How do I stop trying to seduce people in order to feel sexy and lovable, only to ghost them or turn them down whenever they fall in love with me (at which they point they usually start hating me for leading them on)?
Assuming you're an actual female and not a tranny, get a boyfriend who makes you feel sexy and lovable. Shouldn't be too hard.
>>20792552Why do you ghost?
>>20792601Why should I do that?>>20792587Because I care about them on a platonic level and can't stand to see them insult and attack me.
>>20792602>Why should I do that?Refer to OP, I got hurt once by a girl like you and believe me when I say this, you're legitimate fucking scum I hate you.
>>20792552Find another source of validation and accomplishment
>>20792620Not OP but I once ghosted my boyfriend because he ghosted me and then he got mad at me for ghosting him so I broke up with him by ghosting him again. I also even told him I wanted to break up with him beforehand and he ignored it.
>>20792552Ha so this a real thing?I mean i talked with girls before, and i told them i liked them and was interested in sth but they turned me down. Were they just playing me for attention? My situation is different than you though OP, i never hated them. Not a single mean word came from me. I am fine with settling on some sort of friendship, but at that point they just stop responding to my messages..
>>20792552You’ll grow out of it. I did.
>>20792620I'm sorry to hear that, but did you ever try to empathize with her? She's just a victim herself - a victim of her own self-esteem.
>>20792552It's natural for a woman to want to feel loved and sexy, but you shouldn't send out false signals if you're not interested. Without a doubt you're attractive if you're able to seduce guys, so just keep that in mind from now on and try to resist getting those dicks hard, yeah?On a more serious note, just self improve or like >>20792587 said, just get a loving bf that gives you all the reassuring you need. Shouldn't be a problem for ya.Good luck-oh my sister-oh.
>>20792675Yeah, ut's a thing. I'm a man and I did similar stuff when I was a teenager
>>20792660He sounds perfect for you, you both are petty as hell.
>>20792552>(at which they point they usually start hating me for leading them on)?You could always stop leading them on and using them as a disposable confidence boost.
>>20792723Thats just mean. I just hoped i was compatible with them, shame :(
>>20792552>implying you give a fuck
>>20792552ive been on the wrong end of this stick many many times as a teenager and it made me suicidal lol
>>20793359What makes you think I don't?It's like an addiction... it bandages up my self-esteem issues, but also makes me feel horrible...I don't want to be lonely... I want to be loved... but I hate hurting people...
>>20792552Keep going, cupcake. Eventually you'll do it to someone with a swastika tattoo and get killed.
>>20792712You'd have to be fucking retarded to actually think that's justified. You don't get to hurt others because YOU have an issue with yourself.
>>20793392What's a swatsika? o.o>>20793919It's a cruel thing to do, but I...
>>20792552What are some of your "moves?"