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During my teenage years i was gay and had low testosterone, now im 21 and have average testosterone and men are starting to disgust me.

Is there a link between low testosterone and sexuality?

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>>11301316
>link between low t and sexuality
probably.
But people's sexuality shift all the time. Plenty of dudes who repress gay and are bi in their 20s and 30s before picking a side. Plenty of bi women who feel more romantically driven to women at a younger age (while being more evenly bi sexually), then by their mid-20s have nothing more than a passing interest in women.
If you find yourself not attracted to anyone now because men "disgust you," then that suggests latent homophobia on your part, and that you quit porn and fucking around for a whle, or dating altogether, and take a long, hard look in the mirror to figure out where this is coming from.

tl;dr low t might cause your sexuality to shift, but it could be anything, no need to panic
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>>11301391
thanks, didnt mean to sound homophobic with the disgusting part, too autistic for talking
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Might be. I've had both high and low testos and it didn't change me in any way sexually.

It's quite normal that a person in his teens feels one way and then later on something else. In teen years, we are hormone driven, sex seeking and most times confused.

>>11301391 Had some good advice. Don't jump into conclusions.
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>>11301410
sorry about the "latent homophobia" accusation.
I don't really know what might be the issue for you, is all - for me the internalized homophobia is usually the likely culprit for shame or disgust following a homosexual encounter.
Usually people who waffle and flux regarding orientation are some type of bi, whereas people who are more sure of being gay in high school usually stay sure, unless they later admit to being pan or bi (and usually they don't because their gay and lesbo friends will give them shit for it, or ask "where is the confusion coming fromk?")

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>be me, a straight guy
>working on a webcomic
>got asked to write a comic that centers around 2 gay lovers

what tropes/cliches should i avoid? i dont want to insult the reader.
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>straight people writing gay characters
Give me one example where this worked out ever.
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>>11300613
Here’s a tip: Don’t virtue signal or write faggy shit. Their sexualities should be an afterthought. Don’t bring more SJW shut down into the community please.
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>>11301348
Dog Day Afternoon
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>>11301348
mulholland drive knows the trickery of the bislut
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>>11300613
you're gonna have to do a lot of research to find the subtle differences between gay and straight relationships. its minor stuff that people will really notice if its missing. if you're up for it then go ahead, but it will be a bit of a minefield if you dont have any great ammount of experience.

Also fuck everyone saying they shouldnt do it because of tumblr memes

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>tfw trans but don't want hrt
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>>11301626
I understand the need for being treated as female socially like in medical settings and such, but you do know that your body isn't actually female as you are an amab person, right? I don't say this to be invalidating. I just want to understand.
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>>11301631
Is it cis female no.
But is it cis male either no.
I refuse to use chromosomes, gametes, and assignment at birth as the sole definition of male and female. These definitions have no practical value in my life. They are useful in certain contexts but not others since they are not readily observable.
Sex is not inherently immutable. The only limitation is based on technology.
Right now I'm neither 100% male nor 100% female.
The issue is what classification works better not just for me but for society as a whole.
Enough has changed that classifying me as female just works. It works at the doctor's office, it works in my daily life, it works at the government office too. People can for the most part ignore that I'm trans. There are some medical issues where it's relevant but most of the time I spend at the doctor's office actually has nothing to do with trans-specific issues. It doesn't even come up at all most of the time, since estradiol-only hrt isn't even really a trans thing.
You put me down as male and that breaks things. It causes confusion and head scratching. My sex becomes a constant issue if I'm considered male as opposed to being a nonissue if I'm considered female.
My primary and secondary sex characteristics are a better match for female than male. Yes I only have a neovagina but there are circumstances where cis-females get vaginoplasty so I don't see it as fair to discount that entirely.
tl;dr I've thought about this more than most people. I don't think I have anything factually incorrect. The only issue I see is with how to interpret those facts and what definitions you choose to use.
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>>11301631
medically a tranny resembles a female in many aspects including a few health risks
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>>11296492
you could rely on surgeries if you have the money or illusion spells if you have enough magicka and you've leveled up your illusion skill tree
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>>11301720
If the surgeries include an orchi that would actually be a kind of hrt and would be helpful.
You'd end up as plastic as a Barbie doll if you tried to rely on surgery for everything else.
I think the health risks would be worse than if you just took hrt.

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How well did trans people here conform to the gender roles of their assigned gender before transitioning?
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>>11288882
>she likes the HOL
>she doesn't like the COC
AGP confirmed
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>>11299423
This is the funniest think I have read in a while ^.^ Bookmarked.
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>>11288806
Here's my Big 5. I'm mtf.
>>11294132
Extroverts out!
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>>11301560
It's okay the high extroversion combined with high neurotocism just means I'm super clingy and drive everyone a way and constantly find myself cripplingly lonely and a desperate need for intimate human contact that can never be satisfied.
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>>11301660
Getting a little more serious, extroverts are OK as long as they don't treat me like a disease for being introverted. I've had that happen a lot, but there are genuinely nice people who aren't so judgmental.
I suspect my high agreeableness and openness come across as fake even though they're genuine.
Low conscientiousness = flaky. I guess l have different priorities than highly conscientious people.
My neuroticism is fine, but what I do have shows up mostly as social anxiety, which is the worst.
Add it all up and you get a lonely person, though people think I'm nice and will often confide in me because I'm mostly nonjudgmental. Though I do have my standards.
I see your test uses different labels and has reversed some scales.
You actually seem similar to me, except that we're opposite on extroversion/introversion, and I'm a bit less neurotic.
I suppose it's worse being an extrovert who has trouble connecting to people than to be an introvert with that trouble because the introvert is less needy.
Since your conscientiousness is low, do people think you're flaky like they do me? That can drive people away. It's like people expect you to do things that seem unimportant and not worth bothering with. My priorities seem strange to people.
Sorry for the blog!

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Does anyone else wish they were another gender, but don't want it enough to care?
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>>11295655
That was be a few years ago but don't worry those thoughts will return
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>>11295655
I tried to not care as I wasn't able to transition. It got a whole lot worse and it's too late now.
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>>11295655
e g g
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It's more so about the transition itself. If there was a magic button that turned me into a women Id do it because I think life would be easier. But I don't care enough to actually take girly pills and what not.
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This. Every day, I wish I could be a beautiful girl, but know and accept that I and a man.

With Kevin Hart and that football player getting called out for being “homophobic”, do you honestly care?
I mean I’m not straight myself and I rag on gay people, call people fags, and even don’t like a large part of the community.
Thoughts?
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>>11301640
Your opinions are just that bad. I imagine every breeder who's ever bashed a fag has had you in mind.
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>>11301360
Hi,

Not liking the LGBT community is pretty normal because it's honestly full of delusional people, suicidal people, hedonists, nihilists, and people with defeatist mentalities.
I'm trans and I honestly don't like the community at all, if you can even call it a community, that is. I have nothing against gay or trans rights but whenever people try to create a community based on their sexuality or gender being abnormal, it just becomes awful really really fast.
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>>11301668
Conspiracy theory.
>>11301674
Damn...
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>>11301687
No he was literally forced to "step down" by the academy you idiot. Read like a single news article on it.
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>>11301691
Oh okay
Deserved.

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Hey /lgbt/ I'm going to CVS. Do you want anything?
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1 flavor of each gatorade they have and a job application
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>>11301518
Blue Cherry and Blackberry Wave are it. Really, I don't know why they even make other flavors. <3
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Stormtrooper action figure!
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>>11301389
i'll just go with you. i love walks to the convenience store during the night/evening. i usually end up getting a bottle of dr pepper or some other soda.
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>>11301628
<3 lovely. It is cold out I think. I do want to check out the model cars. Had some good ones last time I was in.
Think I'll grab a ginger ale and a Milky Way.

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How do you cope with being a heighthon? There's nothing worse than being a huge manly monster.
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>>11298575
mfw I’m 6’2 but my body is mostly proportional
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>>11298575
its only bad if you're also a skullhon/jawhon/midfacehon
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>>11298888
Greetings citizen. care to explain your comment?
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>>11298826
Being a 6'1 guy with a 5'8 gf means that you get the best of both words!
>When you're both standing up straight you're at the perfect height to kiss her on the forehead and make her blush
>She still has to either slightly look up to you for a kiss (cute) or stand on her toes to be level with you when you refuse to bend down (even cuter)
>Depening on her physique she could even lean her head on your shoulder without straining her neck too much from being too tall or you having to bend your back because she is too smol.

Stop complaining, start finding slightly-taller-than-you bf!
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>>11301465
i’m 5’7 and my bf is 6’2, it’s literally the perfect height difference for cuddles and hugs

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Hello /lgbt/,
I want to start HRT, but unfortunately my parents received my package while I was at work and the carrier told them it was from a "suspicious seller". They found out I ordered hormone pills and sent them back, they confronted me about it later but I just denied everything.
How do I get my hands on HRT stuff now? They will probably be suspicious of every package I receive now. I don't know how to get it delivered to the post office because I never did that before, and it's a bit risky too because my father is often there for work reasons.
My parents don't know that I'm trans and I don't want to tell them. What should I do now?
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>>11296018
Get drunk, cut off your balls, and you won't need to pay out the ass for anti androgens.

Bonus it sends a message to your parents telling them you're serious.
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>>11296018
Your mom knows that you're trans, she literally calls you a girl and asks if you're trans constantly. Stop being a nazi fag and get over your embarrassment of being trans.
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>>11296051
Get therapy. You're not trans, just autistic.
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>>11296156
Nice, now I know which seller to report to the Austrian government, police, and to Russian right wing angry mobs lmao.
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>>11298644
She wouldn't need to anyway, she's in commie yurop and her parents are waiting for her to come out so they can support her.

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>be boymoding, hrt for 4 years, very little effects but im not gonna stop, just gonna work and save for FFS
>have little tits but nothing that can't really be concealed with a simple tshirt, and no one has ever said anything or even given me weird looks
>start gaining weight, about 25lbs over the last 4 months (im now 150lbs, 5'9)
>tits are getting massive, face is looking more fem too, but obviously not passable. its been a lovely improvement though.
>they're now obvious as hell through multiple layers
>people at work clearly notice, gawk at my chest and stare at me and are gossiping, get a few mean comments
>get invited out for drinks with colleagues
>okthen, im pretty socially isolated, this could be nice for me
>everyone is buying me drinks, i am far drunker than everyone else, and keep being given more
>the table goes silent
>"So, anon, we're all wondering, why are you growing breasts?"
>OOHHH, that's why they're pouring booze down my throat
>"it's just gyno, it happens."
>"are you seeing a doctor?"
>panic sets in, this isn't gonna be good "Yeh, I have a prolactinoma"

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you have an opportunity to make some accepting friends to lean on OP :-)
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>>11299439
I'm pretty sure that they're talking about a different type of cosmo anon.
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I know a few trans women who have binders because they didnt like boob growth/are boymoding but boobs became too obvious
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>>11294147
cute post gives me hope for integration into society
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>>11299235
they were being mean, im sure out it. I know what they're like.
>>11299850
im 25 and no i dont pass at all, but i've def got that 'on hrt' look about me since i gained, so i guess im visibly trans
>>11301014
i've worn one a few times now but it's extremely uncomfortable and im scared of causing permanent damage to them. i might just lose all that weight so they're easier to conceal again, and pray the new facial changes don't disappear.

I didn't see one around, hello fellow aliens.
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>>11301273
Probably >>11301345 explained it better cause I don’t know what it means really. It was a new term I discovered and seems to fit better than anything else. I’m not neccesarily aroused by the idea of myself being a man or having a dick but I think that I’d be much more interested in my sexuality if I did if that makes sense. Very uncomfortable with my vag. I think I’m actually trans and generally use the FTM thread but I’m too much of a wimp to actually transition.

>>11301278
It was great for a while after the surgery cause I went from being a HH cup so it really did feel like I had no boobs but now I am so mad at them.
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>>11301420
It's basically a board meme that got out of hand, you shouldn't use it outside of here or you'll just get called a retard.
The guy who invented the term doesn't even think autoandrophilia is a thing, just ROGD
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>>11301450
Yeah it’s the first time I used it and the more I read the less it applies. Won’t be doing that again.
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>>11301345
wait you're an afab blanchardian?

>but I don't mind penis and male smell and all that testosterone stuff.
penis is mtf but test and male smell is ftm?
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>>11301952
>wait you're an afab blanchardian?
I'm not, I'm just explaining the term

>penis is mtf but test and male smell is ftm?
What? I mean I'm attracted to amabs as long as they kinda look like girls even if they aren't on HRT (less masculine crossdressers, pre-HRT trans, femboys etc.)

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https://www.richmond.com/news/virginia/virginia-high-school-teacher-fired-for-refusing-to-use-transgender/article_65be1826-50b2-5d38-be58-47d9b9480917.html

A Virginia high school teacher was fired Thursday for refusing to use a transgender student’s new pronouns, a case believed to be the first of its kind in the state.

After a four-hour hearing, the West Point School Board voted 5-0 to terminate Peter Vlaming, a French teacher at West Point High School who resisted administrators’ orders to use male pronouns to refer to a ninth-grade student who had undergone a gender transition. The board met in closed session for nearly an hour before the vote.

The high school in West Point, a town in King William County about an hour east of Richmond, has about 265 students.

Vlaming, 47, who had taught at the school for almost seven years after spending more than a decade in France, told his superiors his Christian faith prevented him from using male pronouns for a student he saw as female.

The student’s family informed the school system of the transition over the summer. Vlaming said he had the student in class the year before when the student identified as female.

Vlaming agreed to use the student’s new, male name. But he tried to avoid using any pronouns — he or him, and she or her — when referring to the student. The student said that made him feel uncomfortable and singled out.

peaking in his own defense, Vlaming said he loves and respects all his students and had tried to reach a solution based on “mutual tolerance.” That effort was rejected, he said, putting him at risk of losing his job for having views held by “most of the world for most of human history.”

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>>11301061
Kids is a loaded word because that tends to conjure up images of young kids still in the primary grades.
You used "kids" on purpose in order to cast aspersions on early transitioning.
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>>11293327
>It would have been LYING to not tell little Johnny that his gay parents are going to hell and he's less than human because he's dark-skinned! Muh truf!
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>>11293902
Yeah but brain bigots need some excuse to play the victim and attack the real victims!
Virtue signalling is ok when /pol/tards do it!

>>11296306
>Usually the boss doesn't pressure you to lie
Yes they do you lying hypocrite, employees are often pushed to stretch the truth and lie in almost all sales, customer service and other fields.
Of course racists also use the exact same stupid logic as you do, that's why they've been trying to rebrand themselves as "race realsists" so they can cry "muh truf! Freeze peach!" whenever they receive any critisism or consequences for not being able to buckle down and get through the day like every normal functioning adult without sperging out.

You don't care about the truth, just pretend to because you're too cowardly to openly advocate for your feels and so hide behind excuses and virtue signalling.
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>>11296166
Lol you have no idea if they were a "good teacher", you didn't try to look up records or anything because you don't give a shit about the facts or truth.
You've just latched onto this random person and started deifying them because they acted on the same stupid bigotry that you share but are too cowardly to spew outside of anonymous imageboards.
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>>11293239
Gay

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Why do so many people think like this?
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>>11297110
But we already know it's more effective than any other treatment and doesn't exacerbate issues like with anorexia/body dysmorphia, also it was doctors who decided on this solution because, again, it was the most effective one.

Gee it's almost like you don't care about the facts or what's best for trannies and are just lying and trying to deceive people to justify your feels.
Inb4 you pretend to "just be standing up for TRUF!"
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>>11298028
>A medical treatment isn't valid unless it ALSO solves world hunger, poverty, etc.
Wow, fuck almost all medicine, huh?
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>>11299726
>Conservative approved reasons to be fired: your sexuality, your gender identity, your age, your sex, your pregnancy/parental status, complaining about workplace harrassment/corruption, just because the boss felt like it
>Unapproved reasons: harrassing your coworkers/customers for being tranny/gay/negro/woman
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>>11296915
Because they’re leftists or libs.
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>>11296915
>Ask people's pronouns
nah
>Use people's pronouns
ok but you're getting a 'she' or a 'he', best i can do
>They/Them are valid singular pronouns
ok but i'm probably just gonna say he/she/etc
>Use people's chosen names
ok
>Trans women/men are women/men
not technically speaking, but ok
>Non-binary people are valid, too
ok
>Let us use the most comfortable gendered facilities
ok

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>my 9th grade English teacher called me gay in Shakespeare
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>>11300964
The first time I wore shorts in high school, I got like 3 people call me chicken legs.
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>>11300952
>he's insecure about being gay
uhhh it's 2018 sweetie
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>>11300982
I got called bird legs and stork
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So, you were happy? And somebody noticed that and now you frown.
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>cries in shakespeare

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How many years are you willing to forgive what someone said on Twitter with homophobic tweets?
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What did he say?
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>>11297885
He called someone a queer on Twitter. Someone I say to people all the time in real life.
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>>11297692
Dude was 14, these people pretend they didn't have some stupid opinions or say stupid shit as children. Shit would be hilarious if it didn't cost people their livelihoods.
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>>11298118
By "these people" I mean outrage addicts, of course.
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>>11297692
Not. It's a perfect excuse to damage some rich entitled celebrity fuckwad's career, and I can only encourage that.


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