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Any former losers here? Any former hikikomoris, NEETs. KHHV, incels, etc?

I need your advice. How did you turn your life around?

I'm a 21 year old autistic KHHV incel, hikikomori/NEET, around 4/10 in looks at 5'10". I want to turn my life around. I'm tired of living the same day over and over again.

If you were like me and turned your life around please help me, I need your wise words.
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OP here.

I'm considering moving abroad on a working holiday visa to turn my life around.

Given that I have no social skills, friends, don't know how to get a job, or a place to rent, or how to start from zero in a new country. Is this a good idea to recover? I have a bit of savings to help me for the first few months as I accommodate into my new reality.

How can I make it bros? I need help.
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>>20568562
Make friends first wherever you move to.
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>>20568567
That's a good idea. I will try to make online friends from where I want to move to first so I have someone to meet up with and who can help me get set up.

I've never had friends not even online so it'll be difficult.
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>>20568577
Just take the risk and go for it. If you go all out, and put in the effort, everything else will fall into place my friend :)
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>>20568547
The only advice I'd give you is DO IT NOW. Whatever you want to do, start right now. In a flash you will be nearing 30. Who would you rather be? 30 with a clear future or 30 and still neet?

t. 29 just starting to turn my life around
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>>20568547
>>20568547
read the new testament. 100%

1Co 7:20-24 ESV
20] Each one should remain in the condition in which he was called.
21] Were you a bondservant when called? Do not be concerned about it. (But if you can gain your freedom, avail yourself of the opportunity.)
22] For he who was called in the Lord as a bondservant is a freedman of the Lord. Likewise he who was free when called is a bondservant of Christ.
23] You were bought with a price; do not become bondservants of men.
24] So, brothers, in whatever condition each was called, there let him remain with God.
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>>20568596
Fuck bro you're right. I just need to get over the mental block and do it. What's the worse that could happen? In any case I can just become a beach bum.

>>20568604
Yes I can't delay anymore. Gotta stop running away from my life.
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>>20568547
good luck man, we're rooting for you
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>>20568547
>how did
>did
This implies it can happen. True virgins/incels/robots/etc never leave it behind. The ones who do were never the latter to begin with. Just failed or potential normies.



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