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All I did since high school was spent my time playing games and going on the internet. Wasting lots of time. Until I met a girl online a while ago who became eternally obsessed with me and made me think more critically about my life. She is 16 as of now, will be 17 in a few months. She lives only a couple hours away. Yes, dare I say, we are in love now. I have something roughly planned out with me and her. When she is done with high school, I can move into an apartment with her, and we plan to go into the same college. I'll study computers, and she plans to do the same. I have a feeling that this is my chance to get away and move on with my life. I am tired of being at my parents house. I am tired of being in my high school's hometown. Then this girl comes around, pretty smart actually, knows her responsibilities and becomes madly in love with me to the point where I really believe nothing could go wrong. Basically, I found what most of /adv/ continue to search for. What do you think could go wrong? Will this plan work out? I am 24.
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Her parents know? Is that age legal there?
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>>20453270
Her dad knows about me. No mom. Seems cool with it as long as I don't threaten. USA.
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>>20453252
I guess if her parents are okay with it, sure why not. Just don't do anything sexual til she legal, and be extremely careful about talking about the relationship publicly with other people until that point.
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>>20453252
How can you even relate to a 16yo... I'm the same age as you and when I'm playing pubg sometimes I squad with my 16 yo bro and he's retarded.

Don't do it have some dignity... Also I've got a sister of similar age, if this happened to her I'd assault you, accuse you of rape/harassment and sue. It's disgusting, work in yourself first then get a gf who's an acceptable age. Incels here are out of touch if they think it's acceptable
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How do you guys find a way to date younger girls by a large margin. I mean 8 years ffs.
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>>20453325
Same interests. Same hobbies. She works, I work. What else? She will get older you know. And if you assaulted me you'd go to jail. Screw the other shit.
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>>20453354
16 yos are absolutely retarded. It's abusive cause of the huge difference in intelligence and that you should know better.

Don't do it, and if you do be aware many will have the same opinion as me. Literally all it takes is one successful (or even normal) person to kick up a shit storm and your life's done.
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>>20453372
I know other people have a similar opinion, obviously. I've had lots of doubts before, but I feel stuck with her anyway, so I want to make it work. Eventually she'll be 18, and what can the law do then? Nothing.
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>>20453395
It's your choice but got sound very naive. If her dad knows this could happen at any time, I'm sure her dad's unhappy about it.

Also lol if you think it ends at 18, i graduated from a famous uni and am well off, would literally just make up false rape and harassment accusations. It is abusive.

What your doing is wrong, accept it and move on.
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>>20453415
Yeah false rape like that will do anything. She wouldn't go along with that. There is no abuse going on.
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>>20453424
Fair enough go ahead :)

But remember, it's disgusting, abusive (cause she's so dumb and can't think clearly, you think she'd date you at 24) and could permanently ruin your life.
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>>20453432
It's not disgusting, more like weird, which is fine by me. It's not abusive, because there is no abuse. She clearly likes me, and she isn't dumb just because your brother is retarded. My life is fine. I am not in a position of authority. You're just mad.
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>>20453467
If you can't tell a 16 yo is retarded there's something wrong with you. My bro is on track to graduate valedictorian and the difference between me and him is incredibly obvious
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>>20453487
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>>20453432
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>>20453325
16 is legal in a ton of US states chill out you fags. Let OP live have his high school anime dreams. It's probably legal
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>>20453487
Retarded in what way? I do have more experience, and that much is obvious. But what's your point? She is probably more well off than you.
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>>20453497
God damn, California is such a backwards place.
>world capital of porn and degeneracy of all types
>age of consent 18
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>>20453531
General intelligence and clueless about the adult world. It's wrong, accept it and lol if you think a 16 yo has more money than me I got a house years ago
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>>20453555
You sound like you're far up your ass. I'm sure there is millions of 16 year olds out there more well off than you. You gotta give me some examples bud, you can't just be vague and tell me she doesn't know about the "adult world" when it's clear that she does. General intellect means fuck all when you're not being specific.
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>>20453567
Ok, she lacks education. She lacks "life education".

You have the mental age of a child, "I'm sure there are millions of 16 richer than you" of course there fucking aren't cause they've never worked a proper career or had enough time to save.
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There is a shit ton of kids with a much higher intelligence than you, and who are already stacked. You don't have to deny it so harshly. It's obviously true.

You're just parroting vague shit other morons tell you. You still won't tell me how and what she specifically lacks for it to not work as a relationship. "Life education" is no different than what you said in the last post. You're certainly not at the endgame of this "life education".
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>>20453608
I'm a Cambridge graduate, own a house paid off at 24 and not a fucking incel living at home with mummy.

All you've said is cringe, 16 is a child and there's no getting around it. She's immature. Not arguing with some manchild who has no grasp on reality, works some shitty min wage job and won't accept the truth.
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>>20453626
Again, far up your ass. You're a nobody with a shitty life just like everyone else who's stuck on /adv/. I have no grasp on reality because I'm dating a young beauty. Cool. I just wonder how much of the truth you're stretching.
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Anyone can pretend to be what they want online. Meet this girl in person first and hang out with her more than a few times before committing to anything like this. It's a nice fantasy but her intentions may be different than you realize, or you might find the idea no longer appealing after meeting.

Whatever you decide op I wish you luck.



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