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Is love a lie? Feels like this is all I have to look forward to someday.
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>>20563301
The notion that a woman would want to be with a robot because she turned 30 is humorous to me.
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>>20563301
Also, what do you want advice with? You don’t even write your own bait, and it’s the same bullshit that has been cycling around the failure sphere for 15 years.
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>>20563305
Robot implies I'm a NEET. I have a job, I have friends, I have hobbies.

But I see that shit all the time. "Party Girls" deciding to settle down with guys she ignored. Whose happy being someone's consolation prize?
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>>20563308
I didn’t ask you about your life.
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>>20563301
Yeah no I'll be physically attractive because my genetics another 30 years, and fucking around til at least 80. Because Chad and robots are myths and constructs idiots who spend too much time on the internet came up with, and men will always be DTF.
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>>20563311
Alri roastie.
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>>20563307
Not bait, just some booze and dread on a day off I guess.

I always wanted to fall in love, raise a family, all that story book shit. But as I approach thirty I guess it's just settling in that I won't get that, and even if I do it'd be as some woman's "plan B".

And I really hate that thought. Is this just how things are?

>>20563312
>this delusion
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>>20563311
You kinda did.
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>>20563301
https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2018/12/the-sex-recession/573949/
30% of highschool and uni students dont date, both genders...
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>>20563317
With that attitude you won’t. You’re going to have to put yourself out there, and risk dating “a Roastie”. If you think they’re not good enough because of their past why should they think you’re good enough?

As far as being someone “plan B”, that’s bullshit. Perhaps the reality is she had to learn some lessons and go through some shit to personally evolve into the perfect partner for you.
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>>20563301
Be picky
Problem solved
You fucking sex-crazed, one-dimensional rubes
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>>20563715
I don't have a lot of sexual experience, why is it wrong to seek out a partner whose the same?

>As far as being someone “plan B”, that’s bullshit.
How is it bullshit?
>Perhaps the reality is she had to learn some lessons and go through
"lessons to go through" including giving all her best years to some asshole, right?
>personally evolve into the perfect partner for you.
I think my perfect partner wouldn't be a dried up slut my man.
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>>20563311
You might as just did since you posted in this thread, ya dumb cunt
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>>20563725
Have fun being alone. You’ve got some serious self esteem issues. You don’t actually want a relationship if you think the years between 20-29 are her best years.
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>>20563742
>not wanting sloppy 42nds
>self esteem issues
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>>20563305
>>20563311
>>20563312
>>20563742
Jesus, how predictable women are. Now we just have to wait until one calls OP an incel.
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>>20564393
Well, if it walks like a duck and quaks like a duck, it's probably a duck, that's all I'm saying.
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>>20564423
So all men are robots and incels? Lol.
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>>20564307
Hey I won’t argue with you. I think people that do have a larger number of sexual partners do have self esteem issues. Men and women both. But someone’s past does not define their future right?
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>>20564503
I have a principle I am standing for that is my cross and I am dying with it
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>>20564434
They think that most men don't prefer virgins.

They live in delusion.
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>>20564509
Pretty sure everyone prefers partners with a low partner count. But Defining someone’s worth on the actions of the past is harmful for both roasties and incels.
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>>20564524
You need to understand what a vulnerable spot a relationship puts a man in.

In my country if we're together for long enough the state considers us married. I can lose half my shit and have to pay alimony for god knows how long.

If I'm gonna put myself in that situation why shouldn't I make sure I'm saving it for the best?
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>>20564434
I'm pretty sure that normal men don't use terms like "roastie", but sure, keep pretending that your type is the standard.
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>>20564538
Its vulnerable for everyone?

At least in the country I was born, even if the court orders you to pay alimony or child support, if the woman can’t afford to enforce it by taking you to court then there’s nothing that can be done. My father paid my mother no child support for many years and she couldn’t afford to do anything about it.
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>>20564563
Eh, it's super bad in Canada.
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Have incredibly high standards(personality/moral wise), be stubborn and foolishly optimistic...like me.
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>>20563308
deep down, everyone knows you're right, they just have to lie.
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>>20564550
Using a common slang term does not immediately relegate a person into a particular group; no matter how much you want to pigeonhole them into it.
At the end od the day, "roastie" is just a funny, but useful euphemism for sluts; that's all.
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>>20563677
>ignored because it doesn't fit the narrative of "all girls are roasties"
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>>20563301
Sorry to tell you there aren’t many women who didn’t buy into “empowered and sexual women lol current year” meme.
Women who did buy into it realised it too late, so they throw their self esteem issues onto men who disagree with their shitty past, while demanding to enjoy the fruits of the man’s past once the cock-carousel is over.
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>>20565350
>implying you need to date to have one night stands and fuck buddies.
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>>20565352
The statistics all show the same. Everybody is having less sex these days.

But if you think otherwise, do go ahead and provide some proof.
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>>20563301
Not all fat girls are like this

My cousin is a great person, but a little on the larger side

Roastie reminds me of this whore that used me for sex and then through me out publicly to achieve bad girl status while she sits in her apartment dad pays for to fuck random dudes

I know she wants to become a teacher, but her father is shit desu and what these skills are teaching is such hogswash I find toilet paper coverings more useful cause I can actually use that to role cigs in a pinch
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>>20563305
fpbp, if Chad even had a thought of me I'd be fine with living the rest of my life as a old bag. better than being trapped with an embittered faggot that can't get over himself for not getting Stacy by 13 years of age and can't live down his unrealistic expectations for himself. I already have enough baggage dealing with myself.
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Love is not a lie. It's not easy, and you're not going to serendpitously fall in love with a perfect angel. That being said, life is all struggle. If everything were how you wanted all of the time, you'd laze around like a heroin addict and lead a meaningless life. As somebody coming out of depression, I've got to say meaning is a better God than happiness.

You're nearly 30 man, grow a pair. Read brave new world and lift some weights. Get that fucking fire going in your belly.
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>>20565402
>Read brave new world
I read that as a teen. Fucked me up pretty hard.

>grow a pair
I don't see how either of these things relate to roasties.
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>>20565410
Just pretend you live at a lighthouse

Ever since I found a lawyer to finalize my divorce I've been feeling a lot better

San Francisco is a literal Concentration Camp at this point so I don't know how much longer this party is going to last

>Brave new World

>Then they partied and got married only to find out they were never the same
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>>20565410
How they relate to roasties is that you're out of touch with the real world. You really think it's more likely to be the fault of all women than the fault of you? You can do this anon.
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>>20565438
The moral of brave new world is that meaning is more important than happiness
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>>20563677
>don't date
>means don't "fuck"
Huh. One night stands count as dates now. Cool, cool.
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>>20565443
i was making an Allegory, but to each their own man

I am no Humanist

I am just sitting here waiting for my gun so I can kill some fools
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>>20565454
>Legal Disclaimer- At Mom's discretion
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>>20565440
Am I out of touch with the world, though? Maybe, but I can only relate what I've seen.

It'd be nice if I was wrong, but I don't see 25-year old female virgins very often.
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I really don't get this shit, old dads (we're talking 30s-50s) with kids from previous divorces/paying child support for creep on 20 y/o women all the fucking time. What makes you so different from us for being uncomfortable with 30 y/o single moms? At least she's only 30 and not pushing her luck at goddamn 55+.
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>>20563305
You must be under 35.

No one who's hit their mid-30s and watched what happens with the people in their age group as the true desperation of "oh fuck, I'm genuinely about to be doomed to dying alone and having no kids" panic takes hold.

I'm 36 and some of the pairings I've seen in the last two years have boggled my mind.
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>>20565473
Two things.

Female fertility declines sharply, compared to male fertility.

Raising another man's child is a waste of resources, and any mother worth her salt will always put her kid over you.
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>>20565453
Read the article, brainlet.
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>>20565494
So just because some women choose to not be whore, that means they all do
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>>20565503
It's not even choose, my bad. It's all self-reported. Which means trash
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>>20565503
No, it means there is an increase in virgin's overall, for both genders.
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>>20565545
>>20565517
See my correction. Just because people *say* they haven't had sex doesn't mean much. And just because the CDC says people say they have less sex doesn't mean much either
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>>20565517
Given that whores and sluts thinks it's cool to have fucked someone, it actually means there are more likely to be be false reports of having had sex.

All this "sexual freedom" bullshit.
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What exactly makes someone a roastie, do I qualify?

>31 year old female
>no children
>divorced alcoholic husband, ending a 12 year relationship (I started dating him when I was 18)
>financially independent
>definitely more sexual partners than an incel but I have a clean bill of sexual health
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>>20565603
>definitely more sexual partners than an incel
1 is more than an incel by definition, so that's kinda useless information.
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>>20565603
>>20565616
It's not an incel definition, you're a slut if you've fucked more than 1 guy, simple as.
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>>20565639
Oh okay. So no matter the circumstances if you’ve fucked more than one guy you’re a roastie?
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>>20565484
You lie. You can't he older than 21. What you described doesn't happen outside of incel fantasies. It's like you have never met people in their 30s.
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>>20565639
So you are either an incel or a slut.

Interesting opinion you got yourself there.
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>>20565603
Are you single? I like your style, let's go on a date.
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>>20565653
according to incels there are only virgins and sluts
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>>20565653
Guys can't be sluts though.
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>>20565660
Mansluts are a real thing.
Just like there’s a roastie fucking numerous men, there’s the manslut counterpart who fucks his slut “platonic” years-long female friends and other random hoes. Sometimes they are even worse than sluts.
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>>20565660
>t. roastie
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>>20565660
They can if they're gay.
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>>20565655
Hahaha. Last time I went on a date with a guy who said he went on 4chan it was awful.
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>>20565687
Men and Women aren’t equal you liberal faggots

A man uses his value to maximize sex

A woman uses her value to minimize sex

Evolution doesn’t stop at the neck
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>>20565651
Actually he is correct I've seen my cousin hit the 30 without almost anything except a lawyer title that couldn't use since no job, she got really depressed and desperate the coming years she got a dude and practically married since living with him for years counts and now is pregnant.
I don't really know how she was in college tho.
My other cousin who was nearing 30 also inmeditaly got married to an ex boyfriend. However I know for a fact that she is a party girl and had many sex partners and even in her wedding day after the wedding went to a fucking nightclub drunk, I genuinely feel bad for her husband. I can smell the divorce in a couple of years now
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>>20565877
You sound like roasties, defending their inability to stop themselves from sleeping with the best thing they can get at any given moment.

Your kind is so sad. I hope you find another roastie to settle with. The thought of someone this pathetic, growing old and dying all alone, makes me sad.
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>>20563301
Love isn’t a lie, it’s an obsession that makes people do horrible things. When my parents divorced when I was kid, my dad took my brother and me hostage in order to force our mum to see him. She didn’t want to see him, she wasn’t able to tolerate his personality and way of life. Being used like that is a horrible thing to experience.
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This thread and most of the replies are a fucking joke.
I have no idea why you guys think even roasties would stoop and date men like you.
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>makes roastie joke
>IS LOVE REAL??? WHY DON'T WOMEN LIKE ME?!
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>>20563301
1Jn 4:7-21 KJV
7] Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God.
8] He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love.
9] In this was manifested the love of God toward us, because that God sent his only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through him.
10] Herein is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us, and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins.
11] Beloved, if God so loved us, we ought also to love one another.
12] No man hath seen God at any time. If we love one another, God dwelleth in us, and his love is perfected in us.
13] Hereby know we that we dwell in him, and he in us, because he hath given us of his Spirit.
14] And we have seen and do testify that the Father sent the Son to be the Saviour of the world.
15] Whosoever shall confess that Jesus is the Son of God, God dwelleth in him, and he in God.
16] And we have known and believed the love that God hath to us. God is love; and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him.
17] Herein is our love made perfect, that we may have boldness in the day of judgment: because as he is, so are we in this world.
18] There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love.
19] We love him, because he first loved us.
20] If a man say, I love God, and hateth his brother, he is a liar: for he that loveth not his brother whom he hath seen, how can he love God whom he hath not seen?
21] And this commandment have we from him, That he who loveth God love his brother also.
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>>20565438
Oh man, SF is hell for dating as a guy. I say this as a 6’2 white male. The level of narcissism of women here is off the charts, just constantly fueled by orbiting tech boys in a 1:3 ratio or worse. (Still not as bad as San Jose, though!)
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>have no job/low wage job
>have no social life
>wank so much you can't get hard without porn
>have no hobbies besides 4chan
>wants to find a qt virgin to build a future with
>has no prospects to build a future
>has nothing to offer a good girl

This is the real issue here
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>>20563301
Love is a lie, duh, yes.
But you don't need to be a faggot about it.
Jeez.
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>>20563742
Truth.
Mental capcity is underrated by dicks and dickheads.
You want a hole to fuck? Get a standing relationship with a whore or three.
Want a life partner? Look beyond dickhead shit.
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>>20564509
Who made you the arbiter of "most men"?
Most men don't prefer man ass, faggot, but here we are on fucking 4han if you see where I'm coming from eh?
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>>20567034
ITT: Triggered Incel

What a long way to say that you love penis
Post a pic of yourself with time stamp
Post Postrate Pic to prove you’re a man and not an incel-bot
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>>20569888
DIGITS CONFIRM
Spread em wide boys/robots
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>>20567241
Lmao this
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>Guy
>Almost 30
>Look literally like 21
>As fit and healthy as 18
>Starting to prey on young girls because the one my age look almost like my mother next to me

Feels good. Behold bitches, because I've defeated time.



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