. Pinning him down. Bending him over. Having my way with him. Having a boyfriend who's just my bro in everyday life but my bitch in the bedroom would be fucking perfect desu
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>>11512802
i agree. i think its so hot to make a guy your bitch, a slave to your cock
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got an njoy wand today, my first sex toy and I haven't really done anal masturbation that much.
It is a lot thicker than it looked online, and since I bought it with gift cards I didn't have enough for lube.
How am I supposed to fit this thing up my ass?
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>>11512878
>how am i supposed to fit this thing up my ass?
you're not. save up money for some lube. if you haven't had experience with this before, don't do it without lube or it'll just feel bad
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>>11512912
is there anything I can use as lube? Olive oil or something?
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>>11473226
>gave ex a cuntshattering orgasm from not even my best oral technique for girls
>first guy i got frisky with in a bathroom stall came in 30 seconds flat and told me i'm better than any guy he'd been with before
>got cumdrunk both times
i think i may qualify
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>>11475527
>gf
Black hair and black lipstick. Small stature with nice B-cups and big areolae. Someone i can dream with/do shit like just sit outside and watch the stars. Soulmate if you will. Last part goes for boys too.
>bf
Femboy or just twink with nice skin. Long hair. A soft voice. Optional willingness to wear skirts for me. Same as above, deep understanding/chemistry.

Both should like oral, both giving and receiving.

It pains me knowing the girl i'm meeting soon is asexual but she also confuses the hell out of me cause she let a lot of innuendos shine through recently while also being the one to initially want and organize the meetup. Do i even have a chance? Not sure if i should make a move or let it be.
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i dont feel okay in this world anymore, i dont feel able to fit into gay culture or straight culture because the straights think im "too gay" for them and the gays think im "too straight" for them and im fucking lost as to how to fit into anything, i wonder if many bis have the same issue or if they literally just never come out and pose as one or the other

i thought at least the gay men ive met in my life would be accepting and understand rejection for something you cant control but its like the second i mention my sexuality they turn, like im some sort of slut or fake or something just for being bi

is this normal? or is it where i live? im getting suicidal over this lately because for 10 years since i came out it only gets worse and i feel more and more isolated and lost
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>>11511327
>Pretty masculine looking
An ex of mine was sort of like that. Really broad shoulders, strong arms, hint of abs, short hair and such. It's insanely hot. I think you can find a lot more people who'd think you're hot than you might think.
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>>11513160
This is the reason I'll never openly identify as being bi.

It's not that I'm worried about not being accepted by everyone else, it's that I don't want to be accepted by the LGBT subculture. Fuck them and their "pride".
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>>11512802
>both bi, switch and versatile
feels fucking good
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>>11513187
i cant even maintain a relationship unless i pretend to be one or the other because girls get weird if i mention ive been with men and men get weird if i mention ive been with girls so i have to try and fucking hide my entire life, its tiring, i wish id just repressed everything and not believed the whole "you can be open and proud in this day and age!!!" bullshit because clearly i fucking cant
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>>11513160
It's okay anon. People fear and shun what they can not understand. The community supposedly has gotten bad for bis. Personally i just pose as straight to my family, but my friends now know i'm bi. I have no urge to come out of the cloest with my family though. I'm super lucky to not have been rejected by any friend for letting them know, i'm aware or that, but for whatever it is worth you are welcome here anon. It's okay to eat pussy one day and suck dick the other. It's okay to love boys the way you love girls. It's okay to love people.
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>>11513196
Are you me?
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>>11513205
You can be happy or content without being proud, anon. Just remember that.
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>>11513240
i dont think i could ever be happy or content with myself without running away from everything and starting again

>>11513232
anon your comment meant a lot more than i can say im not used to feeling accepted, thank you
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>>11513205
>girls get weird if i mention ive been with men

>ew but does that mean you did stuff with his poohole
Why do girls always forget that oral exists when it's between two men
>explain to her that oral exists
>i didnt think guys are into giving oral that much
Every. fucking. time.
At least that was always the reaction from the girls i told. I must live in a weird part of the world.
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>tfw will probably never have a threesome with two other bis, guy and girl, servicing them both orally, freely going from eating out a girl right into sucking dick and back
This is actual pain.
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>24 and khhv

Is it too late? I just want somebody to top me, idgaf about their gender.
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>>11513329
>Why do girls always forget that oral exists
because the main, most important physical sex act between a woman & a man is penetration: a woman is fucked by her holes. And the vaginal penetration is the one that give her pleasures & orgasms. Of course a straight woman thinks this modus operandi (=penetration) must also be the norm for homos. She struggles to put herself in the shoes of a non-straight person, in the same way you struggle to put yourself in the mind of a woman. Learn empathy bitch.
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>>11513160
>>11513187
Reading these made me really sad. I’m really sorry about how much people suck and hope you guys find at least a couple people you can share your feelings in their entirety with.
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>>11513449
>all sex must be penetration = empathy
>the penetration is the one to give her pleasure and orgasms
>pretending clits don't exist
That's not putting myself in the shoes of a woman, it's the shoes of close-minded person.
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>>11513594
straight people are close-minded for the most part
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Am a girl who exclusively dates guys. I also have a high degree of physical attraction to women (though this is proven to be common even in straight women, and also I'm a virgin) and have had exactly one crush on a girl about a decade ago. I was in denial for a while, but considering myself bisexual lets me not have to keep rationalizing those minor tendencies.

I'm very straight-leaning, unless I'm dating a guy I'm not really into, and then I get anxiety attacks about actually being a closeted total lesbian.
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>>11513693
no bisexual has pure 50% male female attraction
im a guy who likes for the most part women but can fall head over heels for some guys
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>>11513754
Y-you... sure?
Have you dated both?
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>>11514897
About falling head over heels for some men I mean...
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I know this may not be the right thread but i need advice
>Girl i've known for years
>sometime over the past years she came out as asexual
>all well
>cue last year
>shit goes south in her life, i'm there for her through it all
>feel bond growing but just stamp it off as deeper friendship from helping
>few weeks later realize i have a goddamn crush on her
>our talks and chats start containing tons of innuendos from her and my side both, which has usually never been a thing for her
>at this point she has invited me over to her place
>know there's gonna be alcohol
I'm so conflicted. I feel like i should make a move but her asexuality/aromantic nature wouldnt just change, would it? I don't wanna risk what's there right now by making it awkward with an approach that i should know shouldn't lead anywhere.
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>>11514979
I mean its up to her. Maybe there's something about her sexuality that's atypical and/or that she herself does not understand.
There could be a lot of reasons why her sexuality isn't necessarily what you or her expect.
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>>11512878
this anon here
holy fuck is all I can say
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I've never had a crush on a guy. But then,I seem to only have crushes on girls after I've started to suspect she could be interested or whatever.
And until recently, I've never really had any sort of really intense homoerotic fantasy. Like, it bordered on romantic?

I don't know what to make of this.
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>>11471577
When I realised after five years of boarding school and admiring the physical sculpture of guys after showers (Platonically), that I honestly couldn't give enough of a fuck about finding my sexual preferences, that I just decided to call it bi in case anyone asks.

>What actually is my sexuality?
>Straight? Gay?
>Bi? Esoteric?
>Do I give a fuck?
>Not really. Guess it's not relevant then.
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>>11514979
Make a move anon.
Look, it's rare for people to stay asexual, as people are generally coded to be as interested in reproducing as living.
Maybe she's gone through hard times and realised she was denying her sexual wants out of either feeling special or pure as an asexual, or from society telling her sex is evil.
Best you can do is not pansy out, but go and figure it out.
But do be careful about it. It's about her that night, not you. Don't forget it, but it the moment comes to confess your feelings, do so, as delicately but confidently as you can.
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>>11514897
Yeah, not that anon, but I'm pretty much the same way, could see myself dating guys, but I prefer girls more, as my personality fits better to it I guess.
I appreciate and understand the physicality's of both male and female and the attractions towards both, but I prefer of the two the female figure.
Of interesting note, apparently, the female figure is considered to be the more attractive in a pure nonsexual preference sense, which could be the source of a lot of bisexuality.
Femanons? Does this seem vaguely accurate?
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>>11514905
yes, definetly had crushes on men.
my attraction to women is just more general, though, only attracted to a very specific type of man
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>>11471577
When I had sex with a guy.
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>>11514979
You're friend with her now? Act as a friend, don't use her or manipulate her to fuck her: talk with her about what's going down in her life, is she still asexual, is everything still allright etc. THEN move on if she hints she's available
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>>11515058
>>11516376
>>11517170
Thank you all for the input

>>11516376
You may be right. Maybe i'm too hung up on the thought of her having said what she is some 4 years ago and underestimating the possibility of things just changing when it comes to sexuality. >>11517170
I don't want to manipulate her and just fuck her. I'm genuinely interested in her, she's a rare kind. The kind of mate you can just talk with and don't know where the time went and boom it's 4am. The kind to thank you for just existing near her. I want to make a move and be clower to her, not guide her into taking my dick. Sorry if it came off that way.
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>>11517636
yes, my life. double the chance to lose your virginity
2x0=0
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>>11518039
Kek
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>>11512802
>>11512844
>>11513196

Yup, it just feels so intense. Always been curious as to how the more submissive guys feels because to me there's just nothing better than the feeling of fucking another man as he moans into a makeshift gag of his cum stained briefs. It would be interesting to know what's going on the other guy's mind desu
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>>11499000
Greatest taste.

>>11501083
Absolutely fuck your bosses son. Do it.
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who else watch Defiance? it was some hot characters, who are also bi
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>>11517636
say what you want about reddit, but they have good bi memes https://www.reddit.com/r/bi_irl/
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>>11518184
>It would be interesting to know what's going on the other guy's mind desu
The best doms started out as subs
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>>11507619
Kurt didn't have to go so soon, it's true.
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>>11519418
I blame Courtney
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>>11501083
don't be a pussy dude
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>>11519500
I blame soulless corporate money whores more than her. I think Kurt wanted a more simple life, and suddenly a thousand people are looking to make a bandwagon and a ton of money and he's not even sure he's happy. Drug habit or no, I think that was the real problem, that he thought, "now's when I should be happy. Success, money... it can't get any better and I'm still not happy. Well peace, I'm out this bitch."
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>>11506792
>I'm just about sure they aren't into other guys.
you literally can't be, but a lot of masc/<3Kinsey dudes don't even figure it out/overcome denial until college, so yeah you're in a tough market
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>>11519620
That doesn't explain how the rifle got into an impossible position for a suicide.
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>>11510603
>it's been mostly 2D
I was once where you are but more at age 21-22 and while you might not develop full-blown gay I ended up figuring out I'm pretty fucking bisexual, so... good luck figuring that one out because dating other men for the first time at our age kinda sucks
t. mostly closeted 28yo who can't even work up the balls to go to the local nonprofit LGBT organization's bi/pan night
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>>11519699
Does there really need to be an explanation?
>U
>S
>A
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>>11511706
>CCR
good taste tripfag
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>>11519757
Only if you want the murderer to pay for their crime...
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>>11519749
Is spanking the most bi fetish?
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>>11520437
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>>11520437
We love you too, /gaygen/
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>>11519749
Dating sucks at all age; go to this night, get drunk and flirt with sexy people!
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>>11518514
mfw no lesbo synthetic/alien gf
....her skin looks so mooth uwu
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>>11512538
about 6 months ago I came out to my wife
>yes I know pls kill me
anyway she has basically told me that if she doesn't meet my needs then maybe I need to look elsewhere
but I fear how that probably only means separation or divorce
but a threesome seems like such a goddam cringe festival anyway
I just want a gfwb
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>>11516398
The same barely-bisexual femanon here. It does seem accurate for me.

There was a study that showed that all women, regardless of orientation, are more aroused by women. The researchers suggested women are more turned on by visual cues that represent sex than the actual people involved. My own fantasies work like that: they're more about sexuality in general than about the individuals' looks.

I think it's very possible I find breasts hot only because society associates them so thoroughly with sex. But then, I really wonder whether (and honestly really HOPE) I'm actually more of a straight or a hetero-romantic who just gets turned on by women's bodies due to society and ordinary female wiring.
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>>11521872
There is also another studio that says women find a small arousal around monkeys having sex.
>https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0301051105000323
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>>11522021
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>be straight
>afraid of girls
>start to like guys
>but want to date girls
I don't mind being bi, but I feel like I am not experiencing my sexuality to its fullest. Women are arousing to me,but I feel emotionally distant from them out of fear of being vulnerable. Are girls as bad as they seem?
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>>11522184
The point is that they find arousal by literally any anthropomorphic sexual stimuli. And not because of that they are all bisexuals.
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>>11471577
Eh, the thoughts just come and go, I'll go back and forth between thinking I'm bi and thinking I'm straight
My current questioning phase started when I had an intense fantasy about being a woman getting fucked in the pussy (i had like phantom pussy syndrome or something, shit was hot), now I sometimes have thoughts about taking it in the bum.
I can't wait to get my own place and buy a dildo.
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>>11522224
>And not because of that they are all bisexuals.
Cis women don't really have sexual orientation.
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It's been a while since I've been with a guy, but I've started talking to one recently. We get along very well, but it's just been through texts so far. Assuming everything goes well and we end up fucking, is there a good guide to prepping myself for anal? He's in his late 20's and a virgin, so I'm just assuming I'm the one who is going to be taking.
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>>11522537
if your shower head unscrews, do it, then set it to warm, and slowly increase it until it's a very slight flow coming out, and stick the hose up your bum, wait until some water gets in, and push it all out in your toilet, then repeat the process once or twice more until the water comes out almost clear

also, if it's your first time taking it, practice with a dildo and liberal amounts of lube
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>>11522435
and yet they are the first ones to grandstand and lecture lesbians and gay men about 'open-ness, queerness and sexual fluidity. Its gross.
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>>11510676
I mean, I'm sure I can. He seems like the type who'd be able to keep it from his dad, too. If only because his dad is an ass and treats him like garbage.

>>11518425
I'm sorely tempted. Like, not for the novelty of it, either. He seems like a genuinely nice guy.

>>11519598
Yeah, I already told my boss it was cool if he gave him my contact info. I kind of feel bad because he'll probably be really shitty about it in a "Here's a traditionally masculine guy to be a 'good influence' on you" kind of way. I've already resolved to make up to him for it.

The weird thing is this guy doesn't act "flaming" or whatever (not that I think less of people who do obviously). He just looks androgynous and is kind of shy.
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>>11516398
>the female figure is considered to be the more attractive in a pure nonsexual preference
>pure nonsexual
My sister who has a doctorate (not PHD, but she is definitely a doctor who studies biology and shit) says its the exact other way around.
I don't really believe either one. I think its a crock of nonsense that one of either men or women look almost-objectively more attractive than the other... in a non-sexual sense.

In a human sexual sense however, women tend to be more bisexual so in that sense more people are sexually attracted to the female form than the male form.

But you said non-sexually, and that seems to fit into what you seem to be trying to say.

I think greater female bisexuality stems from, don't get this wrong, but from the fact that there's a slight biological influence towards men having multiple partners so there's some rudimentary and imperfect adaptation to that in some females to a slight extant broadly.
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>>11475714
Fuck. I could be your boyfriend HAHAH

Are you at least a bit twinkish??
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>>11471577
When i started fantasizing about getting fucked by cute traps
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>>11510463
>i was watching porn and saw a dick and i was like "thats pretty neat"
Epic
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>>11523692

Yeah kinda. Ideal aesthetic goal would be twunk status tho desu. Gonna start lifting a lot more soon so hopefully that works out
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>>11471577
I wish it were a cool, romantic moment, but I never really had a realization. One day I just looked at a guy in lycra on a bike out of a bus window and though "Huh, how 'bout that".
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when i was more interested in watching gay porn than les and sometimes straight, but honestly it's just better for other reasons.
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>>11519671
>masc<3Kinsey dudes
Typo?
Also at our school it's sometimes a bit easy to point out who's gay/bi just by the way they act, but the problem is that none of them are attractive to me. Though there's one guy in my gym period who's fucking adorable. A little short, cute face with freckles. But some of the people there are a little homophobic in general so I wouldn't want word getting out that I tried to get in a relationship with him.
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How do I get a QT bf/gf?
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>>11527055
>a little homophobic in general so I wouldn't want word getting out
sounds like you're a little homophobic in general
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>>11528155
You don't
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>>11528187
bisexuals are homophobic closeted gay men without exception
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>>11528251
gays are heterophobic confused straight men without exception
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i feel bad about it but i realized i might be bisexual out of desperation and mostly settling for men.
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>>11528281
I know you are but what am I?!
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>>11528215
;_;
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>>11528187
What? I meant that I'd be humiliated and embarrassed if the guys in my gym period, a lot of which are homophobic, found out I was bi. Most people here are accepting.
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>>11528304
>bisexual out of desperation
Is that like MGTOW?
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>>11528364
>I'd be humiliated and embarrassed
self-loathing homophobia
seek professional help stat
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>>11528447
>>11528187
>being afraid of being bullied and ostricized by your peers for being bi is homophobic

mmmk
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>>11528376
i guess? i get pussy but not often enough for me to be satisfied so i let guys hit too. validation.
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>>11528459
That's exactly what it is.
Sorry about your low IQ.
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>>11528483
so every single LGB person in the closet is homophobic, even if coming out could actually get you killed, like in the middle east?
Sorry about you actually thinking IQ matters
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>>11528459
yes, that is litterally what it is, you fucking brainlet.
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>>11528496
No, just the ones that are ashamed of being gay
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>>11528566

>>11527055 isn't ashamed to be bi. he's just scared of being bullied and ostricized by all the actual homophobes at his school for being bi, so he doesn't want to get a bf
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>>11522580
Thanks for the info. My shower head doesn't come off, but I do have a pretty powerful bidet. Any recommendations for removing hair? I have a very hairy ass.
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>>11518184
I feel an intense craving to submit to men and let them have their way with me. I love being a mindless toy.
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>>11528659
How do you clean the hair on your head?
Use that method.
>inb4 I'm bald you insensitive clod!
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>>11528710
I asked about removing my asshole hair, not cleaning it.
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>>11519749
i don't think i want to date other men. hell, i don't think i want to date women, either.

i go through phases as far as what i get turned on by. i'll go through long stretches where it's only female shit that turns me on, but i've been fapping to male stuff on and off since high school. right now, i'm going through a rare stretch where it's mostly male stuff that's grabbing my attention.

for the record, the only time i had sex was with a girl... about 6 years ago. it went horribly and i don't even like to acknowledge it. didn't turn me off of women, but it did turn me off from wanting to ever pursue another friends-with-benefits relationship. not sure if still feel the same way now, if i ever do though, it has to be somebody who i don't find irritating from a personality standpoint.
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>>11528808
You can't remove it with a shower or a bidet, darling.
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>>11528887
>it's only female shit that turns me on
What about shit, specifically female shit do you find erotic?
The smell, the taste the texture?
Are you also a fan of diapers?
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I want to feel the warmth of another human
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>>11529112
put your cheek on a public toilet seat just after someone has left
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>>11528892
I hope you're only pretending to be retarded.
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>>11529212
>implying a bidet can function as a depilatory
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>>11471577
I was 19, incel, talking to tranners online. I just pretended they were a pretty girl with a dick, and everything felt fine. Things kind of spiraled out of control from there, now I like dicks almost as much as vaginas, even though masculine men are still totally unappealing.
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>>11528566
Why wouldn't you be ashamed of your mental disorder? An intelligent person would choose homophobia over delusional pride.
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>>11529280
Let me guess, You're 19 and a half now.
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>>11529297
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>>11522192
Women aren't bad in that they'll take advantage of your vulnerability the first chance they get. They're bad in that most of them are really stupid and shallow, like a really shitty guy with 10x more entitlement. Finding an intelligent girl with no mental issues that you can relate to involves a lot of luck.
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>>11473642
is that Actual G on the far right?
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>>11529252
That was never implied, you retard.
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>>11473642
imagine the smell...
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>>11475527
>bf
5'11
mid length chocolate brown wavy hair
rosy cheeks
freckles
cute smile
brown or blue eyes
wears cologne constantly
weebish
incredibly kind
athletic
smart

>gf
athletic
toned body
tomboy
spunky
short, dark hair
very caring/motherly
smells flowery
likes being very intimate
outgoing, likes going out together
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I'm a bi woman but also an autistic fuck and I feel like because of that, only men have ever been interested in me since women seem to be more repulsed by autistic people than men seem to be based off of my observations and it just makes me feel like a faker even though i've had both same and different sex experiences.
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romantic attraction towards men: 0%
romantic attraction towards women: 100%
sexual attraction towards men: 10%
sexual attraction towards women: 90%

would you guys still say I'm bisexual?
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>>11529505
I'm the same way, guys have way lower standards so they're the only ones who ever fall for me
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well i realized i liked boys when i got feelings for a boy, then i realized i like girls when i got feelings for a girl. maybe one day i'll realize i'm a pedophile or a furry or something, but so far that hasn't happened.
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>>11529510
many bi men tend to downplay their same sex attraction when coming to terms with their sexuality; its probably higher. BUT if thats real then no, I dont really consider that to be very 'bi'. Bisexuality isnt a 50/50 split, but you are gonna need more of an attraction to men than that to 'qualify' in my opinion.
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>>11529529
okay maybe 20-30%, I just wanted to sort of emphasize that my attraction towards women is way bigger
like in any situation if I had to choose between a really hot guy and a really hot girl I'd always pick the girl first
also I should've mentioned that I'm not a guy rip sorry for the confusion
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i think i have anger issues, stems from my absolutely shit memory, forgetting something I was supposed to do or leaving something at home and having to go back and get it sets me off like no tomorrow

just now
>go to meet gf
>drove half way there then realized left phome at home
>scream and yell at the top of my lungs on the drive back to mine.
>due to anger it takes ten times longer than it would to find it and it was right in front of me
>take a deep breath and make my way kver again
>get there but the damage is already done, im on the brink, anything can set me off
>walking to restaurant and she kisses my shoulder not realizing shes got lipstick on and stains my new white knitted sweater
>she immediately runs forward as if to anticipate my rage
>pisses me off that she would think that of me but shes not wrong
>storm back to my car to find a wet wipe or something to get rid of stain
>tell her to get in and i drove her back home without saying another word and now im back home and i feel like absolute shit
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>>11471577
When my balls touched your mom's balls
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Idk if I should thank or hate 4chan for making me bi
On the one hand it's easier to find a fag to have sex with than a woman, on the other hand it's pretty fucking gay and I would have to hide it
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>>11531001
>being a closet case with internalised homophobia
unsurprisingly 4chan made you loser too
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>>11471577

So dude who normally makes the bigens here. Any of you fags/dykes have any interesting ideas on what the next edition should be bc I'm shit at coming up with them desu
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>>11531760
Being gay is comfy edition
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I think one of the first signs that I was bi was when I saw Nagisa from AssClass and I said "ay that girl's pretty cute" and when it turned out he's a guy i was like "meh, still cute"
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>>11534409
shit taste fa.m
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Oh fuck, I just realized I got a hemorrhoid last year and I'm about to get into a relationship with a guy. I assume I'll be bottoming a bit, but now I'm fucking scared. I wiped some blood from my ass a couple months ago, but it was just once. Do these things go away? How do people deal with this?
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>>11534409
I wouldn't count in 2D as a meter of sexuality, given that is heavily stilized.
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>>11534618
i'm not only attracted to 2D men, Nagisa was just one of the first signs a while ago that i might be bisexual, which turns out i am
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>>11522641
Important update: boss's son is as cute as hell and as nice as I thought he'd be.



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