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Any former losers here? Any former hikikomoris, NEETs. KHHV, incels, etc?

I need your advice. How did you turn your life around?

I'm a 21 year old autistic KHHV incel, hikikomori/NEET, around 4/10 in looks at 5'10". I want to turn my life around. I'm tired of living the same day over and over again.

If you were like me and turned your life around please help me, I need your wise words.
OP here.

I'm considering moving abroad on a working holiday visa to turn my life around.

Given that I have no social skills, friends, don't know how to get a job, or a place to rent, or how to start from zero in a new country. Is this a good idea to recover? I have a bit of savings to help me for the first few months as I accommodate into my new reality.

How can I make it bros? I need help.
Make friends first wherever you move to.
That's a good idea. I will try to make online friends from where I want to move to first so I have someone to meet up with and who can help me get set up.

I've never had friends not even online so it'll be difficult.
Just take the risk and go for it. If you go all out, and put in the effort, everything else will fall into place my friend :)
The only advice I'd give you is DO IT NOW. Whatever you want to do, start right now. In a flash you will be nearing 30. Who would you rather be? 30 with a clear future or 30 and still neet?

t. 29 just starting to turn my life around
read the new testament. 100%

1Co 7:20-24 ESV
20] Each one should remain in the condition in which he was called.
21] Were you a bondservant when called? Do not be concerned about it. (But if you can gain your freedom, avail yourself of the opportunity.)
22] For he who was called in the Lord as a bondservant is a freedman of the Lord. Likewise he who was free when called is a bondservant of Christ.
23] You were bought with a price; do not become bondservants of men.
24] So, brothers, in whatever condition each was called, there let him remain with God.
Fuck bro you're right. I just need to get over the mental block and do it. What's the worse that could happen? In any case I can just become a beach bum.

Yes I can't delay anymore. Gotta stop running away from my life.
good luck man, we're rooting for you
>how did
This implies it can happen. True virgins/incels/robots/etc never leave it behind. The ones who do were never the latter to begin with. Just failed or potential normies.

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