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>I like her a lot
>she likes me a lot
>she has too much things on her plate with work at the moment
>might be a few months till it stabilizes
>we can't spend time together
>almost not even dating

What should I do? One part of me tells me to be patient the other try to forget.
Any opinion from femanons would be great. Ask me if you need more details..
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>>20324901
>Ask me if you need more details..
why post the same thread daily?
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>>20324912
I thought to give it one more shot.. Get some other opinions from different people, but I guess it's just us on /adv/.
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>>20324901
Oh shit anon I'm in the same situation you are in. Good luck brother.
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>>20324901
Have you asked her out or otherwise indicated that you want to be a couple?
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>she has too much things on her plate with work at the moment

Pro tip - that's what girls say when they DON'T like you a lot. If she was really into you she'd make the time, trust me. "Might be a few months" bullshit is her hoping you'll become disinterested and wander off so she doesn't have to crush you.

Sorry mate, but this is 100% true.
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>>20324901
Every taken woman I know says the same thing: if she wanted it to work, she'd find a way.
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>>20326078
>Have you asked her out
Isn't op saying he's asking her on dates but she doesn't have time or am I misreading?
I'm kind of in this situation and she is making time it's just hard. On the other hand she won't meet up fri or sat night, so idk. I think I'll call her out on it.
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>>20326216
Came to post this.

It is always, ALWAYS an excuse to say you're "too busy" for a relationship.

Outside of being a fucking astronaut, you can always make time
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>>20326261
I'm sure at least one astronaut has managed a healthy, positive relationship
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Is she busy with work in another city or something? That would be understandable. If she's launching a career, fine. If she's in the same fucking neighborhood and not seeing you you're fucked.Sorry mate
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>>20326249
If *he wanted it to work, *he'd find a way

FTFY
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If you both like each other a lot then you’ll be fine.
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>>20324901
That pic is of the top level of the double decker buses in Hong Kong
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>>20324901
>she likes me a lot
>she has too much things on her plate with work at the moment

This is categorically false. Pick one. If you matter she will always choose you. Move the fuck on.
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>>20326346
Except it is the girl who is putting up barriers
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A friend of mine said she had no time to date this dude, because she wanted to study on her masters to become a top notch scientist.
She and the dude are now married.
It can be worth it to wait, but make sure you are not getting played for a fool.
Don't be shy to keep your options open for now.
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>>20326078
We slept together many times.

>>20326320
She will work in another close by city.
She is just starting a career.
We live in the same building.



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