i’m sick of being a lonelita in my area but i‘ve been inactive long enough that i don’t know the new crowd.>what has your comm done over the summer to stay in touch? >does your comm have regular casual monthly meetups?>have you ever helped revive a comm? particularly after drama or mod switches? >how do you keep a comm active when it involves two cities?>inb4 “just plan a meetup yourself” the problem is that the same three newbies/itas attend and older members only go if their friends do
just plan a meetup
Where did the old local comm thread go? There's no way it hit autosage
>>10235482someone started one a couple days ago themes around some comm putting up flyers and it saged.
>>10235505It didn't sage, it was deleted by the mods.
>>10235511Blame Oregon comm.
>>10235214op what is this picture
Best site to find local groups?
>>10235578i’d say facebook but it seems like a lot of comms/lolita groups have made their groups private to avoid being zucc’d
>>10235482Where they all go. Mods deleted it because people don’t know how to be vague about bitching about comm drama
>>10235580Do cosplay groups have alot of guys?
>>10235652Wrong thread, buddy.
>>10235578i've heard a lot of comms are moving to discords but i don't know how new members would find them
Ok so who can caps of that shit that went down at 2am on CoF
>>10235562Seriously? They do this every time, mass report anything about their comm. I don't know why they keep getting away with it.
>>10236844but it wasn't even about oregon... it was az
>>10236844So what? I think its great that they can get together as a community and prevent assholes from ruining things for no reason.
>>10237063which one? the vegan shoplifter girl?
>>10237070oh, nope, the vegan shoplifter is white and chubby
>>10237063>>10237070they got banned, among other things, for doxxing people on here and stirring shit about the comm over half-decades old drama no one still cares about. they made their own comm and are so desperate for members they have to put flyers up at card stores and barcades.
>>10236857I knew it was AZ. It's always AZ. I live in one of the major cities and I have no desire to attend meets after seeing how they all behave on here.
>>10237105I mean.... ok but the people responsible are banned so I dunno what you're taking a stand against exactly
>>10237115I know for a fact that the mods come here and I have no way of knowing if they're actually helpful and contribute to the community or if they're all just catty bitches too. One of them is a mod for RC: Uncensored which for a mod of a comm I don't think is very...I dunno, professional isn't the right word but I can't think of a better one.
>>10237125Nah the new mod who also mods RC:U is still a catty bitch. She’s the one that started the “moderator” role and icon shit we have seen recently. I wouldn’t be surprised if she was the one that posted >>10234178 in the ita thread. She’s done it many times before. Flounced, we got our shit together, no one posted. She came back then bam suddenly old ass images are in the ita thread from albums that where forgotten about. I mean she mods a well known cesspool of a lolita forum on Facebook, why would you not think it wasn’t her starting shit here again?
>>10237125>expecting 'professional' behavior for a volunteer positionanon
>>10237506Nayrt but it’s not a matter that it’s work done for free. It’s a matter of people being able to trust the mod for serious questions without being made fun of and creating an inviting environment for newer members or members still learning their way in the fashion without getting posting and laughed at on an anon board. Considering how this said mod is a mod of RC:U which is quite literally the bad part of cgl on facebook, it doesn’t look good on the mod in the comm. it makes people not trust the mods ethics and real intentions of the status and using said status to get away with bad behavior that have gotten other members of the comm banned. So why should one member be banned for posting new members here for laughs and making fun of them while a mod who is known for doing such behaviors and runs a group known for such behaviors be exempted from the same judgment? She’s not very professional when she talks with members and uses cgl memes a lot. She passive aggressive and that isn’t what a good mod would be. I’m sorry if you’re her, but you really do not belong in that position. You just cause more tension in the community.
>>10237528This, mods from all communities should be people new and old members feel safe to approach with their issues without fear or repercussions of being laughed at on an anon board. This is what causes communities to die and part ways. Of a mod has a history that is still generating more bad rap in current situations, they shouldn’t be trusted with being a community mod due to the fact that local communities are full of new lolitas still learning the way. Getting posted isn’t the worse thing that can happen, but no one wants their mods to be the person posted them when they where given the position to be helpful and answer questions members have. Moderators have to be a neutral force in a group to assure others are following rules and keeping conflicts down. Not stirring them up and making people feel I welcomed. That shows bias and taking a side rather then remaining neutral.
>>10237506I did say professional wasn't quite the right word but I couldn't think of another.
>>10237599Of I was approached I would have considered it too. I saw the application and knew there where much more justified options who would do great in that role then myself which is why I didn’t apply since I know there’s people who could do the role better then myself. But how where we supposed to know they where not getting that many applicants? We don’t see the applications. We just see the finishing results.
>>10235214well to keep this from getting deleted over single comm drama (again?), my comm started dying out back in 2017 and so we started having regular monthly meetups. it was nothing major, we’d just vote on facebook for where to meet up (boba tea, all you can eat sushi, bookstores, cafes, karaoke etc) and would have a casual thing once every 4-5 weeks or so. we voted on the weekend date every time too, so it varied a lot, but after going to three or four i ended up becoming friends with some people i previously hadn’t ever seen at a meetup. i’m in california though so maybe we have more lolita-friendly places than where you live.
>>10237604Ooh, I like this monthly meetup idea. It sounds like a great way to get to know each other in a setting that's a lot more casual than stuff like museums/tea parties. Does the same person hold the meetups each time?
>>10238112actually, it’s not really hosted by anyone in particular. sometimes our mods don’t even attend. it’s kind of more like “we all agree to meet up at the most-voted location”. it works well for us because no one person or group of people have a regular commitment of organizing it. i’m not sure it would work in all comms, (ymmv) but i go nearly every month
What's with the girl in all the mentoring groups saying she needs a custom petti because she's "got a unique body ratio"I checked her profile and she's incredibly, well, average looking.
>>10238233Probably dysmorphia or some mental illness.
>>10238166where was this, i glanced through RC and didn't see it?
az com please check archive
HLS comm be aware that your mods talk so much shit about you and everyone else in the comm. They're completely two faced but will flat out deny everything when you confront them.
What's with the OC comm right now? One of the DLD organizers posted that comm excludes LGBT people or something? Anyone got any deets?
>>10240104It's Houston. Both comms are shit.
>>10240105OC comm didn't accept a middle aged man who applied to their group. Then he goes into the trans lolitas group and bawws that he's actually a woman, despite having no evidence whatsoever on his profile, and the OC comm is transphobic when he's obviously a creepy sissy. He also tattled to LWLN on twitter.
>>10240138this person is a hoot: https://twitter.com/GraffBunny/status/1161151855365246976
>>10240147forgot to drop pic
>>10240148look at this POS on the left
>>10240150TYLER LIKED MY COORDÀAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHIDJRNSBWJDJ!!!!!!
>>10240147>Has a gofundme for laser hair removalwat
>>10240147>https://twitter.com/GraffBunny/status/1161151855365246976oh gawd please do not come to any other comms
>>10240104What prompted this? There’s like... literally no drama or tea right now.
>>10240104also dying bc dont they have plenty of people who are lgbtq who are in the comm... you cant be trans for not wanting to add a weirdo lol. anyone know what else happened?
>>10240179what's the context for this?
>>10240187I think they are talking about the OC comm
>>10240104I was having a conversation with another member and find out that some mods have been talking about members of the comm. This person is close to those mods and apparently just had it with them and mentioned it to me. I'm not sure what happened but she just flat out let everything out. I asked if she had proof to bring it to the comms attention she said no. Everything was lowkey said in conversation rather than text.I heard rumors about this from someone else but I doubt she would try to start drama. She just seemed very upset and venting.
What's the best way to deal with creeps in your local comm? There's an ouji in my comm who practically begs me to go on dates with him and has even contacted me through my business email to ask me out for drinks under the guise of wanting to talk to me about projects. Here's the plot twist though: he has a really good reputation in my comm. Other girls find him to be a nice person and friendly and one of my friends was shocked when I told her about him. He's also unavoidable because he'll either RSVP as going to every upcoming event, or not RSVP to any events and will not show up at events he says he's going to attend or attend events that he said he wouldn't be attending. I just wanna be able to attend comm-wide events again without worrying about this guy. What do I do, gulls?
>>10240105>>10240138Had something similar happen in my comm. A handful of people went around all the local Jfashion, convention and cosplay communities saying that our comm hates LGBTQ+ people and we’re all horribly bigoted, racist vanilla cishets, all because the mods removed a (white) male sissy from the group after he sexually harassed several members. Over half of our mod team is bi or lesbian, btw. Gay women who defend their friends from straight men are oppressors now.Though ngl I can’t be too upset about this, because it has actually weeded out a lot of the tumblrsexual cosplay ita’s that normally try to join our comm after con season and then cry bully when we tell them “neko loli” isn’t really a lolita substyle.
>>10240210our comm literally just banned someone who had a seemingly good reputation for being nice and friendly despite posting hate and doxxing on cgl/otherwise. this is creepy behavior and you should report it all (with as many screenshots / details with dates as possible) to your mods. i’m sorry you have to go through that. i’ve stopped going to meets because some people made me so uncomfortable
>>10240210Screenshot everything, especially any instances of you telling him no and him persisting anyway. Bring it up to a mod you feel comfortable with and show her the screenshots if she asks for proof. Even if they decide it’s not a ban-worthy offence right now it’s very helpful to establish a documented history of his behaviour and to let people know what’s happening so they can keep an eye on him. People are more likely to be skeptical if you keep quiet for a long time and then suddenly complain (what looks to them) out of nowhere, so please tell people now even if you’re not sure anything can be done about him (yet).
>>10240165That you know of...
>>10240149This is one of the funniest posts I've ever seen on this site. I like you, anon.
>>10240150I just want (unpassing) trannies to go from our comms and fashion. They will never look good
How do you start a comm where one exists in your area already? I'm in SW England and the only one that seems to be in existance turned into a general jfashion community. Would it do no harm to invite those from there to a comm where it's just strictly lolita? Or will it be seen as elitist for most?
>>10240108To be fair, the other houston comm (HLC) has new mods (as of last year I think?) who actually organize decent events and keep the community active.
>>10240149For someone who loudly proclaims to be against fetishists and creeps Tyler sure is giving a nice pose and smile here.
I think modship in most communities nowadays is just fucked. it usually consists of old fags who refuse to relinquish power but sit on their ass getting fatter every day while doing nothing, straight up sociopaths who use their power to manipulate and bully members, or meek ones who don’t do shit when members are harassed or stalked by others or allow fetishists to force their way into the group. It’s a laugh and a farce, because there’s no reasonable way to actually kick out bad mods because whose going to take away their modship? This fashion is ridiculous.
>>10240367Excuse me but you just described the Houston comm perfectly.
>>10240337If they were a lot welcoming and not so cliquey and judgmental I would join. The last meets have left a sour taste in my mouth.
>>10240369Wasn’t even trying to, my bad lol. It is one of the more infamous ones though, so you’re not that far off. I remember dealing with HLC during the Anime Matsuri fiasco was like talking to a bunch of cult members, not sure if much changed since last I visited.
>>10240367Is this a TX comm?
>>10240352Well yeah but she’d look like an asshole for refusing him. Especially as a brand ambassador for BB&B, she’s got to be on her best behavior 24/7
>>10240387you get a lot of weird people showing up to have their photo taken with someone. this is on par with Tyler taking a photo with that creepy brolita at Tekko
What is the Dutch comm like?
>>10240387>>10240398Its just super hypocritical of her, since she threw Cathy Cat under the bus for working with John under contract from her job. She would do the same shit.
>>10240406She had a 5 minute interaction with a sissy she had no prior contact with and got a photo with him, she didn't plan to attend an event months ahead of time with him. This is nothing like CathyCat and John Leigh you salty cunt.
>>10240221Nah, I am pretty up to date. What do you feel is tea-worthy? Genuinely curious.
>>10240369>>10240371Literally what even are you talking about. If anything, there has been less drama, more unification, and more legitimate olive branches being made since all the shit in 2015. Stop being so fucking negative and enjoy the peace. People have been literally asking why we even still have 2 comms anymore because it has been so great. Stop your drama mongering and fuck off, we have had enough in the past 4 years to last a lifetime.
>>10240406Taking a photo with someone who asks at an event is nothing at all like working with and defending them, but ok
>>10240406Calm down there.I despise agps/sissies and shit but this is not hypocritical and not at all comparable to the cathy cat and anime matsuri dramu>>10240400As in Belgium? Went once they were sweethearts
I was wondering what people's thoughts were regarding the formality of meets. I'm active in two comms:- Comm A is very casual with meets. Apart from some very sporadic bigger events, we generally book a table for X people at a restaurant and just kind of let the whole afternoon/evening take its course. People might take up to an hour to show up & then just order whatever they like (there's no set meal or anything), after we're done we might go somewhere else for drinks with whoever's left, it's generally very freewheeling. - Comm B has quite 'organised' events, you generally need to put a deposit down a month or so in advance, have quite specific activities planned and the time/participant limits aren't very flexible. It doesn't generally have any casual outings in the style of 'show up here at X o'clock and we'll see how it goes'What's everyone's comm more like? I'm wondering whether the location/country makes a difference too. I'm thinking it might be fun to organise some more planned events for comm A, but I'm thinking it might put people off.
>>10240454I hate A because it’s rude to everyone. Businesses don’t want you to just casually take up space all day, bigger venues have deposits and time limits. Waiting on late people is exhausting.I only do casual A type with a small group but bigger stuff needs B organization.
>>10240410>Less drama Just because it's not being said publicly or posted on social media does not mean that drama is not happening.>unification Yeah after mods left HLC which means those mods either started the drama or were making vague posts on their personal pages. Then being called out or lowkey saying shit behind everyone's back.>drama mongeringNo one here is being negative but no one outside of Houston will associate with either comms because you guys have a stick so far up your ass you don't see the shit you do. Calm the fuck down. Houston comms has an image issue and you're blind to not see it. People step out of the comms so much because you're not welcoming, members are brandwhores who look down on others that don't wear AP, and HLS has lazy mods who barely put any effort in meets. People avoid your comm like the plaque because it's consistently showing how Houston members attitudes gives little fucks about new people, the fashion, and community aspect. If you're not a brandwhore you barely get looked at and greeted. No thanks. I'll stick to my comm.
>>10240456>Businesses don’t want you to just casually take up space all day, bigger venues have deposits and time limitsThis HEAVILY depends on the city/country. I haven't organised an awful lot of meets to be fair but in my experience I have never been asked to put a deposit down for a larger booking unless it's something like Christmas season/an actual venue and not just a bar/restaurant.
>>10240461The fact that you are having to reference mods who stepped down quite literally years ago is telling, but go off I guess.1) Yea we have a few bitches, but every comm does, 2) we know we have an image issue—and people like you perpetuate that despite 99% of us trying to mend the divide, 3) it’s been so peaceful that our old friends from NOLA have been coming back more and more to visit us oldfags, 4) you sound like you are salty because you can’t fit into the new Honey Cake. Sorry about your inferiority complex.
>>10240512Idk why you're waiting for comm mods to do that? The mods mainly exist to delete off-topic posts. All the guidelines and useful documents in my comm are made by other members, not the mods. If there are a lot of issues in your comm, maybe suggest to them to add a simple "no harassment" rule and report NSFW posts. I assume most comms already have those rules. And again, don't wait around for someone else to call out creeps, comm mods are just volunteers with no leadership experience. Simply make a post to the comm that warns other members of a creep. The same way you see people make warning posts about scammers. Keep it short.
>>10240454I greatly prefer small, casual type A meets but my comm is too big for those to work outside of picnics so we pretty much only have type B meets. And even with casual picnics we still get people complaining when we don’t all travel together the entire way or have a detailed enough list of who is bringing what. I swear it sometimes feels like I’m organizing birthday parties for children.
>>10240454my comm turned from A to B when people weren’t showing up for meets with deposits; it got too chaotic. i loved all the planned meets, themes, specific activities etc for a while but it got boring very quickly desu. it didn’t feel like a fashion comm anymore but a weird club that i had to pay for events to see my lolita friends, (and it felt cheesy to always have a theme and planned activities) so i stopped wearing it and stopped attending. i think the perfect comm is a mix of both. casual lolita (and even just j-fashion friendly) hangouts or meetups - although i don’t like the idea of people being an hour late and zero structure - and the occasional, maybe 3-4x a year planned events
>>10240454I prefer a combo of A and B. The casualness you described is too annoying. As a host, fuck people who show up an hour or more late because it's "casual". Your host still has to figure out how many seats to get, try and help if someone is lost, try to gauge attendance for future meets, etc. But I sure do love having an "after meet" where we go somewhere else with a small group. I dislike over structured events that are over at a specific time. It always ends up being kind of early due to venue restrictions.
>>10240579Imagine not being able to afford a deposit for a meet in a fashion with expensive dresses. Sorry you're poor. You don't need comm meets to meet with your friends if they're actually your friends.
>>10240454Well, we have A type meets a lot, but we tell people to show at "roughly" some decided on time. Usually this is at festivals and places like markets/malls. Sometimes we'll move on to a second location. If we're going to a restaurant, we make reservations and ask people to try to be on time. If we have picnics we try to get people in at around the same time also so that we don't have to worry about waiting on people before we start eating.We've never taken deposits for anything though. It's almost to the point where I kind of want to start though, because we have so many issues with people flaking out last minute.
>>10240613You'd be amazed at how many lolitas are or live like poorfags because they can't balance a budget. They live paycheck to paycheck and spend all their leftover cash on dresses. Try throwing a meetup that costs more than $50 to attend, even one with a full venue and activities, and people are going to bitch and moan about how expensive it is. I've even gone out to meals with lolitas who can't afford to tip.The only exception is Japanese brand parties in the US and overseas. They generally cost a lot more, yet people seem more receptive to paying over $100 to attend. But those cater more to lolitas who care a LOT about their image and either have money or don't want to look like they care about the cost.
>>10240454My comm is great, we have a healthy mix of both A and B. Our monthly meets are like A, but a little more structured. We have a meetup time, wait for about half an hour for stragglers, then walk to the restaurant we agree on. After, we usually split into smaller groups for dessert/shopping and the "organizer" updates our location on the Facebook event page (stuff like "oh we're eating at x place now" or "we've finished lunch, some people are going to daiso and some are going to ice cream at x place")And of course we also have events like B where deposits are usually collected up to a week in advance too
>>10240367This sums up the AZ comm pretty accurately desu.
>>10240469>Few bitchesMore like the majority of the comm. >Mend the divideOh sweety, that's because you oldfags are getting married and fat.>NOLAHaving one e-famous fag doesn't count honey. She's a sweetheart but the only one I see visiting you oldfags which shows who you are.>new Honey CakeOh honey, I can do you one better. I can at least fit in the old Honey Cake. Try harder. The only one with the inferior complex is you with added denial. Whatever makes you happy. Houston comm is trash.
>>10240469>salty because you can’t fit into the new Honey Cake. I bet I can fit into YOU, Honey Buns ;D
>>10240367>tfw my comm is well dressed, low drama, and we're all friends and also located in the usyou too can have a good comm if you all could just stop being bitches for one moment and enjoy life
>>10240463Protip: the waitstaff hate you
>>10240579>so i stopped wearing itI don't even know how to respond to something so ridiculous
>>10240654We just don't think it's worth it to pay $50+transport to meet you. At a brand tea-party I can buy brand in person so that is worth it.
>>10240679.... the fact that you don’t know what NOLA is literally just proved every point I made.
>>10240679bro you just posted cringe
>>10240613exactly where did i imply i can’t afford a meet deposit? i said it’s just annoying if it’s the only regular way to hang out as a comm. check your fucking eyes
>>10240670sounds like our comm as well. it's nice since its more casual and not "so loli desu" tea parties all the time
>>10240699Your experience is not everyone elses.I used to work in the service industry and I loved working a packed house, it felt like being at a party.Getting paid to party with customers is bitchin.
>>10240679>being mad that people are getting along and having peaceYou’re the main problem in the lolita community
Just curious, how many male lolitas are in your comm and how many sissy's do you meet a year on average? And which comm are you in if you've met any?I'm in the Dutch comm which is pretty big but I haven't seen any males so far. I'm not sure if that's unusual. Maybe it's more of an issue in other parts of the world?
>>10237105If you like being alone then own it! Nobody is sitting around wishing you were here lmao
>>10240830I wish you were here, anon. I wish you were here all the time. <3
>>10240826Same comm here. We do have some brolitas and male oujis and afaik we currently have no sissies, though we did have at least one in the past. It also depends on what part of the country you’re in and how often and far you travel for meets. Some members mostly stay in their own corner of the country so if you live far away you never meet them.
>>10240673Just letting you all know none of you still guessed right lol Didn’t think it would be that hard considering it’s one of the biggest cities in the country /shrug
>>10240826We have one male lolita that I see fairly often and some boyfriends who will come to meets dressed in aristo-type coords sometimes. No sissies yet.
>>10240597Aww yea I love me some after meets.
>>10240856Then name and shame?>>10240826There was one likely sissy (guessing a sissy because their Milanope-tier dress with a super-petti around their obese apple shape just screamed it) who showed up two hours late to a meet, just as most of us were packing up. That was a year ago and we haven’t seen them since.We have one ouji who’s regular.There is one good brolita who isn’t regular, but that is because they work weekends and most of the meets are arranged on weekends.
>>10240461>>10240679Wow, just.... full of inaccuracies. Except for the Houston comms being older, fatter, and married. But when the alternative is to die young and alone and leave a skinny corpse.... I'm guessing an AMfag is trying to stir up drama because they're hateful and bored, and their forays into thotdom aren't being well received.
>>10240856I don’t think any one was actually guessing. I wasn’t. You just posted something that was relatable.
>>10240367i hate my comm’s mods so i just became a lonelita. lots of areas have this prob
>>10240149Why does this guy look familiar? S2G I've seen him post on COF or somewhere
>>10241220Same. I’ll interact with some members of my comm, but I don’t go out with my comm any more. I just go it alone and deal with the questions by myself. My wife has grown accustomed to curious people asking questions and has grown to answer them with me. Sometimes she will dress with me, but she doesn’t care much for the fashion like I do.
>>10240333You could try to do a tea party or something to draw the lolitas out (while unfortunately allowing non-lolitas in)? And then from there talk to them in person about meeting up more often, and then boom! You have a discreet foundation for a comm that is built through friendship and common interest.
Asking for a friend, how active is the LA comm, or other comms in the area? Asking for my friend who's trying to join but the FB groups are apparently inactive? She submitted a request a while ago but hasn't had a response so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Every time I plan a meet it goes directly to the shitter.
>>10241583LA comm is pretty dead except for the two events the mods host a year. Everything else will be a good drive away to attend, but tend to be more smaller meets than ticketed events.
>>10241610I'm kind of surprised, would've thought the opposite for a big city like that. But ty for the insight that's very helpful! I'll pass the info along.
>>10241794LA comm has had some drama over the years that it’s understandable that it’s kinda dead.
I want to plan a meet, but last time I tried, literally nobody showed up. It was likely because of the time and place. Back then I also posted about it to cgl about it, and I was told people in that comm don't attend your meet if they don't know you well.Since then I haven't been able to go to any meets because they are all too far away or on the wrong day for me. So I'm still a nobody, but I want to give it another try. I just can't think of anything I should do differently than last time..
>>10241806research bait, look at how the good ones started, look at what they do today, have something to offer that they want, become the fisher of people
>>10241801Its not dead if you're in the right social circles.
>>10242065That's not a comm
>>10242065Social circles isn’t a comm. That’s a group of friends with a like interest acting outside of a community. Communities are regulated to keep organization. Social circles are more “ hey I’m going to the movies, wanna go with me?”
Did anyone get caps of the "I don't read rules so Lolita updates is racist" thread? I saw the beginning then it was deleted when I went to finish reading.
>>10242313Some black lolitas can be such a fucking pain. Everyone disagreeing is a raycist wypipo uwu jealous of their melanin.Also i cannot stand people using ghetto language or AAVE as they call it. You sound like a retard with that "dialect", speak properly
>>10242345I honestly think they say that shit to feel better about themselves. No one is jealous of your skin tone and no one really cares about your race. But a bitch comes in all colors and religions and I’ll call you one of you act like one.
>>10242364I don't have caps, but it was a white chick accusing the group of being racist against Americans, iirc.
How long in advance do you organise a meet? I feel like if it's announced too long in advance, there will be a lot more flakes.
>>10242404If I have an idea for a meetup that requires rsvps like a fancy tea or limited time event, I usually go no more than one month in advance. I usually do that because I know places tend to have a minimum and people in my comm tend to need to schedule their days off a month in advance. If it's something casual, maybe 2 weeks in advance, so long as there's a gap between other meets already planned.
>>10242404My comm has had some planned as soon as a week before the meet to 6 months before a meet. So it depends on what kind of meet. The ones that are a week are usually smaller ones for like movies, malls, museums and festivals. Longer meets tend to be rsvp private dining meets. Those are usually our ILD meets.
>>10241806>literally nobody showed upthey didn't cancel beforehand?
My comm's Halloween meet is at a restaurant with really bad reviews and it looks like their Halloween menu is mostly for children. How shitty would it be if I organise a meet one week before or one week later with a scary theme?
>>10242513A lot of comms do that actually. As long as it’s not competing with the other meet there usually isn’t that much drama. We usually do a ghost tour of one of the old buildings in town for Halloween then eat at haunted places.
>>10242521I started looking for things to do and I think I'm starting to understand why it's at such a shitty restaurant. My country doesn't celebrate Halloween so there isn't anything Halloween themed to do in our city. She must have found one of the only places in the entire city that will do a Halloween menu.
>>10242537Could always go for a normal restaurant and just make or buy little Halloween goodies to make it more in theme.
We have casual meets that are hosted by one girl and the mods usually take on the bigger meets.Although the girl who hosts casual meets has hinted at making her own space for them. Do two comms usually cause a divide in the city? I like her meets but I also like my comm.
>>10242619L O N D O NONDON
>>10242345She wasn't black, lol. She was saying Lolita Updates is racist against Americans.